he decided to end things for now so he can focus on school. we met up one last time to talk and he told me he also doesn't trust himself doing long distance and he doesn't want to hurt me. i was insistent that we end things for good, because this isn't the first time long distance has gotten in the way of us. he insisted that its just until he figures things out and is secure w school but he also doesn't want me to wait for him. i was crying the whole time but he didn't cry up until he read a letter i wrote for him. he started sobbing in my arms. then he told me that he doesn't want to lose me and for me to cut him out. im not sure what to do because i dont want him to hurt me a third time in the future.