How does a shy, non aggressive girl compete?

newgirlontheblack
The same thing keeps happening to me: I avoid men I like and then they get snatched up by women who aren’t as educated and, perhaps, not as attractive. I like a guy right now and months ago I was told he liked me, but now there is another girl (not officially his girlfriend) always hovering over him and I’ve been “warned off” by mutual friends (oh you can’t go for him. t likes him and she will be so upset.”) Over and over this happens. I want them to talk to me, approach me, but they never do! I feel invisible and alone
How does a shy, non aggressive girl compete?
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