It’s not that you should be friends with her if you don’t want to. But if the only thing she did was not reciprocate to your interest in her does that really make you not like her as a person anymore. Or did that never really matter to begin with to you
Because if she's rejecting MEit's like saying " i don't even like you as a person"/friendthat's the pointthey're called BOYFRIENDS and GIRLFRIENDSnot rejected peoples
I rejected a boy I was interested in because he knew my ex. I didn’t elaborate why I rejected him because it was an awkward conversation. I didn’t really give him much of a reason at all, but out of all the guys who approach me I actually would have loved to get to know him. It’s pretty common for me to reject a man for reasons that don’t exactly translate to my dislike for him as a person. So what your saying is actually not true for a lot of women. Yeah SOMETIMES the girl just totally doesn’t like you as a human being. But most times it takes patience and no pressure. I didn’t expect a man who i rejected to wait around for me or even want to be friends after that. If he moves on, it’s understandable. But it doesn’t mean I was trying to diss him 100% of the time. probably more than half the time I reject someone because of personal reasons such as not being ready for a relationship or them being too young for me or something along those lines
You rejected himwhy should you be friends?
I didn’t want to be his friend. But I was taken aback at how his attitude towards me turned so cold. There was another case where a coworker of mine tried to get with me. He was cute and funny but I rejected him because I don’t mix business with pleasure and was told many times by others to never date a coworker. Even though I never experienced the drama, I needed that advice and avoided a potentially bad situation by rejecting my coworker. I was later told that he had been talking bad about me saying I wasn’t that cute. It was just surprising to me because I thought he liked me as a person and when I rejected him he insults me behind my back. It’s just confusing to me
thats the pointi shouldn't be friends, with girls who reject meTHAT WOULD BE STUPID, if you wanted to stay with someone who rejected you
hmm it depends on person girl. I faced a similar situation, I liked a girl she was always nice to me and she was caring and thats why i fell for her. I confessed she rejected me, she told me that i m just a good friend i respected her feelings and politely told her that i just need some time alone, I had to take pain so i took it moved on and kept her as her friend but she is not that close too me now like even if i would wish to i won't be able to and she won't too. I won't say anything bad bout her tho. But just a suggestion to you just never reject someone if you are not sure say them that i need more time just never rejects else he won't come again if he is a nice guy.
Basically all we're saying is, IT DOESN"T WORKIF YOU REJECT A GUY, YOU CAN NOT BE FRIENDS WITH HIM
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I don’t understand how that can be an obvious thing. Please elaborate.
Why would anyone continue to focus mental energy on someone that isn't interested in them? You're going to disengage and look elsewhere