How do you deal with someone who keeps trying even after you said you're not interested?

Question

I told him I'm not interested in him, I'm not attracted to him and nothing's ever going to happen between us. However, he keeps messaging me and doesn't seem to respct my wishes. How should I deal with this?

Answer 1

ohshee | 403 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I don't know if this has anything to do with your question I just feel the need to say it as it was the first thing that pop in to my head it's happen 3 times to me ,, I would be talking with a girl just being friendly and as she's flirting I'm smiling ,, now every ones know I love to flirt, but with each one of these girls the flirts had become just gross and then rude as 2 of them started to touch and I said some thing and 1 of them took it further I just left but I was pissed and I have always had that in the back of my mind just so I wouldn't ever make a girl feel like that so maybecsay one more thing or just walk away

Answer 2

pigoat | 453 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

It's funny my sister at least her story was that she was always rude or use to tell her current boyfriend he was annoying and kept saying she wouldn't be his girlfriend

And they ended up together but not before she supposedly friend zoned him for like 1 year lol

He was just a persistent dude and sometimes it works out

Sometimes it doesn't but these guys believe they have to keep trying

Look how long it took Steve Urkel before he got with Laura in the final seasons

ROFL

Answer 3

Jjpayne | 984 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

All you can do is send them a long and very thoughtful text or message. Don't make it short. Be nice as this might not be good news for him to hear but be open and honest and considerate to him. Then block him on phone number and every place you are connected to him on social media.

Answer 4

Anonymous

I'd say it again, but this time "I'm sorry, like I've said, I'm not interested. But you are bordering on harassment now, so please stop asking. The answer is no!" He should get the hint from that. If it continues still, I'd threaten to get police involved. Not that you will necessarily, but it says how serious you are.

Answer 5

nodnol32 | 299 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Wish them well, ignore and block. One has to be ruthless here because they'll never take the hint seriously in a polite manner.

sheikalana

20 d
Yea seems like he simply can't accept that I'm not interested in him. Blocking seems to be the only option here.
nodnol32

20 d
There you go. You don't need excess drama in your life.

Answer 6

sheikalana

Yea seems like he simply can't accept that I'm not interested in him. Blocking seems to be the only option here.

Answer 7

nodnol32

There you go. You don't need excess drama in your life.

Answer 8

ChocoBrownieMonster

Explorer

LOL every girl keeps asking this question, the simple answer is to ignore, ignore, ignore. If he still tries, block.

Answer 9

Anonymous

This is a typical situation which would ne re ever happen with a man... so it's purely an imaginary situation for a man while it's quite common in lives of women.
How about blocking him?

sheikalana

20 d
I'm seriously considering blocking him. He doesn't seem to get.

Answer 10

sheikalana

I'm seriously considering blocking him. He doesn't seem to get.

Answer 11

DizzyDesii | 519 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Thats when you block em

sheikalana

20 d
I guess that's the only option. Thanks hun.

Answer 12

sheikalana

I guess that's the only option. Thanks hun.

Answer 13

spartan55 | 13.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

It's called BLOCK. Duh.

spartan55

20 d
You have TOLD him you aren't interested, or you just ignore him?

Answer 14

spartan55

You have TOLD him you aren't interested, or you just ignore him?

Answer 15

Pallavi37

Xper 6

Block him or use his money to enjoy life😀

sheikalana

20 d
I don't need him in my life. I make more money than him.
Pallavi37

20 d
Hmm yaa

Answer 16

sheikalana

I don't need him in my life. I make more money than him.

Answer 17

Pallavi37

Hmm yaa

Answer 18

samet7777

Xper 1

bloch him

sheikalana

20 d
Seriously considering blocking him.

Answer 19

sheikalana

Seriously considering blocking him.

Answer 20

heybay22

Xper 4

use him

sheikalana

20 d
Use if for what?
heybay22

20 d
free food. then BLOCK lol. or honestly just dont respond lol
sheikalana

20 d
I don't need anyone to buy my food or anything else. Considering blocking him tho.
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ali92ka

20 d
You may not respond and let him give up by his side
sheikalana

20 d
@ali92ka I don't answer his messages at all but he doesn't get the message lol.
ali92ka

20 d
Hahahha you are stuck in his deep mind...
sheikalana

20 d
@ali92ka it's so frustrating.
ali92ka

20 d
If I were you, I would clearly ask him to stop texting me and if he did not respond as he should.. then I may report and block him
sheikalana

20 d
@ali92ka trust me I've done everything and I was very clear when I told him to stop messaging me and when I told him nothing's ever going to happen between us because of this and that. I've tried the nice way I've tried to make him hate me. I think blocking is the best thing I can do honestly.
ali92ka

20 d
Yes... And you have one more choice else... If you have a friend you trust (boyfriend) ask him to call him and illustrate a white lie such as he is your man and ask him aggressively to stop contacting you..
sheikalana

20 d
@ali92ka don't want to make him feel angry as I'm not sure how this person deals with frustration and rejection. Don't want him to turn into a violent MF and give him a chance to assault me or any of my friends.
ali92ka

20 d
You just block him and move on

Answer 21

sheikalana

Use if for what?

Answer 22

heybay22

free food. then BLOCK lol. or honestly just dont respond lol

Answer 23

sheikalana

I don't need anyone to buy my food or anything else. Considering blocking him tho.

Answer 24

ali92ka

You may not respond and let him give up by his side

Answer 25

sheikalana

@ali92ka I don't answer his messages at all but he doesn't get the message lol.

Answer 26

ali92ka

Hahahha you are stuck in his deep mind...

Answer 27

sheikalana

@ali92ka it's so frustrating.

Answer 28

ali92ka

If I were you, I would clearly ask him to stop texting me and if he did not respond as he should.. then I may report and block him

Answer 29

sheikalana

@ali92ka trust me I've done everything and I was very clear when I told him to stop messaging me and when I told him nothing's ever going to happen between us because of this and that. I've tried the nice way I've tried to make him hate me. I think blocking is the best thing I can do honestly.

Answer 30

ali92ka

Yes... And you have one more choice else... If you have a friend you trust (boyfriend) ask him to call him and illustrate a white lie such as he is your man and ask him aggressively to stop contacting you..

Answer 31

sheikalana

@ali92ka don't want to make him feel angry as I'm not sure how this person deals with frustration and rejection. Don't want him to turn into a violent MF and give him a chance to assault me or any of my friends.

Answer 32

ali92ka

You just block him and move on

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