Why do boys always play games with the good girls?

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JKingOff | 167 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Can't really speak for anyone else. In my case I usually like to put my potential partner through the ringer to see if they're going to stick around. I'm not always going to be nice 24/7. Marriage is for better or for worse. If she's the type that's going to cut out on me when things get tough then I'd rather it not get that far to begin with. when someone crosses the line between being friends, and dating me I start acting more like an asshole just to see how they're going to react and to show them the other side of me since they already know the good side. Depending on how they deal with that, eventually I will pop the question. I don't necessarily consider it a game, more like a process of elimination. Also, in my religion marriage is eternal. It's not just till death do you part. So I put even more emphasis on making sure I found the right partner before I put a ring around her finger. Regardless of who it is after I pop the question I always make sure that they sign a prenuptial agreement. In my mind anyone that is unwilling is most likely in it for the money and not for the relationship. If they're willing to go all the way and honor the vows that we make to each other then I don't see what the issue is with the prenatal agreement.

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Answer 2

SoapySandwich

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Boys dont always "play games" with the good girls?

If I understand what you mean by "play games" then it's a behaviour found more commonly in players. Girls tend to get overly exposed to players though as most guys are too afraid to approach and get to know the women they are attracted to, while players usually are far more experienced and comfortable with approaching and seducing women.

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Honestly I think you’re onto something here. I’m not saying I’m perfect but I’m considered the most ‘wifey material’ amongst friends/family but all I ever do is attract people that just want to chat and have my attention but not go on dates or get into a relationship. So frustrating..
SoapySandwich

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You might be attractive to tons of guys but being attracted doesn't make a guy approach you. Most guys are crippled by approach anxiety, as they fear rejection or embarrassment.

A solution may be to try make yourself easier to approach, so more cautious guys might actually try.

The most attractive people you meet though will probably be players as they have had a lot of practice being/making themselves appear attractive. They also on average have more options and thus dont treat women they do have as if they are special.

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Asker

Honestly I think you’re onto something here. I’m not saying I’m perfect but I’m considered the most ‘wifey material’ amongst friends/family but all I ever do is attract people that just want to chat and have my attention but not go on dates or get into a relationship. So frustrating..

Answer 4

SoapySandwich

You might be attractive to tons of guys but being attracted doesn't make a guy approach you. Most guys are crippled by approach anxiety, as they fear rejection or embarrassment.

A solution may be to try make yourself easier to approach, so more cautious guys might actually try.

The most attractive people you meet though will probably be players as they have had a lot of practice being/making themselves appear attractive. They also on average have more options and thus dont treat women they do have as if they are special.

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Anonymous

Everybody needs a play time. This is done so that they can be serious with the bad girls

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ik9999

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Don't generalize because we can also play that game. For those boys who do it, I guess it's because they have their gfs really kept on their hooks and playing with them becomes very easy. However, at the end, we realized we chose poorly and then we learnt from our mistakes. Keep going, life has no ended, you are not the first nor the last person who experiences this.

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Oboemaster27

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Guys don't always do it. I'm a good guy that has never done such a thing to any girl and I treat them with the utmost respect.

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spartan55 | 21.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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The same reasons girls play games with good guys. If you are saying guys play more games then girls you are crazy.

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magiusX26 | 929 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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dont you mean the girls play games with the good guys

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Ryfyle | 148 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Maybe you're seeing shit that isn't there. Perhaps you could try taking initiative and asking them out for dates for a change.

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Anonymous

Good girls can turn into bad girls later on.
Some guys don't see any of them as innocent anymore.

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SenseiSeptred | 141 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Because many times even those good girls play an even worse game out and about.

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Brendan90

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Honestly guys don't play games. Its not in our nature. They either want you or not. Any behavior that doesn't show he likes you, toss him aside.

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bpowel

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This is just my opinion but for me it really just depends on their k/d

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Lmao

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Anonymous

Why don't the good girls stop acting like they are good girls and be the bad girls that they are.

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DavidFox

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Because good girls can be manipulated

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chriscdi

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i could ask the same question back

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Ceasar97 | 117 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Why do girls play games with the good guys?

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Not sure about ‘playing games’ but I do know that other females I know can be put off ‘good guys’ or guys that are too nice because they get turned off by the fear of not being protected or preferring ‘masculine’ men but I have never heard of a males perspective on why the good females are mistreated or messed about with.
Ceasar97

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Girls are known for playing games with guys, but I think you are playing about the cruel games. The best answer I have is because some guys like "bad" girls. Humans as a whole like something that isn't socially excepted and guys are told a ton, just like girls, that they are expected to marry the "good" person. Also, for guys at least, "bad" girls also tend to show more skin and be more sexual.

Answer 19

Asker

Not sure about ‘playing games’ but I do know that other females I know can be put off ‘good guys’ or guys that are too nice because they get turned off by the fear of not being protected or preferring ‘masculine’ men but I have never heard of a males perspective on why the good females are mistreated or messed about with.

Answer 20

Ceasar97

Girls are known for playing games with guys, but I think you are playing about the cruel games. The best answer I have is because some guys like "bad" girls. Humans as a whole like something that isn't socially excepted and guys are told a ton, just like girls, that they are expected to marry the "good" person. Also, for guys at least, "bad" girls also tend to show more skin and be more sexual.

Answer 21

Anonymous

Because the bad girls are cheatersz

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Answer 22

Anonymous

Qh6 fuck one when you can fuck them all?

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