i just have a question i lost a bunch of weight on my own over 150 pounds. i made sure to put that in my dating profile along with hobbies etc, plenty of before and after pics, which i have not gained back anything in over 2 years. i was supposed to meet a guy and go out, when he showed up mind you he looked nothing like his pic, all my pics are recent and i keep them updated, after a few seconds he had zero to talk about and he said what a disappointment i was? im confused? is me losing weight a red flag or something to guys or a bad thing? i work, i cook , i clean, no kids, have my own place and car but somehow i am a disappointment, im lost here guys any thoughts? thank you for taking the time to answer!