Should I assume he is not interested/ not interested enough?

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There is a guy ( that I like) at a group activity I regularly go to once a week for about 2 months now. We only talked normally once where we introduced ourselves and just made general small talk. Since then he has been acting super weird. Long story short during the two months he seemed to have avoided me even though he talks with every other girl with ease, he BLATANTLY avoids eye contact even though I'm standing in front of him ( happened more than once on multiple occasions), I saw him freeze up when he saw me and do a U-turn and ran off as well as running off after I speaking to him very briefly. His friend also teased him about his blushing when I was near so that was weird haha. Anyways, it would seem like he dislikes me but we are both adults and this reminds me of middle school and I really haven't said anything offensive to him during the initial convo for him to be acting like that. Anyways, it is a shame as I kind of liked him but as he hasn't really spoken with me ( he avoids doing that) should I just assume he is not into me at all or just not interested enough?

Answer 1

Kiss_Me | 80 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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It appears its one extreme or the other. He either is really into you, but shy... or he is NOT into you and is avoiding you.

Why not just cut through the BS and ask him for a date? His answer will give you all the information you need.

Let us know how it goes. We are nosy like that... :)

Answer 2

Mexicvn | 54 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Maye it was something you said he didn't like? Or it could be his friends might have said something to avoid you. Either way, guys a lame and you should move on.

Answer 3

Anonymous

Either that or he's just really shy. He can talk to other girls because he doesn't like them, he likes you so it's harder. You know? Like you with guys maybe? Yeah it can seem a bit childish, but no matter our age, those feelings are the same.

Answer 4

Anonymous

Sounds like he is hiding his feelings for you. Try to say hi but don't pressure hium too much at once

Answer 5

Emanon_18 | 110 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Exactly and you shouldn’t waste your time

Answer 6

In_Trance | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Yeah

Answer 7

Flakey-Flake | 50 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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lmao obviously

Should I assume he is not interested/ not interested enough?

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