I have noticed this a lot in couples and other situations. My twin niece and nephew they are bought 9 my niece sits on the couch while my nephew runs around the house and makes a mess. Now my cousin she is 32 and her husband is 37 he plays video games while my cousin cleans gets things done on her own fix the sink because her husband will not do it. My husband and I are 28 , My husband complain about having pain in his tooth I told him to make an appointment with the dentist a week went by and nothing but still he is complaining until I called and schedule and appointment for my husband I inform my husband the day and time of his dentist appointment later the next day I find out he never showed up to his appointment he was at his friends house prank calling people. I feel like his mom instead of his wife.