Yes, that does seem to be the case! Money must be the only good quality they have to offer.
That's very true. :)
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You explained that very well, thanks.
Thanks for sharing that story. It was a really good example.
I regret driving her away. She ended up doing something to hurt very bad a few weeks after we split. 2 years later I wrote an email to her about it (forgave her). I was honest about my shame in being unstable financially/directionally as well.
If you drove her away because you have an emotional attachment to "muh alpha male mentality" then you need to spend some time in a re-education camp.
@BazookaTrouper actually it was more complicated than that. I was losing physical attraction toward her for some stupid inexplicable reason. Used to go home and pound my head against the wall in self hatred.
Then you should add that in your explanation.
@BazookaTrouper it’s a rabbit hole I don’t want to go down.
If he wanted to build himself up before dating, the weird thing about that is that I met him on a dating site. It seems really backwards for him to set up a profile for the purpose of finding someone and then say he's not able to date.
For me I dont even think that way, its more about me not truly knowing why I feel that way and that's crazy cause I usually do. I think for me I just feel financially insecure and feel like if I loved her then I would always want to give her more.
Hmmm, maybe either he is trying to test you to see where your heart is at or maybe he was doing well and then some trauma happened and now he is unsure whether to pursue a relationship right now.Because men don't normally (I dont think anyway) say that as an excuse. Either they would say that you're not compatible or just ghost you.
I really enjoyed the video. It was nice to see things from a different perspective.
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I don't really see why that second one is relevant. I'm not that type of person who used guys for money.
not saving for you. just in general scene. some girls use guys for their money but offer nothing in return.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys seem to have low self-esteem in that area.
Are you working right now?
@Flower7 No that is the thing I'm on disability I have more going out than coming in my checkis only $805.10 I only worked temporary jobsin High School
Ok I see. Sorry to hear that.
@Flower7 Yeah I need to live somewhere I can have lower rent with bills included and I can't do it with where I live now
Well, when he mentioned that to me, what I told him was that he could come over to my apartment so we could see each other without it costing anything, but he wouldn't do that either.
That is strange. I don't know what his real reason is then.
Flower,maybe he reacted like this, because of "pride"...
@panorpan Perhaps, but I would take pride in a girl that didn't care if the guy she wants has money.
Or they have different morals, and they think the right thing to go about a date is to pay. I can totally see that being the case
I'm not sure how principled he is. He took me on one date and paid for our dinner, but would never go on a second date. Eventually, he said his reason for that is because he was having financial problems. So I offered to have him come to visit me at home since that wouldn't cost anything, but he turned that down also.
He might not be telling you the truth
That's what I think.
That's true to a point, sure.
Why not just date her if your financial situation didn't bother her?
because id have to think about her aswell as myself, i wasn't ready for that.
Women weren’t the ones who came up with the whole “men should pay, women should be passive” sort of role
Your mother supports you financially?
What did i say dude
I'm definitely not the high maintenance type.
That would not turn me off*
After he told me that, I asked him to go on a date that was free, but he still wouldn't go.
I'll go with you. ☺
I guess we would be having homemade supreme pizza.
Woohoo!! Yeah!! Lol unless you want Mexican food? 😗
What's your favorite Mexican food to make?
I like making rojo enchiladas, y frijoles y sopa de arroz, y flautas, y tacos y burritos.
Those sound delicious. The only ones I've tried out of those are tacos and burritos.
Then i should you a few things lol
Did you ever regret that later?
No, I wasn't ready for a lifetime commitment.