I’m not nasty or bitter at all I’ve just had really bad experiences with “friends” in the past. I’m open to meeting new people but it’s kinda hard. I’m not clingy or anything either. I just think that most guys do mind it especially in their 20’s.
The thing with me is that I can’t be fake and I cut people off soon as they do something that upsets me.
You do seem sweet/kind so you wouldn't have a problem.
I nearly lost my life due to “friends” because her ex boyfriend really liked me. I was attacked and harmed for no reason when I didn’t even like the guy back, so this really caused trauma that for many years after that felt like I didn’t need no one.
Thank you by the way. ❤️!!!
She has serious issues and is in the minority catergory... Try to find/bond with people who will protect you and build you up.
All of those girls who took a part in that have definitely received their karma. But how do I meet people during this pandemic? Lol
I tried to respond back and instead it updated the question lol😂
People like her will always fail in life socially, learning to move on and forgive is the way haha. Well, during this pandemic i'd suggest the gym and then after COVID dies down join a sports team, go music festivals (you'll meet people who have similar taste to you), foreign language classes etc
Thanks!! But wouldn’t it be weird if I went to these music festivals by myself? Lol. I’ve always wanted to go to a rave. And I feel like the lack of my social life is ruining my dating life and this is a turn off for guys, so I’m really working on building my social life back up.
Of course you can go by yourself, just be confident you're bound to meet good people there... Especially at the gym. Are you in university currently? join some events/clubs
I just signed up to go back to school. It’s all online classes though. What sucks is I really want a boyfriend but I guess I need to go find some friends first lol. I’m 23 and I haven’t had a relationship yet but thats cause I had trust issues and wouldn’t go out and would be embarrassed for guys to know about my social life situation
I’ve turned down a lot of guys that I’ve even liked because I was so embarrassed about my life
You're still young asf, and got plenty of time to do whatever you want to do. Be more confident in yourself, don't let others define you stay true to yourself. If it helps, I have't had a serious relationship either hahah
Yes that helps a lot. I went out on a date last night with a handsome guy who’s a year younger than me, who doesn’t have a great social life either. Although I don’t really feel a connection there, I told him I haven’t had a serious relationship yet and he said he doesn’t like that... Lol! he also said he doesn’t want a virgin and doesn’t mind a girl who has sexual experience which I thought is weird. Most, if not all men I know wouldn’t want to date a hoe and some even prefer virgins.
I used to get made fun of by my sister for being 18 and having no boyfriend. It kinda hurts that I’m in the same boat 5 years later but nothing stays the same forever anyway so I’m hanging in there
Lmao as if he said that, I don't understand the logic behind that. Not having sexual intercourse at 23 is not an issue at all it's simply you've had sex or you haven't. DO you think you'll see him again?
Honestly I don’t know. I’m actually not a virgin I’ve just gotten played before lmao. But in this day and age who hasn’t. Aside from that, He isn’t really my type anyway so I don’t mind not seeing him again. I prefer dating guys older than me or at least my own age.
Aye that's fair, I am the same. Plenty of fish in the pond haha
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That’s normal for people 30 and up but for teenagers and 20 year olds I think it’s kinda sad lol
That’s just how I feel when I see my peers go out and have fun cause I mean this is the time to
I was friendless in my twenties as well.
Well you could’ve got away with that and nobody knew if you were a loner cause I bet social media wasn’t around at the time
Actually it was around back then. Facebook was popular when I was in college; and MySpace predated that.
Ah so you must be in your 30s
Yep, 36 to be exact.