I feel I've settled too easily for him, that it probably would make any other girl appear more desiring than me. I want to be able to keep that spark in my step. But I don't know what I should do, note that this is now an online based "relationship". We aren't official, he is very much looking at another option, and I am pretty much reserved, since my interest in anyone else is not exactly out there. I am not for being an option, and would pretty much like to find the best way to make him know that, whilst still keeping him. Ofc Id hope there is a genuine way to do it.