Me an my ex had our last conversation a few days ago. He said I'm sorry and I wished him all the best in his life with no intention of getting in touch with him again. I thought he understood I was done but a few days after he texted me again as if nothing happened and saying how sorry he is for making me suffer and how he opens I can forgive him bla bla bla. I still have strong feelings for him but he did me dirty once and I don't want to give him another chance to mess with my feelings. I've always had a hard time giving exes a second chance and even though I love him I'd rather keep my heart safe. Why do men come back after you tell them you're done?