Am I right to be upset about my boyfriend's facebook status?

[Definitely]

If you've been in a relationship at that point, I'd advice you to leave before he cheats on you with someone else. That right there was an attention seeking attempt, likely intended for his crush. He's testing the waters, trying to get a reaction out of her. Probably because he's not aware if she's single or not, trying to squeeze that information out. What if his crush decided that she's interested in him now? Would he still remain with you? What if you get married and his crush becomes interested in him? Would he remain faithful? It doesn't look like that to me... So my advice is leave

[Levin]

No idea the message he's trying to convey. Perhaps you should ask him.

Of more pressing concern is your 30 year old boyfriend appears to have the maturity of a 14 year old teen.

[Marilynjuana]

Sure it's weird, pathetic and disrespectful but probably a stupid joke. OR he has some creepy issues..