Guy has initiated 3 small short conversations with me by replying to my Instagram story updates and we’re not friends or anything. He hasn’t carried the conversations with me and neither me tbh. I don't know if he’s testing the waters.
Guy has initiated 3 small short conversations with me. He hasn’t carried the conversations with me and neither do I tbh. I think that if he didn’t want to talk to me he wouldn’t have initiated those conversations. Also I’m afraid that know he might think that I don’t like him... would u as a guy lose interest in this situation or be hopeful that u talk more in the future?
Short answers with no follow-up questions is same as showing no interest in having the conversation going. Ie it's showing no interest in actually forming a relationship. That is in the big picture not for a single text, but the sum of them all.
Tbh his reply was the last one and it was very simple...
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Have u as a guy ever initiated small conversations with a girl on online to test the waters :) ?
Probably but i tend to be more direct.I would suggest that people dont do things without a reason, though what that reason is can't be certain but it should be fairly obvious that most of what people do if they aren't already getting laid is try to get laid, we are animals and its natural, its what you are doing right now so why should he be different?
Guy I barely know has initiated small short conversations. I don't know maybe he doesn’t know how to carry conversations. So ai thought maybe he’s trying to see if I’m responsive...
He could be attracted to you, but is nervous when talking to you. He could just be a shy individual and be practicing talking to girls in general to build his confidence and get into the flow. Possibly it’s just a gender communication incompatibility. Guys tend to be more reserved and keep conversations short, to the point, and information based when talking to other guys and many girls will fill a conversation with a bunch of extraneous information. So if he’s use to succinct conversation and you’re a real motormouth it might just be different than what you are use to. He could be lonely and just trying to meet new people and make friends, but he’s socially awkward. You keep listening so maybe that’s comfortable enough for him, so he keeps coming back. I guess that’s several things to consider.
Would guy be nervous to talk to a girl even on online?
I guess it’s possible. Some people overthink things. Some guys might get nervous even online.
It’s a metaphor, u don’t know the meaning of “test the waters” ?
No I dont know English perfectly. because I didn't borned or lived in counrty which speaking English. but I guess if your own water 😈