When it comes to practical things, decision making and all sorts of things. He doesn’t want me to do things or make decisions without his help or input.
Hmm... does he also consult with you before making decisions? If so, then I think that's just part of being a normal, healthy couple. Based on your post though, I'm guessing that's not the case. If it's one-sided, then I'd definitely be concerned. You're dating the guy as a partner, not a father.
It’s mostly one sided and he does sometimes act like he was my father and I the disobedient child.
Is he quite a bit older than you? My ex was quite a bit older than me and always talked down to me. He acted like he knew everything. He was always right, and he always got the final say. On the receiving end, it's not an easy way to live.
He is older than me and a single dad. I wouldn’t say he talks down to me, but there’s no doubt he considers himself wiser.
See below. Not sure if it’s a masculinity boost to him or not, but he does want to be in charge of everything.
I read through your comments. Personally, I could never put up with a person like that. I like my freedom, I like being in charge of my own “stuff”. I guess some women wouldn’t mind being bossed around but you know your boundaries best..
you need to learn to be more independent and not rely or depend on him and you need to learn to love yourself and have self love. you'd be much better off dumping that psychopath in the long run
lady that's fucking sick what you're going through and yes I read all the comments and replies you gave and once again that's fucking sick what you're going through. you need to leave that psychopath like yesterday
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