This guy has been showing interest for about 3-2 years now we’re both in school, he hasn’t added me on any social media and won’t speak to me?

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Help meeeeeee

Answer 1

JosyJosy | 1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I don't think he was showing interest at all if he won't speak.
OR... he was interested as you lead him on for 3 years and he finally matured and decided to move on

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Asker

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I wasn’t leading him on, I’ve been for the past 3 years trying to figure this guy out because one minute he’s completely interested the next not and then he’s back again.. sometimes the interest stays for a couple of weeks
JosyJosy

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define 'figuring out' if you didn't straight up tell him you wanted to go on a date with him, you know
Asker

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also his friends stare at me most of the time, but do u have any advice on how to approach him without coming off as awkward lol
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JosyJosy

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No, I honestly wouldn't go for someone who doesn't talk to me. Or sending mixed signals, they have to make up their mind
Asker

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True you have a point.. I rlly like him but I understand what ur trying to say
Asker

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If he rlly liked me he would come up to me and talk but something is holding him back
JosyJosy

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I wouldn't break my head over this, I'd focus on myself and potentially other guys
JosyJosy

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As for coming up to you... some guys are shy. I knew a guy who wasn't even able to be close to her or say ANYTHING to her
Asker

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Yah that’s what I think he must be shy cause when he’s with his friends he’s all laughing and stuff but when he’s alone and around me he looks down or angry. and he seems to walk behind me lots as well during class when there’s multiple ways he could’ve went 😳 I find it creepy but don’t take much notice of it anymore

Answer 2

Asker

I wasn’t leading him on, I’ve been for the past 3 years trying to figure this guy out because one minute he’s completely interested the next not and then he’s back again.. sometimes the interest stays for a couple of weeks

Answer 3

JosyJosy

define 'figuring out' if you didn't straight up tell him you wanted to go on a date with him, you know

Answer 4

Asker

also his friends stare at me most of the time, but do u have any advice on how to approach him without coming off as awkward lol

Answer 5

JosyJosy

No, I honestly wouldn't go for someone who doesn't talk to me. Or sending mixed signals, they have to make up their mind

Answer 6

Asker

True you have a point.. I rlly like him but I understand what ur trying to say

Answer 7

Asker

If he rlly liked me he would come up to me and talk but something is holding him back

Answer 8

JosyJosy

I wouldn't break my head over this, I'd focus on myself and potentially other guys

Answer 9

JosyJosy

As for coming up to you... some guys are shy. I knew a guy who wasn't even able to be close to her or say ANYTHING to her

Answer 10

Asker

Yah that’s what I think he must be shy cause when he’s with his friends he’s all laughing and stuff but when he’s alone and around me he looks down or angry. and he seems to walk behind me lots as well during class when there’s multiple ways he could’ve went 😳 I find it creepy but don’t take much notice of it anymore

Answer 11

Browneye57 | 3.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You're both just children. You have to grow up a little more.
Social media is all fake. You'll see.

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Answer 12

Avicenna | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Ask him for his social media. Maybe he doesn’t know how to show interest in a girl.

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scooogy | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

You seem pretty desperate for attention.

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wrong

Answer 14

Asker

wrong

Answer 15

Tututwerl09

Yoda

He moved on

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Asker

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But he’s still showing me interest, like he’s always looking at me etc but won’t come speak to me or add me on social media?
Tututwerl09

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Talk to him!!
Asker

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I don't know WHAT TO SAYY I’m awkward
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Tututwerl09

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Just say hey or add him on social media and talk to him
Asker

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ugh I mean I will try but I have a feeling it won’t go well
Tututwerl09

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Whys that?
Asker

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just cause I’m nervous and I might say something rlly stupid or do something weird.. I don't know
Tututwerl09

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Just be calm cool and collective. You got this girl!
Asker

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thanks :)

Answer 16

Asker

But he’s still showing me interest, like he’s always looking at me etc but won’t come speak to me or add me on social media?

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Tututwerl09

Talk to him!!

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Asker

I don't know WHAT TO SAYY I’m awkward

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Tututwerl09

Just say hey or add him on social media and talk to him

Answer 20

Asker

ugh I mean I will try but I have a feeling it won’t go well

Answer 21

Tututwerl09

Whys that?

Answer 22

Asker

just cause I’m nervous and I might say something rlly stupid or do something weird.. I don't know

Answer 23

Tututwerl09

Just be calm cool and collective. You got this girl!

Answer 24

Asker

thanks :)

This guy has been showing interest for about 3-2 years now we’re both in school, he hasn’t added me on any social media and won’t speak to me?

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