Honestly I think you’re onto something here. I’m not saying I’m perfect but I’m considered the most ‘wifey material’ amongst friends/family but all I ever do is attract people that just want to chat and have my attention but not go on dates or get into a relationship. So frustrating..
You might be attractive to tons of guys but being attracted doesn't make a guy approach you. Most guys are crippled by approach anxiety, as they fear rejection or embarrassment.A solution may be to try make yourself easier to approach, so more cautious guys might actually try.The most attractive people you meet though will probably be players as they have had a lot of practice being/making themselves appear attractive. They also on average have more options and thus dont treat women they do have as if they are special.
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Not sure about ‘playing games’ but I do know that other females I know can be put off ‘good guys’ or guys that are too nice because they get turned off by the fear of not being protected or preferring ‘masculine’ men but I have never heard of a males perspective on why the good females are mistreated or messed about with.
Girls are known for playing games with guys, but I think you are playing about the cruel games. The best answer I have is because some guys like "bad" girls. Humans as a whole like something that isn't socially excepted and guys are told a ton, just like girls, that they are expected to marry the "good" person. Also, for guys at least, "bad" girls also tend to show more skin and be more sexual.