I tried to break it off with my friends with benefits twice but why does he keeps on coming back?

Question

Our friends with benefits "relationship" is going 11 months 2 weeks from now and I've tried to break it off twice already from him as I know I'm falling for him already.

I tried to break it off last August but he came back few days later. I told him we don't have any connections. I told him he's not my friend as we don't know much about eachother other than just living on the same apartment compound.
And I tried to break it off again, just this month few days ago... I told him I don't want to complicate things with my emotions, indirectly telling him I'm catching feelings. And I think he already knows about it even if I didn't say it.

I've just noticed he's becoming a bit more friendly than usual. He'd just pop by and talk for few minutes or he'd check on me and pat my head before going.

And last night, we're back.

I don't know what to do.

Answer 1

nanablue

Xper 5

Just follow the flow if you are believe and have no problem with this, but if you are still afraid and have Doubt in this relationship or not ready for anything that come after, ut's better if you end it right now.

scottyyydoesntknow

1 mo
Tried to end it twice. He came back twice. And my stupid ass is like a moth to a flame. 🤦

Answer 2

scottyyydoesntknow

Tried to end it twice. He came back twice. And my stupid ass is like a moth to a flame. 🤦

Answer 3

Legacy95

Xper 6

I think you should just enjoy it falling in love is not that bad and if you're getting laid at the same time that's even better

Answer 4

es20490446e | 2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Having sex with someone usually lead to becoming attached to that person.

Friends with benefits has been always a horrible idea.

scottyyydoesntknow

1 mo
It actually is. 🥺
es20490446e

1 mo
So if I was in that situation I would decide if to be girlfriend with the guy, and if the answer was no finish the relationship and stop meeting in person.

Answer 5

scottyyydoesntknow

It actually is. 🥺

Answer 6

es20490446e

So if I was in that situation I would decide if to be girlfriend with the guy, and if the answer was no finish the relationship and stop meeting in person.

Answer 7

spartan55 | 13.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Well gee, maybe actually MEAN it when you end it instead of allowing him to come back. He misses the pussy nothing else.

Answer 8

boggboss | 4.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

If you dont want to catch feeling dont try do as there is not indercater of anything more but sex on his part

Answer 9

Agem123 | 346 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

That's why "friends with benefits" isn't for everyone.

scottyyydoesntknow

1 mo
True.

Answer 10

scottyyydoesntknow

True.

Answer 11

Gwenhwyfar | 436 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Likes the sex

might be getting attached to you

but mostly likes the sex

Answer 12

Anonymous

make a decision and stick to it you fucking frustrating wimp

or continue to be tortured and live a life where you want to be loved but instead just get a dick and a mind full of anxieties... CORRECT ANXIETIES WHICH YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO

scottyyydoesntknow

1 mo
Why are you so angry
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Its called motivational speaking im trying to light a fire under your ass

Answer 13

scottyyydoesntknow

Why are you so angry

Answer 14

Opinion Owner

Its called motivational speaking im trying to light a fire under your ass

Answer 15

Dave31989 | 339 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

friends with benefits is for losers

why do you think he doesn't want to let go

ITS FUCKING SEX

Answer 16

Anonymous

ok rover or do you like to be called fido since he patted you on the head. did he leave a milkbone for you as well after he fucked you as your reward

scottyyydoesntknow

1 mo
You don't have to be fucking rude.
Opinion Owner

1 mo
well why the fuck would you let someone pat you on the head? and the fact that you don't want to catch feelings for him even though you did you need to get some dignity and self respect for yourself back
scottyyydoesntknow

1 mo
Well you can also voice your opinion without being a bitch and rude towards me as well. And just so you know, America isn't the only country in the world and we have different cultures and that necessarily mean being patted on the head = dog. And no, I won't listen to your fucking opinion because you're a piece of shit. Way to go anonymous ancient loser.

Answer 17

scottyyydoesntknow

You don't have to be fucking rude.

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

well why the fuck would you let someone pat you on the head? and the fact that you don't want to catch feelings for him even though you did you need to get some dignity and self respect for yourself back

Answer 19

scottyyydoesntknow

Well you can also voice your opinion without being a bitch and rude towards me as well. And just so you know, America isn't the only country in the world and we have different cultures and that necessarily mean being patted on the head = dog. And no, I won't listen to your fucking opinion because you're a piece of shit. Way to go anonymous ancient loser.

Answer 20

Hangry22 | 283 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Cause his boner needs to go down

I tried to break it off with my friends with benefits twice but why does he keeps on coming back?

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