How do I get him to chase me/want me more?

Question

I feel I've settled too easily for him, that it probably would make any other girl appear more desiring than me. I want to be able to keep that spark in my step. But I don't know what I should do, note that this is now an online based "relationship". We aren't official, he is very much looking at another option, and I am pretty much reserved, since my interest in anyone else is not exactly out there. I am not for being an option, and would pretty much like to find the best way to make him know that, whilst still keeping him. Ofc Id hope there is a genuine way to do it.

Answer 1

TooDrunk4Sex

Xper 6

mebbe u looking 2 much 4 some angle. even if u find one, chances are dat it won't last. u run outta angles at some point. at da end of da day people usually wanna be with others where they can have a blast and it doesn't come at the cost of enormous stress. how about focusing on how 2 have a blast together? and try not to revolve ur entire world around ur so, since dat tends 2 make u boring. u gotta have ur own world, just as he needs his own. u share ur worlds

Answer 2

Chester_Cheeto

Xper 5

Don't do anything that's gonna piss him off majorly. Like sleeping with his friends, inviting everyone he knows to a party but him, cut him off for an extremely long time, stuff like that.

Asker

1 mo
that sounds a bit excessive ehehehe...
Chester_Cheeto

1 mo
you're gonna do everything i said aren't you?
Asker

1 mo
no im srsly saying that is really excessive, I don't know anyone who would be that desperate smh, rephrase drastic
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Asker

1 mo
I would be genuinely concerned for anyone who would do that... i can assure you that i am not at that level

Answer 3

Asker

that sounds a bit excessive ehehehe...

Answer 4

Chester_Cheeto

you're gonna do everything i said aren't you?

Answer 5

Asker

no im srsly saying that is really excessive, I don't know anyone who would be that desperate smh, rephrase drastic

Answer 6

Asker

I would be genuinely concerned for anyone who would do that... i can assure you that i am not at that level

Answer 7

OlderAndWiser | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You have never met in person?

Asker

1 mo
We have met in person, we actually had been around each other often since we lived on the same campus together, till COVID was an issue
OlderAndWiser

1 mo
Did your relationship progress to a sexual relationship before you became separated?

Answer 8

Asker

We have met in person, we actually had been around each other often since we lived on the same campus together, till COVID was an issue

Answer 9

OlderAndWiser

Did your relationship progress to a sexual relationship before you became separated?

Answer 10

Anonymous

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