That’s probably how he feels. If someone only wanted to chat you wanted to hang out you probably would feel the same
No, I have women friends. I do not feel the same. I do know I am not a fan of texting back and forth about their “woes”. In person or just calling me is so much easier but I never think, “she just wants attention.” Let alone say that to any of them. Just how I am.
You’re making his point. I never wanted to meet up in person and only wanted to text. He probably didn’t like the back and forth of texting
I get the not wanting to text aspect, but where our dissent exist goes back to my point of him telling you you only want attention which “I” feel is a dick thing to say. My lone point.
He didn’t really say it but he implied that I want attention and I’m just bored
Understand “we” here on GaG are going purely by what you say and adjust our responses accordingly. We have nothing else to go by so when we read your words we assume that is how it literally happened. I have zero way to know he did not actually say that. What he implied could easily he interpreted differently by many here.
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Why isn’t it?
I believe he is your friend not fake
If he is my friend why argue with me about this? Clearly he likes me
Yeah could be both
That is why he is a fake nice guy because he is acting entitled?
Unfortunately most guys do that
Not really just fake nice guys. He probably doesn’t enjoy being a text buddy
They befriend you and tell you everything you wanna hear they work on your feelings and soon after make theIr move
He didn’t seek me out, actually I approached him. I think the more we talked he developed feelings but was scared to say something.
That’s exactly right
And once he gets you hooked he will make his move
And that’s where they get upset because you don’t feel the same. He feels I just like the attention because I initiate text but not interested in anything besides text communication
I agree with you you’re gonna have to stand firm
I am standing firm. We are friends so it is hard
You have to be mentally disciplined, you have to be tough. I know you can do it 👍
Should I keep our interactions to text only?
Yes if you feel that’s the best way
You know the term “nice guy”? Usually the guy really isn’t one and is pretending. Is he a fake nice guy if he likes me and tries to hang out but gets upset when I keep refusing. We are friends
The term nice guy only applies to guys who claim to be nice but aren'tAlso sounds like a normal emotional reaction when someone you like keeps refusing to hang out, why haven't you told him you just see him as a friend and that's all?
I told him we are just friends but he wants to hang out