Guys any thoughts?

[Anonymous]

"is me losing weight a red flag or something to guys or a bad thing?"
Yes it is, it is a massive red flag, I treat it as a deal breaker.
For one thing, it is a personality flag, it says a lot about someone that they will change themselves to appease society or attract guys attention, its not attractive.
Second, girls that loose that kind of weight age badly, don't ask why, they just do. Everything sags out after a few years and they look terrible.
I would date your before picture, not your after picture.

[aftermydemise]

Why would you losing weight be a red flag? There is absolutely nothing wrong with you losing weight. Thats a great thing!!

Now the guy not looking like his pictures, is definitely a huge red flag. Fuck that guy. Don't let what he said bother you.

[gandolph3]

be proud of yourself, and do not let that loser get to you. this covid mess is making all of life harder, don't give up, you are a winner. wish i were young and single, i would ask you to take a chance on me

[Anonymous]

Maybe he thought that your before pictures were your after pictures and he likes fat women. Congrats on losing the weight and keeping it off. Personally I would be happy if my date showed up looking like you.

[ashish804]

u had really become fucking sexyyyyy from being sweet

[The_unknown_memer]

Hey congrats you lost weight, I'm trying but keep failing

No losing weight is actually desirable , if he doesn't want you , it's his loss

[Snickermarstwix]

Congrats girl, go to the next one, don't bother yourself with this one :)

[Anonymous]

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