I went out one night being ready to have one.. my first one! I picked the most handsome guy from the bar! After some talking I realized he is also very smart. Well it lead to marriage. That was my luck.
OlderAndWiser | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Master
1 mo
You had a stroke of good fortune in finding a guy for a one night stand who could let that evolve into a LTR. For most people, it just leads to an orgasm or two and sometimes regrets.
I had a few one night stands when I was much younger. The last time was in 1983.
What's the matter with an orgasm or two? I think they're pretty damn nice and wouldn't want to be so cavalier with them that goes for the ones I give and the ones I have
Never married a one night stand, as that's actually a bit of a contradiction in terms and all, lol.
But yeh, the majority of women I've been with, were one night stands. Usually met at a bar or party type atmosphere. As none of em really gave too much of a shit about what kinda car I drove, just wanted me to put my hands to skin... rather then driving em crazy, through those pesky clothes, lol.
The car conversation was usually saved for the morning, if I hadn't gotten outta there in time. Imagine their disappointment, when my ass caught a ride too, lol. Hey, what do ya expect when ya choose to sleep with the guy everyone at that party or bar knew, like Cheers knew Norm, lol.
I never bullshited (any) of em, just to get laid though... not once. I'm just good at making the outside world disappear is all, specially if they're already half lit when I do, lol.
And while (some) may have acted like they did something "beneath them" come morning, due to my position in life. If frazzled hair, randomly tossed clothing and feeling like an amazing ball of quivering jelly was any indication though, they sure as shit didn't take issue with any of the positions they found me or themselves in the night before, that's for sure! Lol
Sigh, if only I had money.. my sexploits would have been legendary! Lol, god getting old sucks.
Sigh, I blame "Glee" for this shit. To the 30 year old virgin guy.. pay for sex if ya have to!
Seriously, less you plan to marry a virgin your age... I guarantee she'll be happy ya at least have (some kind) of experience. Nobody wants to teach their partner at that age. Let alone, ya could walk in front of a bus tomorrow.. life's too short, to go out like that.
Nope and I never will. I will beat another drum and I refuse to go by today's norm of sexualization. Sure, as a single guy, I find no shame in talking to 10-15 girls at once, but I won't have sex with any of them until there is a commitment with a girl I like and she likes. Once that is solidified it is a relationship and being rejected my entire life, I would not break another girl's heart because I would look at her as the only girl who gave me a chance and that means a lot to me. I want this stupid sex-driven culture to end one day.
people who sleep around a lot tend to not be able to pair bond with a single partner later on in life. it has been proven by multiple studies over the years. which is part of why the average relationship in modern age don't last longer then 10 years.
Some_Goof | 56 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Xper 7
1 mo
That's so cutee, congratulations! Your story sounds like those from the novels!
No i never had any one night stand. Don't think I'd try either. To each their own tho, if its safe and consensual, two adults can have some fun. Its just not for me.
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Anonymous
1 mo
Lost my virginity that way. Felt pressured by peers and when the opportunity came along, I seized it, thought I was real manly.
Never felt more empty inside. For anyone with emotions, for anyone with a heart, you'll know that sex without the emotional connection and life bond type relationship means nothing. I just felt like a husk. I was so confused back then... thought that men were supposed to fk as many women as possible, and that = success, but then why did it feel so wrong? I learned over time that I want a girl to be with me forever and only then will I have sex with her. To this day I've only had sex once in my life, the next person I am with will be the last
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Anonymous
1 mo
No im a virgin and i dont do that stupid crap. The guy and i would have to be something. I dont do one night stands or temporary relationships. I want real love. I dont see the point of one night stands. Its no emotions or feelings just all pleasure and that's not how sex is supposed to be in my opinion.
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Gedaria | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Master
1 mo
Yes. Years ago I use to with three lads from work. Usually go out on a Saturday night. I use to meet up with girls and have a great night. Kissing and cuddling in the back of the places we went to. They were fun and arranged to meet up another night. Some times it lasted but but there were times. They just wanted sex on the first date, but for some reason never worked. I enjoyed it but as a teenager it was great getting up close to a young girl...
No. I look like a cheap woman already. And to do it for free would ruin my reputation more. I'm sorry, but marriage is mental, emotional connections to me, not only physical attraction.
Can I ask a question? How did you know he doesn't have STDs?
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Dongtai | 206 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Yoda
1 mo
They make me feel empty.
I’m one of those types of people who crave an emotional connection. I can be sexually attractive to a woman and push through the mental stuff during sex but once were finished I’ll be wishing I was with someone who I wanted to be with long term.
Love is what I think they call it.
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katiesmuff | 125 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Master
1 mo
Yes I have had a few! The very last time I was on vacation with girlfriends on the Caribbean Island of Tortola when I met this local man while us girls were having lunch. Chat turned to him taking me to dinner that night and I ended up having sex with him. Three years later he would become my husband, relocated to Florida and brought two children into this world to go along with the one I already had. I never would have guessed that night would change my life forever.
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lil_a | 54 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Xper 4
1 mo
Nope and I’ll never sleep with someone I met a the bar
SjE78 | 656 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Guru
1 mo
nope never have, never will... never really felt the need to even want to either... i prefer more longterm things and meaningful relationships over the uncertainty of a ONS
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StephenCF | 173 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Yoda
1 mo
No, but the closest chance I had was on Halloween night while holidaying in New York last year 🇺🇸 What stopped us in the end was me having to get up early the next morning for an organized visit of the Freedom Tower 😓
I've had a couple except it ended up being 2 weeks. And after that poof. One was nice but I knew it would only go so far other than that that's it
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summiter | 109 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Guru
1 mo
I have been lucky enough to have had a lot of one nighters. They all were fun (I always used a condom) and lead to great orgasms. No regrets.
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ManOnFire | 306 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Guru
1 mo
I always tried to when I was younger but never really had luck with it like a lot of other guys. I usually had sex with somebody I already knew personally.
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DizzyDesii | 519 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Master
1 mo
Not my style. No ones gettin the cooch same night we meet. I've had some masturbation hookups but even that was with longterm crushes i knew for months/years
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OnlyYouKnowThat | 121 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Xper 7
1 mo
Actually I have two night stands, one night stand on each side of the bed. One of them my girlfriend uses and the other one I use. I put my phone there at night and it also has a couple of books, my bluetooth headphones and a bottle of water.
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codyccc | 1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Guru
1 mo
a lot in my younger days if it consented and had a pussy and a pulse I would fuck it I shit you not from 300 pounders to runway models from mensa member to idots and from barley legal to milfs and anything in between
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GingerGuy | 3.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Master
1 mo
It's been the reverse for me lol. Yes, but they weren't intentional planned one night stands, not for me anyway. Just ended up being that.
I am open to the idea. If I strike up a good conversation with someone at a bar, or perhaps a club, etc. If there was emotional tension as well as sexual tension between the two of us, then I would want to be physical with them. Such a situation will lead to a one night stand and most likely to friendship as well.
Yes I did. It was literally drunk sex and we couldn’t believe what we did the next day and barely ever spoke of it again. Colleague from a Christmas party
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pigoat | 453 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Guru
1 mo
So it didn't lead to a one night stand
It lead to marriage
Thanks for sharing a story not related to your question
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Anonymous
1 mo
I had one with a guy, we smoked dabs together me, him, and my girl friend. My girl friend wanted to pass out and take a nap as soon as I knew I was in the room just with him. There I was him and me together, he complimented me and I complimented him. I had never been with a muscular man before so I went ahead and took the chance I had. It was damn good. After that I just used him as a dab dealer & we have causal sex when I’m on campus.
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Barry88 | 65 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Xper 7
1 mo
Not proud of it, no regrets either. But yes, it happened.
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Nephilim000 | 561 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Xper 7
1 mo
I don't ever intend to. I like getting to know someone before something so serious. But that's just me
Yes and blocked him from everywhere 😩😩😩🤦🏻♀️Then he contacted me on eBay with a message that says oh you moving like a nikka 😩😩😩😂😂🚀🤦🏻♀️Biggest mistake ever
scott04sa22 | 168 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Xper 7
1 mo
Never had a one night stand and they won't ask because on the way I look.
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Anonymous
1 mo
No, I'm a virgin in my late 30s, but I would never have a one night stand even if I had the opportunity, I only want a serious relationship with the right girl, nothing else.
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Anonymous
1 mo
Got tricked into one. Technically , it was two nights. But still. She was just playing me. She wasn't serious about a relationship.
LEADFOOTboi | 381 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Yoda
1 mo
not now, cuz you just forked over all of your value at once... and showed him that you're permiscuous... expect to be ghosted unless he wants to USE you some more
maybe if i felt worth/confident enough to even step through the door of a bar,
i dont even deserve the ugliest girl in the bar
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Mystic_Nova | 85 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Explorer
1 mo
No, I'm not into casual sex like that. Not worth the risks for someone I dont plan on having a relationship with
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RingOfFire | 50 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Xper 5
1 mo
That's quite a story!
I'm afraid I have had too many of those. But I learned long ago that it is not fulfilling. Nothing more detrimental to the soul than waking up with a stranger you've had sex with and will never see again.
I have had a lot but now i dont want to do it anymore.
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Anonymous
1 mo
no and i never will. i once had a woman who tried to get me into a one night stand and i turned her down. two weeks later my now ex friend told me she had an std genital herpes and to this day i'm just grateful i didn't have sex with her. another time i was in the men's room at the urinal and i overheard one guy telling his friend while they were in separate stalls how his dick was green after he fucked some woman a couple of days ago. needless to say that conversation grossed me out.
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Anonymous
1 mo
Not one night, I kept seeing her many more times. It’s nice it worked out for you but you are very pretty and had your pick of handsome guys and you approached him it seems
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Anonymous
1 mo
No. I feel very insecure about my body and I'm scared to show it to anyone.
The people on this forum are very judgmental. As long as it's all consensual, it's your business and no one else's.
Anonymous
1 mo
Yes once a long time ago, I figured I'd be filled with pleasure only to find that venture to be lonesome and almost primative. My body never felt so dirty that I couldn't even look at myself in the mirror and it disgust me. I will never have sex without having a proper relationship, it's more satisfying with a lover than a stranger
Yes plenty. But I would never, and I mean NEVER, marry a woman who let herself loose like that, letting any man sleep with her instead of being selective.
@On_cloud_wine Promiscuous women are NOT selective. The fact that they let many guys sleep with her means that she doesn’t understand what she wants in a partner, it means she isn’t stable enough for any type of relationship and she most likely will never be. Typically these are girls with daddy issues or an urge to prove that they’re “strong”, but all they’re doing is showing how insecure and embarrassed of themselves they are.
So you might want to rephrase yourself that you would NEVER marry a woman who had sex with anyone unless she was in a committed relationship with one guy, and one guy only, because I am telling you for a fact that they cann most certainly be selective. One chick I know only sleeps with good looking fellas with money.
@On_cloud_wine Thats not being selective. That’s being a shallow bitch who lost the ability to nurture someone else and love someone exclusively. That is what you call a hoe/slut, only letting men use her because she feels so worthless about herself.
@On_cloud_wine Because if a woman is an easy lay, and announces that clearly to us, then we’ll happily take the opportunity. A lot of guys can even pretend to like you just to get into your pants, because you’d be an easy lay for them. Hence the “player” label.
She’s beautiful and young and fertile to bare your babies. She’s a temptress and will make you believe she’ll be loyal with you if you claim her. Stop for a second because I’m really curious about a mans perspective on this because the love triangle that I’m in.. this is my competition. I’m not saying that I’m not fertile or young or beautiful but I’m the complete opposite of her
@On_cloud_wine If by temptress you mean that she dresses provocatively thats automatically a turn off if I want to be with her long term. If she teases me sexually that’s another red flag if she’s not committed to me. It just means she wants to be used and dumped, that’s it. Will I hook up with her? Sure. Will I marry her? Fuck no.
@On_cloud_wine I’ve met some girls like that too. So I understand what you mean. But it’s very easy to tell if she’s experienced with sex once you get into it. It’s also quite easy to tell with her behavior. If he’s smart, he’ll catch onto that
He’s extremely intelligent. But temptation is there right in front of him. He doesn’t know everything about her but he has a pretty good idea. The fact that he trust her at all makes me think otherwise and my attraction for him decreases and I just want to stay single for the rest of my life.
@On_cloud_wine Whore is a woman who sleeps with multiple men without having them commit to her. Aka letting men use her without any strings attached.
Manwhore? That’s bull crap. Manwhores don’t exist. But it’s used to describe a man who fucks plenty of girls without strings attached. Not the same thing because a whore is just a woman with low self esteem who doesn’t have standards for herself or for anyone, and a “manwhore” is a guy just doing guy things, wanting to be with pretty girls is natural to men
Wtf are you babbling on about? Women fuck multiple men because of low self esteem? Then why do man whore brag about the hot chick they got to bang last night? Ego purposes, of course
It’s not the same thing. Its not in your nature to desire casual sex with no strings attached. It’s been proven that women associate sex within the boundaries of a relationship as more satisfying and definitely something to look up to, preferably if you’re looking to get married one day. As a woman, sleeping with plenty of men will just mess with your emotions and ability to be in a committed relationship eventually, because you’re labeled a slut = an easy lay, a girl with no standards.
As for men, we can fuck a woman with zero feelings involved. We can forget her name and face the next day and continue on with our lives, happy that we got to sleep with a girl that we’d never commit to because of how easy that was.
My boyfriend and i had a fight at a club and I ended up going home with my friend's ex simply because he had a reputation as good in bed and of having a big dick, just to piss my boyfriend off. Sex was amazing
I get why you made your reply anonymous.. but I have to say, cheating on your partner because you have an argument is not the way to have a relationship, it's actually quite childish. Have an argument, walk away, come back, discuss, move on, be happy. Cheating must says "well I was looking for an excuse to cheat... and I found one". Personally as a guy, I couldent give a toss if my girlfriend cheated on me with a guy with a big or small dick, or if he was better or worse in bed. You know what I would be feeling? I'd be feeling disappointed in myself that I didn't realise that the person I was with, wasn't actually with me too. That's just the feeling you give me from reading your post. Not trying to offend.
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Anonymous1 moLost my virginity that way. Felt pressured by peers and when the opportunity came along, I seized it, thought I was real manly.
Anonymous1 moNo im a virgin and i dont do that stupid crap. The guy and i would have to be something. I dont do one night stands or temporary relationships. I want real love. I dont see the point of one night stands. Its no emotions or feelings just all pleasure and that's not how sex is supposed to be in my opinion.0|00|0
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