He likes me so he probably is bitter. On the other hand he probably thinks I was a bad friend
Maybe he does. What did you do to him?
In his eyes I played with him and just used him for attention because I texted him but had no interest in anything beyond that.
Did you flirt with him, or in any way make it look like you wanted something beyond friendship?
And is he complaining that he can't be your friend anymore, or that he can't be more than friends?
I didn’t really flirt with him. I once told him I love you and one time I texted him after midnight saying I’m thinking about you while at a party. He probably feels this isn’t a friendship because we don’t hang out and I keep everything to text
Yeah, "I love you" can be confusing for some. Still, this sounds like the "nice guy" type everyone talks about. He's like the poster child. He should realize just saying that you love him and that you think about him doesn't mean you're leading him on
If that's all you did, really, then he should calm down
He probably wasn’t leading him on but it was a wrong thing to do considering I was never interested in him. He probably is hurt because he likes me but I text him with no interest in having a real life situation
We weren’t dating
I think he was just bitter that I wouldn’t date him
yeah, and yet you are using him
Using him? I’m confused
"you won't date him", but, you "carry him around, having him "be there for you""thats called, using someone
I didn’t make him be there for me, he chose to and he offered to be there
yet you're "not dating him"
Because he was my friend
no, you're using himand he doesn't realize it
What am I using him for since you know?
YOU ARE USING HIM
I’m waiting. You still haven’t said how.
I told you, YOU ARE USING HIMTHATS THE BOTTOM LINE
You have no proof so you just making an assumption
you literally said "you're not dating him". So you're USING HIM
So the fact I’m not dating him I’m using him? That makes absolutely no sense. I don’t know if you heard this but people have friendships and everything isn’t about sex
Hun you're a girl he's a guy, you said you're not dating himYOU ARE USING HIMGET OVER IT
Is he using me?
He was trying to date me and I was trying to be his friend
like i said, you're using him
You just don’t get it and you can’t even explain why that is how I can tell you don’t know what you’re talking about. You don’t even have all the details of the situation
you're USING HIM!
Sure I’m not
YES YOU ARE
I’m not and that is besides the point. You probably think men and woman can’t be friends
they can't beAND YOU ARE
You must be lonely
nope!that would be you
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I meant to say he said he was the only guy there for me in the midst of. an argument
Oh I guess he had your back is what he’s saying
But why would he say it in an argument?
I assume that he was agreeing with you
He was using it to go against me in regards to how I treat him
Seems confusing now, doesn’t seem to make sense what he is saying then
I fixed the mistake in the description
Means he cared for you. CareD
It seems like he tried to throw it in my face
Oh well what's in the past is in the past. Got to move on to a better guy