Why do many guys think we do every shit for them?

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Why do many guys have such a huge ego and think the world is made for them? We dont dress, have make up or try to have healthy/fit body for you. I am not judging any woman who does that for men but stop generalizing. You really think we go to shopping and think "hmm i am going to buy clothes that guys like"? If that was the case why do many men dont like it when most women wear jeans, t-shirt which many men dont see as "most feminine" thing. The same guys get angry when some people say guys go to gym and get abs for women.

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MzAsh | 486 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

I do things for my man because he’s earned it from me in his character, his loyalty, and how he treats me.
The problem is, a lot of guys think all they have to do is get a good job, car, and spit game to have women fall in but honey, there’s a whole lot more involved regarding attitude, behavior, and overall character.

Another problem is, there are unfortunately some low quality women out there to hive a guy her fleeting attention just because he looks like he has his shit together when really those women should be doing a much better job at qualifying a man based on more than the material. So this is partially on those women to why things are the way they are.
The good news is, it can be easily corrected if women only give their attention and do things for men who are worthy of it.

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KatherineJ | 180 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I buy and wear things that make me feel pretty. Not for my husband, but for me!

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Anonymous

"You really think we go to shopping and think "hmm i am going to buy clothes that guys like"?"

Um, yeah we do think that. Why? Because it's a fact that a lot of women do exactly that, and we know it because they talk about it all the time, including here on GAG. Do all women dress to impress men? No. Do any women dress to impress women all the time? No. Do a lot of women dress to impress men a lot of the time? Absolutely.

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And a lot of men like feminine clothes but women tend to wear jeans which are seen not that feminine
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For me this is an egoistic to think like that. I also dont go around and think that guys dress for me
Opinion Owner

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Yeah, some women wear jeans and t-shirts, and like I said not all women dress to impress men and the ones who do don't do it all the time. But there is no question a lot of women dress to impress women a lot of the time. It has nothing to do with ego and everything to do with facts.
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Do you also wear shit for women? Would you be ok if we think wvery shit men does if for us?
Opinion Owner

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There are a lot of things men do in order to be more attractive to women. And no, I have no trouble acknowledging it nor do I have any problem with women saying it.

Get over yourself.
Opinion Owner

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By the way, you really need to stop saying "every shit". It makes you sound very uneducated.
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I can't when men call women sluts for trying to impress men but at the same time men get angry when they see women who dont give a shit about them and dont do a shit for them.
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I can say wtf i want, if you dont like, you can fuck off
Opinion Owner

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There is nothing wrong with women trying to impress men but if they choose to do it by dressing and acting like sluts then they are going to be judged for being sluts. I'm not sure why you have a problem with that. If a man dresses like a police officer, can you blame someone for assuming they are in fact a police officer?
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Omgg pathetic again this idiotic logic. Are you a real pig, if you dress like a pig you bastard?
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And stop slutshaming
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Men literally can show of their nipples. We allso dont call them male cunts
Opinion Owner

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Triggered much? lol

Grow up little girl.
Opinion Owner

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Just like some women who dress to impress men, some men go shirtless to impress women. So what? Unlike you, I have no problem admitting that because its true. You should try it.
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Because you call women sluts but dont say a shit about men who do the same
Opinion Owner

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You REALLY need to stop using the word 'shit' that way because you have no idea what you're saying and you sound like a complete dufus.

Stop making false assumptions about me. I look down on sluts, whether they are male or female. Your question was about females and that's what we were talking about here.

Many women CLEARLY dress to attracted sexual attention from men. That was what your question was about and I stand by everything I said. Women who deny that many women dress to impress and attract sexual attention from men just come off as the most dishonest people on the planet.
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I change my mind. I think there is nothing wrong with trying to look more attractive for the opposite gender. So it is ok to show of
Opinion Owner

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So you've decided to be honest then. Good for you.
Asker

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No i change my mind
Asker

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I dont why i am telling this and i also dont understand why i even give you a mho
Opinion Owner

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You seem very confused about your beliefs and intentions. Are you OK?
Asker

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Sometimes i change my mind. People can change their mind. You also did not think thecsame when was 18
Opinion Owner

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Wait, you are 18 now? I see you also have changed your mind about your age.
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No. I am 21. Wtf are you talking about. I mean you dont think the same in the past. Men fuck of idiot
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I dont understand why you try so hard to be a fool
Opinion Owner

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I know English is not your primary language but you seem to fuck it up much more than necessary. You really come off as a moron a lot of the time.
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Look fucktard, if you do not like me, just block me ok? One word from you, and i will block you
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Now stfu

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Asker

And a lot of men like feminine clothes but women tend to wear jeans which are seen not that feminine

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Asker

For me this is an egoistic to think like that. I also dont go around and think that guys dress for me

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Opinion Owner

Yeah, some women wear jeans and t-shirts, and like I said not all women dress to impress men and the ones who do don't do it all the time. But there is no question a lot of women dress to impress women a lot of the time. It has nothing to do with ego and everything to do with facts.

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Asker

Do you also wear shit for women? Would you be ok if we think wvery shit men does if for us?

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Opinion Owner

There are a lot of things men do in order to be more attractive to women. And no, I have no trouble acknowledging it nor do I have any problem with women saying it.

Get over yourself.

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Opinion Owner

By the way, you really need to stop saying "every shit". It makes you sound very uneducated.

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Asker

I can't when men call women sluts for trying to impress men but at the same time men get angry when they see women who dont give a shit about them and dont do a shit for them.

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Asker

I can say wtf i want, if you dont like, you can fuck off

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Opinion Owner

There is nothing wrong with women trying to impress men but if they choose to do it by dressing and acting like sluts then they are going to be judged for being sluts. I'm not sure why you have a problem with that. If a man dresses like a police officer, can you blame someone for assuming they are in fact a police officer?

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Asker

Omgg pathetic again this idiotic logic. Are you a real pig, if you dress like a pig you bastard?

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Asker

And stop slutshaming

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Asker

Men literally can show of their nipples. We allso dont call them male cunts

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Opinion Owner

Triggered much? lol

Grow up little girl.

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Opinion Owner

Just like some women who dress to impress men, some men go shirtless to impress women. So what? Unlike you, I have no problem admitting that because its true. You should try it.

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Asker

Because you call women sluts but dont say a shit about men who do the same

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Opinion Owner

You REALLY need to stop using the word 'shit' that way because you have no idea what you're saying and you sound like a complete dufus.

Stop making false assumptions about me. I look down on sluts, whether they are male or female. Your question was about females and that's what we were talking about here.

Many women CLEARLY dress to attracted sexual attention from men. That was what your question was about and I stand by everything I said. Women who deny that many women dress to impress and attract sexual attention from men just come off as the most dishonest people on the planet.

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Asker

I change my mind. I think there is nothing wrong with trying to look more attractive for the opposite gender. So it is ok to show of

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Opinion Owner

So you've decided to be honest then. Good for you.

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Asker

No i change my mind

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Asker

I dont why i am telling this and i also dont understand why i even give you a mho

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Opinion Owner

You seem very confused about your beliefs and intentions. Are you OK?

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Asker

Sometimes i change my mind. People can change their mind. You also did not think thecsame when was 18

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Opinion Owner

Wait, you are 18 now? I see you also have changed your mind about your age.

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Asker

No. I am 21. Wtf are you talking about. I mean you dont think the same in the past. Men fuck of idiot

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Asker

I dont understand why you try so hard to be a fool

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Opinion Owner

I know English is not your primary language but you seem to fuck it up much more than necessary. You really come off as a moron a lot of the time.

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Asker

Look fucktard, if you do not like me, just block me ok? One word from you, and i will block you

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Asker

Now stfu

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Anonymous

actually i did have abs and i showed them on here and all women did was bitch their heads off complaining about the hair on my chest and abs even though i was sporting around abs

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at that point i learned the vile witches on this rotten site like to complain about anything and are just as bad a the idiot guys on here
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So you go to fucking gym and spend amount if time and money on making abs just to show off your abs?
Opinion Owner

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actually i didn't go to a gym or spend money i worked out from home and yes just to show off my abs i'm that shallow and vain

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Opinion Owner

at that point i learned the vile witches on this rotten site like to complain about anything and are just as bad a the idiot guys on here

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Asker

So you go to fucking gym and spend amount if time and money on making abs just to show off your abs?

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Opinion Owner

actually i didn't go to a gym or spend money i worked out from home and yes just to show off my abs i'm that shallow and vain

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Anonymous

Not all women dress to impress guys but a lot do. I would know because I have tons of female cousins, only sisters, and grew up with a lot of female friends. The vast majority of them talked about cute guys frequently and asked if people thought they looked good or if *the guy they like* would like their outfit/hair/makeup. If a guy says girls wear certain outfits to impress people it's because a lot do. Maybe not all women do, but a lot of them do. Guys do the same thing. We do a lot of things to impress/attract women too. I worked hard to look physically fit and the reason for that was for my fiance. I wanted to be strong enough to protect her and I also did it because she finds my body more attractive. As for some guys prefering feminine women, they just have preferences. I am personally just not attracted to masculine looking women at all. Guys are allowed to have preferences. Your responses to people just sound bitter and confrontational. Sorry to break it to you but some people aren't always going to find you attractive.

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Clayaya

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Because we live in a patriarchal society that began from men so it favors men. Therefore they truly believe we do everything for them.

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888theGreat | 754 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Ok, why do you wear make up , perfume, fake eyelashes, flirt, and wear something so guys can see your breasts and butt really well? Not to mention $200 to get hair all fancy? Oh and nails, teeth whitener?

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Why not? The same reason why you wear things you want to
Roweena_85

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Because we want to look good for ourselves
888theGreat

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@Roweena_85 sure , that is the reason.
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888theGreat

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I don't think I care that much. I just don't want to run around naked and scare people.

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Asker

Why not? The same reason why you wear things you want to

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Roweena_85

Because we want to look good for ourselves

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888theGreat

@Roweena_85 sure , that is the reason.

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888theGreat

I don't think I care that much. I just don't want to run around naked and scare people.

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Juxtapose | 1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

If you go out wearing a low-cut top with a lot of makeup and so on, I don't believe you.

At all.

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cjgsu

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U answered own question.
Itz the guys wit egos.

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Anonymous

Most women do all those things to impress guys and vise versa.

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LEADFOOTboi | 403 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

cuz the world is mine...

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nodnol32

Guru

I don't.

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haremhan

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isn't it?

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