Why doesn't he talk to me?

Question

me and my guy friend have been going out since the 25th of last month, and it's weird cus we only see eachother Monday and Tuesday so far, and he seems so non social but he's starting to talk to me? I wanna know why he's not talking to me but also how to get him to talk to me more... I really need help.

Answer 1

Anonymous

As you saying he is starting to talk more to you, just give it time.

Tell him that you would like more talking from him during week...

Me as men do not need to talk as much as most of women/ girls do, this might be what happens with him an you are his first, so all discoveries for him...

Is it only me who not really OK giving dating advices to 13 y olds?
Better to find out here then 14 and pregnant...

Answer 2

Gwenhwyfar | 455 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Tell me how you guys ended up going out and what “going out” means to you. Just tryna figure out how you can go out with somebody and not talk to them like all the time.

_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
well, I told him I like him which I have for awhile and I could tell he felt the same so I decided to tell him, and he asked me out the next day, but I'm his first girlfriend...
Gwenhwyfar

2 mo
He’s not sure what to do with you. Get him alone to talk to him, then reach out and hold his hand. He’ll probably talk to you more often once you do that.
Gwenhwyfar

2 mo
Worked for me when I was your age

Answer 3

_jus_an_bean_

well, I told him I like him which I have for awhile and I could tell he felt the same so I decided to tell him, and he asked me out the next day, but I'm his first girlfriend...

Answer 4

Gwenhwyfar

He’s not sure what to do with you. Get him alone to talk to him, then reach out and hold his hand. He’ll probably talk to you more often once you do that.

Answer 5

Gwenhwyfar

Worked for me when I was your age

Answer 6

DaisyGirl2911

Xper 1

Ask him how his day was and also try to ask in a few days to hang and definitely bring it up with him and ask why he's not texting. Communication is essential.

Answer 7

Avicenna | 3.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Tell him that. Good communication is a must.

_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
that's true, I have asked him if there's any time he's not busy outside of school and he said maybe, so we'll prolly go on an official date soon I hope...
Avicenna

2 mo
Sounds good!

Answer 8

_jus_an_bean_

that's true, I have asked him if there's any time he's not busy outside of school and he said maybe, so we'll prolly go on an official date soon I hope...

Answer 9

Avicenna

Sounds good!

Answer 10

Iron_Man | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I don’t know what did you say to him

_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
I haven't said much, but if I try to say hi he'll ignore me, but I did get him to talk to me when I helped him in history class... we sit next to each other, but I haven't been able to say much.
Iron_Man

2 mo
He’s not worth it MoveOn
Iron_Man

2 mo
Oh you’re only 13 anyway forget it
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_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
oop.. but I'm turning 14. and I want him to be worth it..
Iron_Man

2 mo
And what would you do with him anyway
_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
take things slow. I'm not the type of person to instantly move to sex. I want to wait until marriage. but it'd be nice to have more conversations.
Iron_Man

2 mo
You should wait until marriage to have sex but guys are manipulating and they know how to brainwash women like you and say I love you we’re going to get married prove to me that you love me
_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
I know how guys are my ex was very manipulative. but I believe actions over words any day. I'm very perspective of someone's actions especially if I love them or care about them.
Iron_Man

2 mo
I don’t believe in children dating you might be mature and a good person but things happen
_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
sadly some teens and pre-teens are more mature than they should be due to trauma and I happen to be one of them.
Iron_Man

2 mo
Sorry to hear that, you do sound Intelligent though
_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
I've learned a lot from life. thanks, and it's okay.
Iron_Man

2 mo
God bless you I hope you do well in life
_jus_an_bean_

2 mo
same goes to you, and thank you! :)
Iron_Man

2 mo
😊 ...

Answer 11

_jus_an_bean_

I haven't said much, but if I try to say hi he'll ignore me, but I did get him to talk to me when I helped him in history class... we sit next to each other, but I haven't been able to say much.

Answer 12

Iron_Man

He’s not worth it MoveOn

Answer 13

Iron_Man

Oh you’re only 13 anyway forget it

Answer 14

_jus_an_bean_

oop.. but I'm turning 14. and I want him to be worth it..

Answer 15

Iron_Man

And what would you do with him anyway

Answer 16

_jus_an_bean_

take things slow. I'm not the type of person to instantly move to sex. I want to wait until marriage. but it'd be nice to have more conversations.

Answer 17

Iron_Man

You should wait until marriage to have sex but guys are manipulating and they know how to brainwash women like you and say I love you we’re going to get married prove to me that you love me

Answer 18

_jus_an_bean_

I know how guys are my ex was very manipulative. but I believe actions over words any day. I'm very perspective of someone's actions especially if I love them or care about them.