He's still updating his tinder?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this guy for 4 months and he's told me he's not ready for a relationship because he got out of a serious 4-year relationship 3 months before we met. He's told me many times he really likes me and never wants to hurt me but I just saw that he updated his tinder and for the past 2 days it feels like I have been putting in most of the effort to talk.

I just want to be appreciated :(

Updates:

[sassy1433]

Dont pursue him anymore. If he’s interested, let him come to u. Don’t fall for him to quickly or become needy. He told u that he’s not ready for a relationship. So accept it. At least he told u that. U 2 aren’t exclusive, so whether he updates his tinder or goes out on dates, he’s allowed to do whatever he wants.

[MikeTheBartender]

Hey, sorry to say this but you know what's going on. And honestly he did no wrong either. He didn't lie. Best thing is not to invest any more. time. It will be much easier to start a new relationship than to fix a broken or non existent one.

[KingDio]

he's playing the field and fact he is on tinder means he's moving on from that break up so think he just views you as a bit of fun or a friend