What does it mean when a guy brags about his conquests?

- Either he's lying or its the truth. If he's lying well... that's just sad.
If it's true, he's making it known because he knows it will bring him more women to have sex with. Because girls love to fuck the guy who fucks all a ton of beautiful women, as much as they will deny it on here I've seen it too many times IRL. It's a fact nobody wants to believe. But like I said, if its the truth, he knows its a fact because when you experience what it's like to be desirable to women you realize that being desirable to women is a desirable trait women love so obviously you are going to flaunt it to get more girls in the bedroom.Is this still revelant?
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- He's insecure. Maybe he did do that. Cocky arrogant people, even if talented though are known to be insecure people. Here's a good sports analogy. Barry Sanders, a dynamic runningback. Nobody has seen a guy that was so dominant and made plays like him. Arguably top 3 rb of all time along with Jim Brown and Walter Payton. A hall of famer. When he scored a td, he could have danced, acted cocky, but all he did was hand the ball to the ref and the walked off. He never talked about how great he was. You know why? Because he was humble and Confident. If you're great, do you really need to show and tell people how great you are? Or do you just feel confident in your abilities and not feel the need to tell people or show it off, as they know or can see how great you are. If a guy is secure in himself, he would not feel the need for approval or to brag.Is this still revelant?
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- Obviously has to brag because he doesn't get it very often or doesn't have anything interesting to say so he thinks people will be impressed if he talks about his sex life when actually no one cares.
People have sex every day and these guys act like their the only man on the planet to have gotten a shag from a woman. It doesn't impress anyone just comes off unclassy and disrespectful. I see it as the same as telling someone you've done a massive shit. Everyone one does it, put its gross and personal and others don't need to know about it unless there your doctorIs this still revelant? - It means that he's probably got a small d*** and he's probably only had sex once or twice. Most men who have a satisfying sex life don't feel the need to kiss and tell or embellish the details of their carnal knowledge and sexual history. Other guys are full of shit if they are bragging about it to anyone who will listen.Is this still revelant?
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2648- It means he is not worthy of my time and energy.
I dislike such people.ReactLike
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- Guys in general are more straight forward about a lot of things. If a guy talks about going to the bar last night, meeting some women, getting laid and then eating eggs in the morning, then that’s just what he did last night. There is no secret meaning to it. Guys speak the same way when their car breaks down and they spend the afternoon fixing it or when their buddy asks them to come over and move furniture and they drink a couple of beers. The same goes for when we eat a burrito and talk about shitting our guts out. Men tend to recount things they do to other people in a blunt manner. We don’t tend to do that in a way that is muddle with emotion or ulterior motives to manipulate someone else into some false perception. We’re just telling our story. You can listen or ignore it. We don’t care either way.React
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Women are always looking for a secret meaning because they are too busy trying to manage their own image. As a result of being insecure women, tend to be more mealy mouthed so they beat around the bush and wonder why people don’t understand what is wrong with them or what they want. Women are less honest. They tend to try to frame a conversation in a way where people will not see them in a negative light for what they are saying. They feel they are being conscious of other people’s feelings and emotional cues by lying to them. Men in contrast just say stuff confidently and honestly and them women feel like men are insensitive.
- It means that he's proud of it and is a big greedy manwhore who loves to trap females and then exploits them.
He's an insecure and egoistic piece of shit.
So don't even spend a minute with these losers.
Yes he's scored many but still didn't even managed to keep one. What a loser.ReactLike
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- It generally means they are very insecure and they are putting on a show. Even if they do score with lots of women all that means is that they aren’t secure enough to be in a relationship or even treat women right. It also means they likely have VD. Most dudes that brag are losers. Anyone who talks about their partners and what they do on the bedroom is a loser too. Can’t be trusted.React
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- I feel like this is a way in which he is expressing hat he might be into u.
I can still be wrong. Becz, well, guys do like bragging about there conquest. If so, he definitely is not a keeper. Not unless he feels bad about talking about all of his numbers to the girl he is into.ReactLike
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- There's a couple different ways that goes. But more often than not when a man feels the need to brag about how cool he is to people or what he's done it is usually compensating for him not feeling like he is at the social position he is inflated his own mind to be. So yes insecurity and an overbearing need to be liked by a group. A real man knows he's a man and doesn't care if you think so or not.React
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- It means he is an alpha male, tall, hot, muscular, deep voice, long dick, well dressed...React
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- Yeah, people who have to talk the talk rarely walk the full walk and are typically trying to overcompensate for something. A quiet confidence is where it’s really at.
Bragging is also really immature and usually just BS.ReactLike
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- If a guy brags about it - he probably isn’t happy cause if he was happy there would be no reason to show it off - like after Justin Bieber got married he talked about how miserable the meaningless sex felt to him before he settled down when he used to be a player - how it took away from the quality of his life - a truly happy person does not need to show offReact
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- I'd say he has a broken heart, but doesn't know it. In other words, he hasn't loved any woman, just used them. he's good at power ad manipulation, it feels good to be king. but he's missing something inside.
a good response is... how many children do you have and are they good people? Answer is probably... no.
I'd bet $ he lost his daddy...ReactLike
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- He's trying to put off the image that he's a player... but if he needs to do brag for that purpose he's prolly a loser... true players don't brag about being a player.. thats bad for our game... I am a professional Gigolo and have been for 35 years... So trust me when I say i know the game very wellReact
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- I personally have never bragged about how many girls i have been with. Its not i very high number. I have only every been with one girl. From the age of 16 to up intill 2 months ago. When i hear guys talk or bragg about all the girls they have been with. I call them out on it because they are full of shit.React
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Wait, Charlie Sheen is said to have bedded 2,000 girls and Michael Jordan is said to have had 5,000. Was it bull or wishful thinking?
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They need to have sex with 5 to 6 different people each day for 1 year... im sure they had a few orgies or 3 ways and such. Im sure it's spread out over years. And they have access to these women and the status to pull them in... So yeah possible I would think.
- I don't think it does. Maybe as a teenager that's part of the reason why they'd do it, but it doesn't really matter, in my opinion, because I can only imagine really bad reasons for bragging about that.React
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- He could be insecure, but more importantly he's highlighting the fact that you (or whoever) are just a number to him. Avoid like the plague.React
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- It means that they attach their worth as a man on how much sex (conquests) they had with girls. They need validation from women. This can be because the feel insecure, that's why he maybe brags about it, so he can feel good about himself, he feels like a real man. The amount of girls a man have sex with doesn't determine his self-worth, it doesn't mean you are more of a man. It means he looks for validation from women, so he can feel good about himself and feel like he is a real man.React
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well it can make a guy feel he's better than other men though based on sexual desirability. A lot of guy's place a ton of pride on "game" and that's often comparative based. I'm top dude because I'm "better looking, more charming, funnier" than many dudes pride and sex with beautiful women validates that ego/pride. It's not much different than competitive pride guys can have with wealth, job status, materials, talents whether music or sports, etc
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@brennanhuff yeah I get it, but it just seems immature to focus that much effort on it. To me it kinda signals that he doesn't have much other important things going on in his life.
@NorthShoreCalling well bragging is lame, but I can see how a dude has pride in his way of attracting women though just as a dude has pride with being a better athlete than other dudes or more successful business man than other men. Pride in getting girls might not be a man's main focus in life, but could still be there as far as the compliment piece amongst the other things he'd proud of. So in addition to the other important things going on his life. So basically filling up his internal "pride resume"
- Bandwagon Strategy. He might be trying to impress another female into sleeping with him by bragging about his body count. He's basically saying:
"Other women want me and so should you..."
Generally, men tend to exaggerate the number of partners they've had to increase their social value around men and their sexual value around women. I've heard that it works.ReactLike
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- That to me sounds like a type of insecurity but as with all things, it depends on the individual.React
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- i heard it's insecurity and with time you start to see it actualltReact
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- Anonymous1 yMy boyfriend did that at the beginning of dating. He would say that he’s “fucked” many girls and talk about the face that he’s been with some “wet girls” etc. Well he was saying that and “proving things” because his emotions for me were not really developed and he didn’t care about me so much that he was afraid of offending me or losing me too. WELL. NOW. It’s as though he was replaced LOL he is so pussy whipped that he won’t dare bring up another girl’s name or even look at another woman in my presence. I think it’s because he feels that now he has something to lose. When I ask him how many women he’s had, he says “not many” or “I never really fucked around or anything”. LOL. That ain’t what he said before.React
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I don't understand why guys would brag infront of women or who they want to date. I know I'm not a woman even tho I heard these days you just have to "identify as the opposite gender now" ha jk. Anywhoo, my experience is many women don't find it sexy when a guy is a manwhore actually. I've heard many women be turned off or not find it so hot. So a dude having dated women and being a good guy is more respectable to women than a dude doing tons of one night stands and basically acting like a jersey shore, no substance to him other than about getting laid.
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- Means he is a virgin or has had sex only a few times, and they were drunk at the time.React
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he wouldn't be a virgin if he had sex a few times... He wouldn't be too experienced either, but virgin he is not. Either way, a dude is insecure, whether he's banged many women or very few. Confident guy's don't brag for others praise or approval.
@brennanhuff I said a virgin "OR" had sex only a few times. Of course he can't be both.
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