How can you tell if he is just afraid of getting hurt again or is completely done with me & do you think he's going to show up?

[Anonymous]

long story short i was trying to make it work with this guy for awhile, it was a complicated situation. He told me that he doesn't want to try with me at all and it doesn't feel right. He was down with trying to make it work with me and then changed his mind. I told him "you're afraid of getting hurt again" He said: possibly. So i was trying to make plans with him and he said he will think about it and then he told me no and i was trying to reassure him, he kept r bombing me but his status was online but hasn't responded. I told him i will meet him at the place and if he wants to meet great if not he will never hear from me again. He hasn't read it or responded.

Again, the situation is complicated and we both are at fault with things.

he's done with you

Vote A

he's afraid of getting hurt

Vote B

Yes he will show up

Vote C

No he won't show up

Vote D

Updates:

[Pyrofox]

Just mutually others to just take a break with the relationship stuff and maybe go back to just being friends. And see if things get cleared up when putting the relationship on hold.

[honestGUY45]

If it's this hard to get things started, how hard do you think it's going to be to keep them going? It's probably best to move on.

[Gwenhwyfar]

He’s afraid of getting hurt

He’ll show up IF he reads it (otherwise he won’t know to show up)

What’s r bombing?

[Scropgirl]

He said it straight that it doesn’t feel right. I think he is not into you and you should move on.