I met Jay a year ago on a dating app. The chemistry and connection is great between us and we both agree. I Let Jay know I’m not ready for a relationship and we continued to talk. We would talk for days and then stop and he would text me “ did we break up? “ and the texting would start again. We have never gone on a real date and I was ok with that but I recently started getting some feelings for him. I don’t want to have feelings. We talk about everything but he messes with my head. He will make these random comments like when we buy a house together or we can just date each other. When I make a silly comment like aww Jay likes me he ignores it. We hung out the other night had a great conversation. He admitted he was confused about everything in his life and when I told him i am scared of what is happening between us because he could hurt me ( emotional). His come back was I won’t hurt you. You will find someone before I do. The sex was not like sex we had ever had before. It was slow and passionate. He text me the next day and then disappeared. What the heck?