find a partner elsewhere*
I doubt that NO GUY has hit on you
@Random_Guy_Online Unless I'm completely oblivious to it? No, not in years.No, I'm not exaggerating either; apparently guys see me more as a friend than romantic interest.
lol, I tried hitting you on but you just kept putting yourself down.Unless you don't count online interactions.
@Juxtapose You were hitting on me? When? Then again I did say I'm oblivious at times so I wouldn't have known unless you outright said, "Hey, I'm flirting with you!" Lol. And no, I really don't go by online interactions considering no one knows what I look like in real life, so one's opinion may vary compared to real life
When I was asking to see you. I guarantee you if you showed a picture of yourself to me, I would have dispelled a lot of your insecurities.
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I choose nice guys but they don't choose me. No matter how much I try to flirt with nice guys, most of the times they either flat out reject me or don't get my hints.
Not getting your hints, I can see happening. Without being able to observe you, I can't tell you why you might be getting rejected. Here's the thing- guys can be oblivious especially ones who aren't used to being hit on. If a guy doesn't seem to get it, simply suggest meeting up sometime for coffee and get his number. Really all you have to do is get his number.
Why would she have to date an older and not just get with a guy around her age? 30’s old is pretty grown for both men and woman and I’ll tell you rn don’t think men just get to decide to be with young women when nope not happening unless you got money or are attractive so I suggest all 30+ year olds who are single to seriously consider eachother.
@laPrincesitaRoxi "unless you got money or are attractive" im assuming she prefers men who aren't fat and broke... as most women do. In which case no hot successful man who is in his early 30s is dating a woman in her early 30s unless its casual and he's just playing her or he is very materialistic and she is like a lawyer or something... but then again does she want a very materialistic man? So back to what i said, go for older to avoid being played or being with a fat broke guy.
Which is true or hey the occasional girl with daddy issues which is definitely more than likely a very very damaged girl, most normal young people aren’t going to just be okay with being with someone that much older like it’s not gonna happen. Also well most guys who think they got it like that end up hurt and alone anyways lol, you can think you’re a prize and act like one but that won’t anyone’s actually interested in winning you makes sense? I think it’s silly for older people to think they’re above like it’s silly lol
@laPrincesitaRoxi I don't know what you're talking about.
Okay than 🙃🤪
@laPrincesitaRoxi I think you're missing the point. This woman feels she isn't meeting the right men, maybe she's too mature for 30 yr old men. Personal preference plays a key role here, and if you find yourself more serious about love than your peers of the same age, maybe you should *try* dating older men to see if it changes anything. Nothing is set in stone.
How is a 30 year old women going to be “too mature” for an equally as grown man? If that’s the case somethings wrong with the man because scientifically speaking your brain definitely stops growing at 25 so if you’re still “immature past that” maybe it’s not immaturity and actually you just genuinely not being a normal person
@laPrincesitaRoxi Is it fair that women ignore men in their 20s because they have little in the way of status and resources? No, but that's what women value in men: status and resources (in addition to looks). Few women want a man sharing a starter apartment with a buddy and driving a 15-year-old car and going to McDonalds for dates - not when she can date a guy in his 30s with his own house, a nice car, and who can take her on weekend trips at a nice hotel and to nice restaurants.But there's a flip side to that coin: men value women for their YOUTH and FERTILITY - not for their degrees and careers - and men with a high Social Market Value (looks, resources, status) want women of equal value - meaning women with youth and fertility. That's why men in their 30s & 40s date and marry women in their 20s: because they can.I wrote a long post about this already today, and you can read that here:I get panic attacks when I think how long it’s been since I’ve had sex? ↗
That doesn’t happen young people date and fall in love all the time, there’s no gold to chase when you’re a normal person and yes being normal also probably means not dating and old guy that would more than likely disappoint your parents to their core if you genuinely settled with. Also few people in life want that in general tf lol nobody wants a round of applause for settling with someone who can’t actually a afford a good lifestyle or someone you can’t do much with in general because they probably don’t have a good work ethic or don’t know how to spend money right js. Also that’s pretty gross if YOU think like that but don’t try and make it seem like all guys are like that and guys around my age definitely do care about what women are doing with their lives because nobody wants to live a low class lifestyle rn unless you’re super super different tbh. Also no they can’t 😂😂 lmfaooo it’s uncommon and pretty sad when it happens like no mames she’s just wasting her life away but girls lifeThat are always just fucked up in the head anyways so it’s okay.
@laPrincesitaRoxi do you even live in reality? Me and my friends are all in our 30s im 33 and the oldest is 38. Not one of us has a girlfriend or has dated anyone recently older than 24 years old... and thats the guy who is the oldest at 38. So I don't know what you're talking about tons of girls date much older men 10 or more years older than them.
And why have none of you actually found good women yet how are you all still single? Was it maybe they were troubled women and y’all didn’t last perhaps? What was it what ended it lol
@laPrincesitaRoxi one of my friends is married. Like i said what you're talking about makes no sense. Nobody i know marries older women. I went to a wedding last year and he was 30 and she was 19. So i mean in my town and in the social circles im aware of this is how it works.
& that’s not you though and I still wouldn’t just assume she’s not out of her mind still lol. And ewwwww wtf do you mean? Omfg that’s fucking horrifying 😭😭😭😭😭 this made my stomach turn fr fr, there’s no way that girl didn’t have a seriously tough past because damn..
Well I do enjoy being hit on, who doesn't? They may be players but most of them know how to strike a conversation. I am friendly by nature, and I tend to friendzone players. But nice guys never approach me, it's always me who makes moves on them. It sucks because if I'm flirty they think I'm a slut, but if I'm friendly they think I just want to be friends. If I'm neither then they don't do anything either and we stay strangers.
I have a very friendly, cheerful personality.
Umm, do have many male friends?
50/50, but I did get along more with the guys on that party then with girls.
See that is the reason
So nice guys don't want to be with me because I have male friends? I have never heard anything more absurd.
I used to be like that. Don't be a meanie And yes girls with too many male friends don't come as too good
You might think it's absurd but he's right.