My boyfriend has this thing where he will literally come into his room, throw things anywhere as he removes clothes and things off his body and then when it’s time for him to get things that he needs like his keys, money, wallet etc he’ll ask me where it is and when I say I don’t know or if I fail at finding it he has the nerve to get upset with me and call me childish for never paying attention. Why should I or would I pay attention to him or more like watch him like a hawk while he throws things down in his room. I suspect he was doing that way before dating me which means he had to look for those things or remember where he threw them at on his own. No one told him to be messy. He also will junky his room up looking for a outfit and shoes to go with it then will tell me “You see all this mess everywhere, you can at least clean it up for me.” Like you were literally the one that got your room junky. He says it to me like I’m obligated to clean after him.