What does it mean when a guy brags about his conquests?

[Kaazsz]

Either he's lying or its the truth. If he's lying well... that's just sad.

If it's true, he's making it known because he knows it will bring him more women to have sex with. Because girls love to fuck the guy who fucks all a ton of beautiful women, as much as they will deny it on here I've seen it too many times IRL. It's a fact nobody wants to believe. But like I said, if its the truth, he knows its a fact because when you experience what it's like to be desirable to women you realize that being desirable to women is a desirable trait women love so obviously you are going to flaunt it to get more girls in the bedroom.

[brennanhuff]

He's insecure. Maybe he did do that. Cocky arrogant people, even if talented though are known to be insecure people. Here's a good sports analogy. Barry Sanders, a dynamic runningback. Nobody has seen a guy that was so dominant and made plays like him. Arguably top 3 rb of all time along with Jim Brown and Walter Payton. A hall of famer. When he scored a td, he could have danced, acted cocky, but all he did was hand the ball to the ref and the walked off. He never talked about how great he was. You know why? Because he was humble and Confident. If you're great, do you really need to show and tell people how great you are? Or do you just feel confident in your abilities and not feel the need to tell people or show it off, as they know or can see how great you are. If a guy is secure in himself, he would not feel the need for approval or to brag.

[GlitterFairy16]

Obviously has to brag because he doesn't get it very often or doesn't have anything interesting to say so he thinks people will be impressed if he talks about his sex life when actually no one cares.

People have sex every day and these guys act like their the only man on the planet to have gotten a shag from a woman. It doesn't impress anyone just comes off unclassy and disrespectful. I see it as the same as telling someone you've done a massive shit. Everyone one does it, put its gross and personal and others don't need to know about it unless there your doctor

[EclecticEmapath1111]

It means that he's probably got a small d*** and he's probably only had sex once or twice. Most men who have a satisfying sex life don't feel the need to kiss and tell or embellish the details of their carnal knowledge and sexual history. Other guys are full of shit if they are bragging about it to anyone who will listen.

[Account]

It means he is not worthy of my time and energy.
I dislike such people.

[BeMuse]

Guys in general are more straight forward about a lot of things. If a guy talks about going to the bar last night, meeting some women, getting laid and then eating eggs in the morning, then that’s just what he did last night. There is no secret meaning to it. Guys speak the same way when their car breaks down and they spend the afternoon fixing it or when their buddy asks them to come over and move furniture and they drink a couple of beers. The same goes for when we eat a burrito and talk about shitting our guts out. Men tend to recount things they do to other people in a blunt manner. We don’t tend to do that in a way that is muddle with emotion or ulterior motives to manipulate someone else into some false perception. We’re just telling our story. You can listen or ignore it. We don’t care either way.

[Elsa143]

It means that he's proud of it and is a big greedy manwhore who loves to trap females and then exploits them.
He's an insecure and egoistic piece of shit.
So don't even spend a minute with these losers.
Yes he's scored many but still didn't even managed to keep one. What a loser.

[Sweetheart666]

It generally means they are very insecure and they are putting on a show. Even if they do score with lots of women all that means is that they aren’t secure enough to be in a relationship or even treat women right. It also means they likely have VD. Most dudes that brag are losers. Anyone who talks about their partners and what they do on the bedroom is a loser too. Can’t be trusted.

[Am_and_Pm]

I feel like this is a way in which he is expressing hat he might be into u.

I can still be wrong. Becz, well, guys do like bragging about there conquest. If so, he definitely is not a keeper. Not unless he feels bad about talking about all of his numbers to the girl he is into.

[bigCraneGuy]

There's a couple different ways that goes. But more often than not when a man feels the need to brag about how cool he is to people or what he's done it is usually compensating for him not feeling like he is at the social position he is inflated his own mind to be. So yes insecurity and an overbearing need to be liked by a group. A real man knows he's a man and doesn't care if you think so or not.

[neilsmart]

It means he is an alpha male, tall, hot, muscular, deep voice, long dick, well dressed...

[NorthShoreCalling]

Yeah, people who have to talk the talk rarely walk the full walk and are typically trying to overcompensate for something. A quiet confidence is where it’s really at.
Bragging is also really immature and usually just BS.

[jennifer_bloom]

If a guy brags about it - he probably isn’t happy cause if he was happy there would be no reason to show it off - like after Justin Bieber got married he talked about how miserable the meaningless sex felt to him before he settled down when he used to be a player - how it took away from the quality of his life - a truly happy person does not need to show off

[Natehunter199]

I personally have never bragged about how many girls i have been with. Its not i very high number. I have only every been with one girl. From the age of 16 to up intill 2 months ago. When i hear guys talk or bragg about all the girls they have been with. I call them out on it because they are full of shit.

[lightbulb27]

I'd say he has a broken heart, but doesn't know it. In other words, he hasn't loved any woman, just used them. he's good at power ad manipulation, it feels good to be king. but he's missing something inside.

a good response is... how many children do you have and are they good people? Answer is probably... no.

I'd bet $ he lost his daddy...

[xevion]

He's trying to put off the image that he's a player... but if he needs to do brag for that purpose he's prolly a loser... true players don't brag about being a player.. thats bad for our game... I am a professional Gigolo and have been for 35 years... So trust me when I say i know the game very well

[ColHathi]

I don't think it does. Maybe as a teenager that's part of the reason why they'd do it, but it doesn't really matter, in my opinion, because I can only imagine really bad reasons for bragging about that.

[BCA6010]

He could be insecure, but more importantly he's highlighting the fact that you (or whoever) are just a number to him. Avoid like the plague.

[Louistruman19]

Bandwagon Strategy. He might be trying to impress another female into sleeping with him by bragging about his body count. He's basically saying:
"Other women want me and so should you..."

Generally, men tend to exaggerate the number of partners they've had to increase their social value around men and their sexual value around women. I've heard that it works.

[Skankhunt]

It means that they attach their worth as a man on how much sex (conquests) they had with girls. They need validation from women. This can be because the feel insecure, that's why he maybe brags about it, so he can feel good about himself, he feels like a real man. The amount of girls a man have sex with doesn't determine his self-worth, it doesn't mean you are more of a man. It means he looks for validation from women, so he can feel good about himself and feel like he is a real man.

[JaneDoe377]

That to me sounds like a type of insecurity but as with all things, it depends on the individual.

[imlost_gb]

i heard it's insecurity and with time you start to see it actuallt

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend did that at the beginning of dating. He would say that he’s “fucked” many girls and talk about the face that he’s been with some “wet girls” etc. Well he was saying that and “proving things” because his emotions for me were not really developed and he didn’t care about me so much that he was afraid of offending me or losing me too. WELL. NOW. It’s as though he was replaced LOL he is so pussy whipped that he won’t dare bring up another girl’s name or even look at another woman in my presence. I think it’s because he feels that now he has something to lose. When I ask him how many women he’s had, he says “not many” or “I never really fucked around or anything”. LOL. That ain’t what he said before.

[Hazelstar99]

I may keep it in two category either he is a douche or a player.

[Aphrodite801]

25-29 anon who’s comment starts with “my boyfriend” man is a thot who’s been passed around 🤭 she can’t handle the truth so she deleted the comments 😂 He’s still a used thot girllll! 🤣✌️

[Daniela1982]

Means he is a virgin or has had sex only a few times, and they were drunk at the time.

[tofamous]

Some guys just like to brag about everything and Lot of the time that is a sign of insecurity. Example i never heard a tough man say how tough he is I've never heard a smart man say how smart he is.

[Soleil6996]

Women do this thing of 'if you love me you have yo grab me - but if you grab me you are violent and abusive'. And if you don't grab me then you are insecure (and then they get lost in it).
Men can get lost - I don't.

[SavageGirl101]

He’s very insecure and is trying to make it seem like he’s not

[thehorriblesheikh]

They could be real but they could be lies as well. I used to brag about a lot of things because I knew it messed with other people's heads, I saw it as playful teasing. Nothing that I bragged about was a lie, and nothing was ever exaggerated.

[Massageman]

For the majority, I would say that- yes- it is just a facade to cover over his insecurities.

[navyrobin]

Yeah it means he’s insecure asf and that’s his only source of self esteem, to get women

[Liam_Hayden]

it usually means he is either arrogant or, more likely, full of cr*p.

[virtue2332]

It means that he is seeking validation. For whatever reason he may be lying but maybe not either waybits validation he seeks

[scooogy]

Some people make such things sound greater than they really are.

[Edanurus]

If you have to tell people you're something then it's more likely you're trying to convince them than inform.

[purplepoppy]

Just ask him why none of his conquests are with him anymore. Then sit back and enjoy the excuses.

[llcanon]

I don't have to do that. I am 64 and married 3 times and a Navy Vet. that says it all right there

[IronmanT]

Insecure and looking for a constant pat on the back to boost ego and feeling of self worth in trying to be an ALPHA WHEN he's JUST A PUP AS FAR AS MATURITY GOES.

[Anonymous]

It means that I'm a hero.. I mean that he is a hero. He is probably strong, like a bull and handsome, like a bull, and smart. like a bull

[anon1903]

Most guys do that. Sometimes its a sure sign that you guys are closer

[winterfox10]

He's insecure. It's probably also a bad idea to get close to him, since you can't be sure if he's really going to value you

[Hardpunk69]

hmmmm stupid behavior not my style
some my gfs are scored maybe I don't know ahahha

[coolhandroo]

He might be telling the truth but yes bragging in general is an act if insecurity and over compensation

[Yuuibtony]

He don't respect women and see them as sexobjects to conquer.

[WhiteGlaze]

I mean tbh it is an accomplishment for some and for others its like free candy out of a bowl so

[Cherokeehp]

It usually just means he’s an asshole.

[DannyUk2017]

Both... None actually and Insecurity!

[sheikalana]

Insecure, immature, exhibitionist, show-off.

[DizzyDesii]

It means he isn't the man for me.

[EmmaMary]

It normally means it never happened.

[spartan55]

It usually means both, and a definite red 🚩 flag.

[cloudsurfer87]

Funny if he can't perform but just has verbal game what the point if bragging if u got the Clap lol

[Dinosaursandanime65]

No. That's a just a dumb ass. Shhhhhhhh felagi fighter...

[Roberto1965]

yes. or he's trying to impress you.

[Jakeofalltrades93]

normally it means he is lying and insecure

[Anonymous]

You translated him saying HEE HAW! HEE HAW!

[Goodwifie]

He's just a basic manwhore.

[Wise4myage]

Guys that do that are shallow and egotistical.

[Gavilar1]

He's probably an ass

[dwiller943]

It means he's an evil piece of shit.

[I-have-a-biscuit]

Well, both?

[douride2]

Mostly it means the guy is a douche.

[Caunsos]

He a manchild