Sounds like a jerk that was hiding something unless the roommate is lying to break you guys apart. Is there anything else to the story?
Long story short we were friends first and he confessed he liked me then I caught feelings after a few weeks of hanging out. He tells me all the time drunkenly* that he wants to take me on dates, he loves me, he likes me too much and he isn’t hiding me from his friends or parents but he said he’s not ready for a relationship, not because of comittment issues but because he doesn’t want to ruin the best thing he’ll ever have
The reason as to why he doesn’t want to date is fishy. It comes off as he doesn’t want a relationship because, he still wants to go around with other women. He could just be saying all this stuff to you so you won’t leave him just in case in case it doesn’t work out with some other girl at least he has you kind of thing. Now maybe he’s a conflicted guy on who he likes more so that’s why he’s acting suspicious. I’m not entirely sure but, if he’s hiding a girl from you, saying how great you are, and still does not want a relationship then he’s not a good guy. Because, let’s say he is conflicted on if he likes you or the other girl more; if you’re the best thing that he could ever have then how would there be competition between you and that girl? he comes off as guy telling you lies so he doesn’t lose you while hanging around with someone else. I would move on
Tell him he is an ass clown and never talk to him again don't give him a chance to explain just move on. You're better off
Cut him off he's a player. Save yourself now before you invest your heart more and get hurt later.
He’s playing you and you’re being a fool.
Cut off any contact with him
Give up
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