Have you ever had a one night stand?

[OlderAndWiser]

You had a stroke of good fortune in finding a guy for a one night stand who could let that evolve into a LTR. For most people, it just leads to an orgasm or two and sometimes regrets.

I had a few one night stands when I was much younger. The last time was in 1983.

[pizzalovershouse]

No not ever an wouldn't do that

[glutton4punishment]

Never married a one night stand, as that's actually a bit of a contradiction in terms and all, lol.

But yeh, the majority of women I've been with, were one night stands. Usually met at a bar or party type atmosphere. As none of em really gave too much of a shit about what kinda car I drove, just wanted me to put my hands to skin... rather then driving em crazy, through those pesky clothes, lol.

The car conversation was usually saved for the morning, if I hadn't gotten outta there in time. Imagine their disappointment, when my ass caught a ride too, lol. Hey, what do ya expect when ya choose to sleep with the guy everyone at that party or bar knew, like Cheers knew Norm, lol.

I never bullshited (any) of em, just to get laid though... not once. I'm just good at making the outside world disappear is all, specially if they're already half lit when I do, lol.

And while (some) may have acted like they did something "beneath them" come morning, due to my position in life. If frazzled hair, randomly tossed clothing and feeling like an amazing ball of quivering jelly was any indication though, they sure as shit didn't take issue with any of the positions they found me or themselves in the night before, that's for sure! Lol

Sigh, if only I had money.. my sexploits would have been legendary! Lol, god getting old sucks.

[DC_Underground]

Nope and I never will. I will beat another drum and I refuse to go by today's norm of sexualization. Sure, as a single guy, I find no shame in talking to 10-15 girls at once, but I won't have sex with any of them until there is a commitment with a girl I like and she likes. Once that is solidified it is a relationship and being rejected my entire life, I would not break another girl's heart because I would look at her as the only girl who gave me a chance and that means a lot to me. I want this stupid sex-driven culture to end one day.

[Reaperbot666]

• nope. I am a strong believer in only having sex when exclusive with a partner. helps to build a deeper bond with them.
• modern hookup culture is toxic and ruins peoples standards over time.
• rare that one night stands and hookups lead to a relationship or marriage even these days.

[Some_Goof]

That's so cutee, congratulations! Your story sounds like those from the novels!

No i never had any one night stand. Don't think I'd try either. To each their own tho, if its safe and consensual, two adults can have some fun. Its just not for me.

[Anonymous]

Lost my virginity that way. Felt pressured by peers and when the opportunity came along, I seized it, thought I was real manly.

Never felt more empty inside. For anyone with emotions, for anyone with a heart, you'll know that sex without the emotional connection and life bond type relationship means nothing. I just felt like a husk. I was so confused back then... thought that men were supposed to fk as many women as possible, and that = success, but then why did it feel so wrong? I learned over time that I want a girl to be with me forever and only then will I have sex with her. To this day I've only had sex once in my life, the next person I am with will be the last

[Anonymous]

No im a virgin and i dont do that stupid crap. The guy and i would have to be something. I dont do one night stands or temporary relationships. I want real love. I dont see the point of one night stands. Its no emotions or feelings just all pleasure and that's not how sex is supposed to be in my opinion.

[Gedaria]

Yes. Years ago I use to with three lads from work. Usually go out on a Saturday night. I use to meet up with girls and have a great night. Kissing and cuddling in the back of the places we went to.
They were fun and arranged to meet up another night.
Some times it lasted but but there were times. They just wanted sex on the first date, but for some reason never worked.
I enjoyed it but as a teenager it was great getting up close to a young girl...

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

No. I look like a cheap woman already. And to do it for free would ruin my reputation more. I'm sorry, but marriage is mental, emotional connections to me, not only physical attraction.

Can I ask a question? How did you know he doesn't have STDs?

[Dongtai]

They make me feel empty.


I’m one of those types of people who crave an emotional connection. I can be sexually attractive to a woman and push through the mental stuff during sex but once were finished I’ll be wishing I was with someone who I wanted to be with long term.


Love is what I think they call it.

[katiesmuff]

Yes I have had a few!
The very last time I was on vacation with girlfriends on the Caribbean Island of Tortola when I met this local man while us girls were having lunch. Chat turned to him taking me to dinner that night and I ended up having sex with him. Three years later he would become my husband, relocated to Florida and brought two children into this world to go along with the one I already had.
I never would have guessed that night would change my life forever.

[lil_a]

Nope and I’ll never sleep with someone I met a the bar

[SjE78]

nope never have, never will... never really felt the need to even want to either... i prefer more longterm things and meaningful relationships over the uncertainty of a ONS

[infinitybreaker2018]

I wish I could have had it led to marriage. Lol

All 3 of my sexual experiences have been one night stand. Never been sexual with any of the girls I've been relationships with...

[StephenCF]

No, but the closest chance I had was on Halloween night while holidaying in New York last year 🇺🇸 What stopped us in the end was me having to get up early the next morning for an organized visit of the Freedom Tower 😓

[nonratracereality]

I've had a couple except it ended up being 2 weeks. And after that poof. One was nice but I knew it would only go so far other than that that's it

[summiter]

I have been lucky enough to have had a lot of one nighters. They all were fun (I always used a condom) and lead to great orgasms. No regrets.

[ManOnFire]

I always tried to when I was younger but never really had luck with it like a lot of other guys. I usually had sex with somebody I already knew personally.

[DizzyDesii]

Not my style. No ones gettin the cooch same night we meet. I've had some masturbation hookups but even that was with longterm crushes i knew for months/years

[Mohima97]

Yes I did. It was literally drunk sex and we couldn’t believe what we did the next day and barely ever spoke of it again. Colleague from a Christmas party

[BeMuse]

Yeah, but I never go hunting intentionally like that… I just kind of go place and meet people and one thing leads to another.