Guys is it right for my boyfriend to run to his mom always about us telling her everything?

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He went and screenshotted and sent his mom all our personal msgs and then she sent me a rude message telling me to leave him alone and making me threats of losing him, she sent me a long message and he let her talk to me like that, he even let's his friend talk to me in any manner too, I feel a relationship should be between two people, he does everything his mom tells him to do even if she says to leave me, and he chooses his friend over me aswell, is this right?

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1 y

And his mom told him to leave me now too

Answer 1

sheikalana | 874 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

I'm the same with my mom because she always gives good advice. However I don't share absolutely everything specially private things and I don't think is right for his mom or anybody else to have a say in your relationship that is very immature and he's acting like a mommy's boy.

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1 y
He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun
sheikalana

1 y
None of this makes sense. Honey you need to be strong and understand that this is a toxic behavior and it won't get any better. You'll eventually get over him it definitely takes some time but you will and it's for the best.

Answer 2

Asker

He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun

Answer 3

sheikalana

None of this makes sense. Honey you need to be strong and understand that this is a toxic behavior and it won't get any better. You'll eventually get over him it definitely takes some time but you will and it's for the best.

Answer 4

laPrincesitaRoxi | 60 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

As a mom honestly if he’s having to tell his mom about you tbh you
Might be treating him wrong but at the same time he should just leave you if this is repetitive but if it is at that point it’s not like he’s just doing it cuz he’s deeply hurt but rather to be petty and that’s not okay at all

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Answer 5

Kaneki05 | 762 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

anybody who always threats of you losing them is just been abusive really, then trying to tell his mum "oh she so bad she should really listen to what i say and treat me this exact way" 101 controlling asshole.

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1 y
He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun
Kaneki05

1 y
Just break up with him. And when he comes back tell him to fuck off. And if renting a place off your dad well just money for your dad there nothing wrong there just tell your parents you don't like him and don't want to be with him no matter what. And they shouldn't force you to be with someone anyway even if they like him.

Answer 6

Asker

He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun

Answer 7

Kaneki05

Just break up with him. And when he comes back tell him to fuck off. And if renting a place off your dad well just money for your dad there nothing wrong there just tell your parents you don't like him and don't want to be with him no matter what. And they shouldn't force you to be with someone anyway even if they like him.

Answer 8

Wise4myage | 5.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

That's called a red flag. He's a mamma's boys and you shouldn't tolerate such behavior.

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1 y
He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun
Wise4myage

1 y
Wow, talk about toxic. This guy takes the cake. You need to do whatever it takes to remove yourself from this situation permanently.

Answer 9

Asker

He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun

Answer 10

Wise4myage

Wow, talk about toxic. This guy takes the cake. You need to do whatever it takes to remove yourself from this situation permanently.

Answer 11

cloud9vortex1234 | 207 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

WTF? He needs to get it through his head this isn't ok. He should know better

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1 y
He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun
cloud9vortex1234

1 y
I don't see why you would want to stay. It's very unhealthy. How bad he's treating you blatant and overwhelming.

Answer 12

Asker

He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun

Answer 13

cloud9vortex1234

I don't see why you would want to stay. It's very unhealthy. How bad he's treating you blatant and overwhelming.

Answer 14

Anonymous

get out of this relationship asap.
This is not appropriate and this is toxic af

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1 y
He is 24 and yet tells her our stuff and she sent me such a hurtful message and he said it's right what she said💔. He says it's right that he does this, and now is msging my parents to also be on his side he has turned every one against me, he told his mom my personal stuff, and his friend he always takes his side it's like he values him more than me, and now I am made bad for wanting to be a priority to him
Opinion Owner

1 y
you are dating him , not his mother. He should not share very personal stuff with her. He can ask for generic help like we all do from our friends and fanily , but sharing everything is too much.

It's a good thing he and his mother are already planning on breaking up with you , just go with the flow. This is really not your fault , even if somehow you manage to save the relationship , the mother and your boyfriend's attitude will cause problem in future for sure.

It's a major red flag. Don't waste your time now , use it somewhere else
Asker

1 y
He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun
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Opinion Owner

1 y
if he wants to stay single , let him be single for the rest of his life.
Why are you stuck? If after all this you are with this loser its your own fault. You need to have some self respect and kick him out of your life obviously he doesn't respect you.

There isn't any shortage of guys in this world , find a better guy next time
Opinion Owner

1 y
muster some courage and break up with him.
what are you waiting for? For him to break up with you? that's even more humiliating.

Answer 15

Asker

He is 24 and yet tells her our stuff and she sent me such a hurtful message and he said it's right what she said💔. He says it's right that he does this, and now is msging my parents to also be on his side he has turned every one against me, he told his mom my personal stuff, and his friend he always takes his side it's like he values him more than me, and now I am made bad for wanting to be a priority to him

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

you are dating him , not his mother. He should not share very personal stuff with her. He can ask for generic help like we all do from our friends and fanily , but sharing everything is too much.

It's a good thing he and his mother are already planning on breaking up with you , just go with the flow. This is really not your fault , even if somehow you manage to save the relationship , the mother and your boyfriend's attitude will cause problem in future for sure.

It's a major red flag. Don't waste your time now , use it somewhere else

Answer 17

Asker

He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

if he wants to stay single , let him be single for the rest of his life.
Why are you stuck? If after all this you are with this loser its your own fault. You need to have some self respect and kick him out of your life obviously he doesn't respect you.

There isn't any shortage of guys in this world , find a better guy next time

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

muster some courage and break up with him.
what are you waiting for? For him to break up with you? that's even more humiliating.

Answer 20

yucychan | 286 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

So why are you still with him?

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Answer 21

Lena24

Xper 4

Girl leave this momma boys ass. This is not ok.

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1 y
He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad💔 he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun💔
Lena24

1 y
Wow ok he truly is an ass. I'm sorry that you're going through this. It must be hard for you. If it were me I would not go back to him. Don't tolerate his behaviour. You deserve so much better. Just take some time for yourself and get over him. The way he is acting now is a red flag for the future. Take some time and focus on yourself. ❤️ Maybe have a badass glow up and show him what he's missing 😉💕

Answer 22

Asker

He thinks the way his mom spoke to me ir right she sent me such a rude message and he let her, and now he is manipulating my parents to be on his side over me too trying to make me look bad💔 he even chooses his friend over me that he lives with here, and the worst part is he is renting a place from my dad right here how must I get over him like this? He said he wants to stay single untill he even feels he wants to come back to me so now I am just a doormat to run back to after he has had his fun💔

Answer 23

Lena24

Wow ok he truly is an ass. I'm sorry that you're going through this. It must be hard for you. If it were me I would not go back to him. Don't tolerate his behaviour. You deserve so much better. Just take some time for yourself and get over him. The way he is acting now is a red flag for the future. Take some time and focus on yourself. ❤️ Maybe have a badass glow up and show him what he's missing 😉💕

Answer 24

Fuentes | 3.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Sounds like a weirdo get rid of him

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