Why do I lose interest so quick in men?

Question

Its the same routine, I like a guy, im head over heels for him, think about having kids and marrying him, then after a while it gets boring then I lose interest. I move on to another guy and its the same thing.

Answer 1

havingfun101 | 68 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Activities reinforce the neural map; basically, you're not hot enough for a rich guy and think you're too good for a normal guy. Boring is only a thing if one can't self entertain... you're boring and psychologically projecting it onto the men.
Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows; good luck out there.

KrakenAttackin

17 d
Exactly right.
TruthBringer

10 d
BOOM truthbomb dropped!

Answer 2

KrakenAttackin

Exactly right.

Answer 3

TruthBringer

BOOM truthbomb dropped!

Answer 4

Zen10

Xper 2

Maybe you have high standards. Everybody you like has to pass this subconscious attraction test in our mind. Like maybe you like men who work hard and they say something that shows they slack, so they keep failing your tests without you knowing...

Answer 5

MzAsh | 336 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

You’re addicted to the idea of someone new. Infatuation, lust, and excitement.

Answer 6

Sweetheart666

Xper 3

Try getting to know them before falling head over heels.

Answer 7

Reaperbot666

Guru

in general females bond faster to males. then males do to females however. this is a double edge sword for females. because if she loses interest in him before he bonds to her. then she is likely to start looking for a new partner to bond to.
modern hookup culture proves this because you see many females. choosing to bounce between males rather then waiting around. for him to take his time and bond to her fully.
this tends to lead to many females being alone in their 30s, 40s or 50s. because she choose to fool around with different people. rather then tying to stick it out and commit to a single male long term.
which is why many females from Gen X and Gen Y are currently single. because roughly 70% of modern females are fuckable to some degree. but only about 20% of modern females are long term relationship material.
majority of males want a female partner who is loyal to him. plus maintains herself well physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually over the years.

Answer 8

jgibsonian1986

Xper 6

Could be a symptom of Adhd. People with it tend to get bored of most things when they get trite.

Answer 9

winterfox10 | 3.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Because you are in love with being in love. You want novelty and excitement; not an actual relationship

Answer 10

ValleyofDrakes | 127 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

I think you're expecting too much too fast.

Perhaps you should just love where you're at instead of falling in love with where you're going.

havingfun101

22 d
Poetic!
ValleyofDrakes

22 d
Thanks, I appreciate that.
havingfun101

22 d
I write and recite poetry on my YouTube channel Forgotten FuRyan, occasionally. You got it, my guy.

Answer 11

havingfun101

Poetic!

Answer 12

ValleyofDrakes

Thanks, I appreciate that.

Answer 13

havingfun101

I write and recite poetry on my YouTube channel Forgotten FuRyan, occasionally. You got it, my guy.

Answer 14

Anonymous

You're 18. Don't worry-when you hit 29 you'll find some sperm donor to knock you up and subsidize the kids you will want then.

Sweetheart666

18 d
Women can have children into their 60s. Wouldn’t advise it but they can. So she has plenty of time.
Opinion Owner

18 d
@Sweetheart666 Yeah? Look up the stats on that. Might be an outlier or two but almost all women find fertility begins slipping after 30, steeply declining after 40 and most cannot carry to term past 45. Even women in their later 30s often have to seek medical intervention in order to conceive.
Sweetheart666

17 d
No actually I’m pregnant right now. Also the older the man, the more health problems in children. I think it really depends on heredity and care. I personally don’t want to have children past 40 that’s just me though. Plus the only stats you’re quoting are fairly new stats. I go for the long standing stats. My gma has my mom when she was
50.
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Sweetheart666

17 d
Also the stats you’re looking at are of those women who are not on the pill. The pill makes it to where a woman doesn’t drop an egg. So if she’s been on the pill since 20. She has just as many eggs now as she did when she was 20. That doesn’t mean they will last forever, just as erections and even healthy semen production doesn’t last forever.
KrakenAttackin

17 d
@Sweetheart666 Pregnant now? Do you think your baby daddy will stick around or will you just find a simp to pay for things?
Sweetheart666

17 d
@KrakenAttackin I actually don’t believe in baby’s daddy. Real men stick around. I’m not trashy and am very genuine. Some men like that. I also work, don’t ask the government for money and contribute to society. I’m not sure what kind of ladies you’ve been around.
Sweetheart666

17 d
Btw- he and I have both wanted children for quite some time now. He treats me like a lady. I treat him like a man. I’m sorry you’re so unhappy though. That must be miserable.

Answer 15

Sweetheart666

Women can have children into their 60s. Wouldn’t advise it but they can. So she has plenty of time.

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

@Sweetheart666 Yeah? Look up the stats on that. Might be an outlier or two but almost all women find fertility begins slipping after 30, steeply declining after 40 and most cannot carry to term past 45. Even women in their later 30s often have to seek medical intervention in order to conceive.

Answer 17

Sweetheart666

No actually I’m pregnant right now. Also the older the man, the more health problems in children. I think it really depends on heredity and care. I personally don’t want to have children past 40 that’s just me though. Plus the only stats you’re quoting are fairly new stats. I go for the long standing stats. My gma has my mom when she was
50.

Answer 18

Sweetheart666

Also the stats you’re looking at are of those women who are not on the pill. The pill makes it to where a woman doesn’t drop an egg. So if she’s been on the pill since 20. She has just as many eggs now as she did when she was 20. That doesn’t mean they will last forever, just as erections and even healthy semen production doesn’t last forever.

Answer 19

KrakenAttackin

@Sweetheart666 Pregnant now? Do you think your baby daddy will stick around or will you just find a simp to pay for things?

Answer 20

Sweetheart666

@KrakenAttackin I actually don’t believe in baby’s daddy. Real men stick around. I’m not trashy and am very genuine. Some men like that. I also work, don’t ask the government for money and contribute to society. I’m not sure what kind of ladies you’ve been around.

Answer 21

Sweetheart666

Btw- he and I have both wanted children for quite some time now. He treats me like a lady. I treat him like a man. I’m sorry you’re so unhappy though. That must be miserable.

Answer 22

KrakenAttackin | 869 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

This is because you are young and just riding the carousel. After you hit the wall you will have to settle for a simp to pay for your mistakes.

Sweetheart666

18 d
Dude shut up even if she weren’t you’d still put her down because that’s how your kind is. Why not look at yourself and try to improve your unnatural self before looking at women’s opportunities to improve.
TruthBringer

10 d
@Sweetheart666 Well he does have a point about her riding the cock carousel. It leads to problems like these. And for your information, he has the right and freedom to express his thought on an open forum. Don't like what he says? Then brush it off and move on.

Answer 23

Sweetheart666

Dude shut up even if she weren’t you’d still put her down because that’s how your kind is. Why not look at yourself and try to improve your unnatural self before looking at women’s opportunities to improve.

Answer 24

TruthBringer

@Sweetheart666 Well he does have a point about her riding the cock carousel. It leads to problems like these. And for your information, he has the right and freedom to express his thought on an open forum. Don't like what he says? Then brush it off and move on.

Answer 25

Hispanic-Cool-Guy | 1.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You suffer from the same thing as me. You're very easily bored.

Answer 26

scarlett774 | 68 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Yeah same : (

Answer 27

codyccc | 1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

You like the idea of the man not the man

Answer 28

ChefPapiChulo | 71 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

You’re a basic bitch

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