So I put my head on my guy friend's shoulder for 30 min... but then he straightened up?

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so I had to get off his shoulder basically. and I did ask him if I could put my head on his shoulder and he said yeah. He also never took the opportunity to put his arm around me while I was on his shoulder.

but weeks ago when we were watching a movie, he did put his arm around me for a few minutes, then moved it back, without me doing anything (i did not put my head on his shoulder).

so what does this mean?
(he was also touchy, like putting his hand on my knee for a minute, playing thumb wrestling, sitting close to me where our thighs touched)

Answer 1

Anonymous

Give him more encouragement if you want him to make a move

Asker

19 d
but how come weeks ago he put his arm around me without me even initiating anything. and today I did initiate, and he didn't put his arm around me. how come? or does he just see me as a friend?
Opinion Owner

19 d
I can't really say but the whole time that you are thinking about him and what he is or is not doing, he is thinking should I do this or should I do that and then what would I do next. should I wait or should I do it now... and so on and so on and so on...

Answer 2

Asker

but how come weeks ago he put his arm around me without me even initiating anything. and today I did initiate, and he didn't put his arm around me. how come? or does he just see me as a friend?

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

I can't really say but the whole time that you are thinking about him and what he is or is not doing, he is thinking should I do this or should I do that and then what would I do next. should I wait or should I do it now... and so on and so on and so on...

Answer 4

spartan55 | 13.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

He is not your 'friend', stop with the charade.

Answer 5

AmeerX | 772 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Straightened up? What does it mean?

Asker

19 d
he sat up meaning I had to move my head off his shoulder
AmeerX

19 d
Aww :) nay be just tired out. You are worried about that.
Asker

19 d
but he didn't offer for me to put my head back on his shoulder. so I was confused lol
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AmeerX

18 d
Oh come on. It is alright

Answer 6

Asker

he sat up meaning I had to move my head off his shoulder

Answer 7

AmeerX

Aww :) nay be just tired out. You are worried about that.

Answer 8

Asker

but he didn't offer for me to put my head back on his shoulder. so I was confused lol

Answer 9

AmeerX

Oh come on. It is alright

Answer 10

Anonymous

Maybe he is a pedophile and not attracted to grown women. Just one possibility.

So I put my head on my guy friend's shoulder for 30 min... but then he straightened up?

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