Yeah I’d feel like it’s too forward if I’m not really comfortable with him cuz it has only been the first few days. It should be more about showing respect, earning trust, and getting to know each other appropriately. I mean he could be playful but not make a girl thinks he just want a cuddle buddy or casually if that’s where it’s heading... unless that’s what they’re both looking for.
I wouldn't be put off by that. Talking preferences is something that's normal and important. Plus, I do love spooning, so a dude who's into that is already in my good graces.
Only if you let it put you off. I asked a younger girl a few days ago if she liked oral in a texted me. She responded “No. Nobody likes giving head.” I then responded “I meant receiving”.
She then acted flirty but also stand offish after that. I didn’t push it. But there is something about she that makes my mouth water. But that is the first time I brought up anything sexual.
@fishlipsfriend really? Spooning is spooning. It’s penetration.
I guess it’s a softer entry because the guy is cuddling with you. I’ve never had a girl turn me down on that but I never texted about it either. I did when the girl was interested but stand offish.
Funny because many guys can accept a BJ and nada else like it’s no big deal. I wonder if some women feel the same vice versa. This girl is 15 years younger and I don’t see her immediately being gung ho straight penetration sex talk with a guy she met on bumble.
But there something about her that makes my mouth water. I definitely don’t do that on most girls but she looks yummy. But if that comes as too aggressive I’ll quit.
We talked about a lot of non sexual things but I want to drop a hint I’m interested. I learned my lesson years ago being too nice and platonic. But I also learned my lesson about being too aggressive which also scares women.
Always a tight rope.
If its early on i wouldn't call it spooning, it sounds too much like sex. I would phrase it more like "do you like cuddles"
I'd save it for if and when it comes up in real life -- like a more appropriate time.
I would take that as a red flag because he would be making me feel uncomfortable.
No way thts kl with me it seems fine it's not bad at all it feels nice nd good
No. It could have been way more personal or sexual of a question. Spooning is innocent enough. Maybe he loves it and his ex hated it. Nothing wrong with asking if you feel strongly about it.
It's too lame cause no one uses the word spooning anymore try cuddling lol more with the times
Yes, that's wayyy to soon, and he's making his intentions obvious.
What kind of a guy would ask that in the first place? 🤣🤣
Nah because I also ask that question lol... I want to know if he is affectionate and if he is that big soon. Its important to me
It's only as fast as you feel and as uncomfortable as you decide. I guess..
Well spooning isn't sex so I don't see an issue with it. It's like cuddling in a way
What is spooning anyway?
i only know spoon is being used when having a meal,
for example.. cereals..
What exactly is spooning anal sex
no it isn't
Not really
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