Would I have been a bad friend if I had slept with my female friend?

Question

when i was in highschool in florida a had a female friend

at the lunch table one time she rub my leg and another time in the hallway she was like see how short my skirt is i could she where she was getting at

years later she was like i had a crush on you i asked if i had made a move on you what would you have done she was like i would have let you

Would this have made me a bad friend if i have tried to have sex with my friend?

Answer 1

Brainsbeforebeauty | 133 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Depends, did she like you as more than a friend?
Did you like her as more than a friend?
If she thought by sleeping with you you'd become more than friends, and you just slept with her cuz it was being offered and sex is so you wanted then yeah...
But if you both knew agreed it was just about sex, then that's noone's place but yours and hers to decide that

newfreshstart

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years later she said she had a crush on me in school we talked about this years later on facebook as i moved back to jersey
Brainsbeforebeauty

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Thanks for mh
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@Brainsbeforebeauty welcome thanks for your advice
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Answer 2

newfreshstart

years later she said she had a crush on me in school we talked about this years later on facebook as i moved back to jersey

Answer 3

Brainsbeforebeauty

Thanks for mh

Answer 4

newfreshstart

@Brainsbeforebeauty welcome thanks for your advice

Answer 5

Brainsbeforebeauty

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Answer 6

sassy1433 | 116 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

I don’t think it would be bad. But it will change things between u 2. Might have made things awkward. As tempting as it may be. Keep ur friends, just as friends.

Answer 7

Psychoanalytical

Xper 4

You are a good person because you respected your friend and you didn't see her as a tool for pleasure or manipulate her crush on you, especially that the door was open to you.

Answer 8

Levin | 463 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Two people coming together, so to speak, in ecstatic unity. I don't see it as a bad thing. Providing you're respectful and honest.

Answer 9

jennifer_bloom | 1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You date before you have sex and maybe she was saying that to get attention

Would I have been a bad friend if I had slept with my female friend?

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