My Boyfriend Behavior?

Maybe it is not a serious problem and he might think that it is too silly to share with you.
Maybe he had to update it as a part of a challenge from friends.
I'm stating this opinion because recently, I saw that my friend had updated a similar kind of status and I asked him what happened and then he forwarded me a message saying that I accepted the challenge by asking him and now I have to update any one of the phrases or emotions stated in the message. 😅.
Well no one asked me what happened when I posted it.
So, it's probably something trivial, or it's something really related to his work so that he thinks it's better not to bother you with his problems.
It's just 2 weeks, it's generally too early to ghost👻
I texted him this.
I know you don't trust me enough to tell me about your problems but at least it's the least I expected from you. I'm sorry I was too close at you when you clearly wanted to be left alone. You updated that status, that meant you needed to be asked, I tried to know what is it but you don't trust me. Intimate oinadri ngaidagi dada ba haikhibado, "I don't want to serious in relationship right now".
Well you aren't ready still.
Asking your love one what happened is crucial, you telling me what's wrong would have been a little comforting. You are a busy man I know, I understand. You need your space, I give you plenty of space. But leaving me wonder just like that when I'm clearly just genuinely concerned is so cruel. I'm sorry I can't do this. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't trust me. It's okay, let's be honest. I may be younger than you and you may take me for granted for I'm stupid and too attentive at you because I'm like that, I'm naive and sometimes stupid. It's better I back off from you completely. Take care. I will never disturb you.
It is normal that you felt concerned about his well being , hopefully he will give you an explanation.
Did he replied to your last text?
No he hasn't. He was online 25 minutes ago. It's 12:40 am now. Midnight. Yesterday he tagged his two ex, with 4 of his male friends. The song was about a lover who is saying, "You were the only one that I will ever love, and no one will be as beautiful as you, no one will be as lovely as you" He didn't tagged me.
Give more time. Probably he'll text you, trying to explain things.
Did he posted that song before your last text to him?
Oh. Is there any chance that the statu was related to something internal in his friend circle?
He still didn't talk about it and told me not to think about it and he's still ghosting me. Leaving a goodnight message wouldn't hurt him ain't it? I'm burning with anger inside but I can't say anything. I'm so frustrated by the way he's treating me but I can't blame him. I just wanna shut myself and like to feel nothing. What I'm feeling is so much pain inside, it's burning me from inside. I have been crying a lot.
I did learn a few things about the importance of communication in a relationship after interacting with you.
Yeah a good night message won't hurt unless he is in such serious situations.
If you want to feel better, why don't you turn to music?
Do you write songs?
Yes, I'm a musician and singer too. He used to until he was betrayed by his own music teacher in his youth and lost his voice for 6 month and decided never to sing again. So after I met him, he told me about this incident and I begin to encourage him to begin singing and he did. After that we got close.
And today...
Yes, I'm a musician and singer too. He used to until he was betrayed by his own music teacher in his youth and lost his voice for 6 month and decided never to sing again. So after I met him, he told me about this incident and I begin to encourage him to begin singing and he did. After that we got close.
And today...
After two days, he's sorry he's not able to spent any time with me and asked me if I'm feeling betrayed by his action. I said I understand that you need to do your job, it's important. And I said I just miss him and miss his voice so much. He's saying he's travelling back home and the area is bit dangerous because a landslide just happened. I told him to be carefull. He said he'll call me after he come back.
How long have you known him since before you decided to get together? What kind of relationship do you have, and how old is he?
Only a week, read my post about him before this question please. He's 35 and I'm 25.
So I met this guy online, we have been talking and was both interested in music. So after getting close through texting, he told me about himself, then we became intimate with each other. He's a really busy guy coz he's the personal advisor of a political leader. He's been ghosting me lately as their was election. When he returns back from his work, I'll asked him weather is should wait for him (To talk or chat before sleeping) and he would say according to his activity like, "Sleep for tonight, I've got so much mail to sent, keep the bed warm for me love (Warm in the sense Through sms)". This has been our daily routine. He will just pop up in my front gate and would request me to come outside and would look at me for few minutes and will tell me to go outside. Yesterday, he brought a 6000k speaker 5.1 of Phillips from me (I do music and I brought a speaker long time back for my studio which I only use one time and had to pack it up coz it was too big for my studio) and as he wanted it , I gave it to him and he said he will arrange the money soon as he's bank account got deducted for his loan payment. I said it's okay of he returns back and told him not to hurry. So yesterday, one of his friend tagged him in a video, "The video sort of a romantic yet comical, it was of a guy using a huge knife and asking a beautiful girl and scaring her again and again, blocking her way and forcing her to tell him that she should say yes to his love proposal, finally the girl cried and said yes".
So his friend captain it as "As you guys are rejected by beautiful girls several times, maybe you should try this method".
My boyfriend commented : " Well, dude, you were out of luck too and got married to a random girl you just dated".
I'm just getting this vibe that he's just not into me yet and because his friend doesn't know his friend is in relationship with me, tagging his friend like that as if he's single now. Should I be worried?
I'm someone who holds traditional standards very high. I'll get right to the point.
This guy isn't ready for a relationship yet, a real good relationship that might lead to marriage. You should both be planning to spend time together in person above all things. If he isn't doing that, it brings up the question of what he is doing with the relationship. My gut tells me he wants to believe he is connected with someone while not actually living it. This is common among younger guys who don't know what they want in life.
I don't think so. If I were you I would think about the kind of relationship I want to have and then tell him we should see other people. Remember that you can come across someone who is good for you without having to sacrifice your own wants. That's my goal.
It's sad he doesn't trust you. Your relationship is a joke.
Be careful. You must smell if he needs "your" attention, or it's an issue he doesn't want to treat with his girlfriend. But uhm, its clear there's something wrong. Talk to him but dont be pushy, men like this get scared fast and run just bc you asked them whats wrong twice.
I told him I can't be in relationship with a guy who doesn't trust me to tell about his problem. I texted him I will not disturb him anymore and apologize that I asked him again and again.
Ya see, its the butterfly guy, he's weak and gets scared and stressed fast. I had one like this, but he was way older than me lol so thats not age thing, is a personality trait.
I texted him this.
I know you don't trust me enough to tell me about your problems but at least it's the least I expected from you. I'm sorry I was too close at you when you clearly wanted to be left alone. You updated that status, that meant you needed to be asked, I tried to know what is it but you don't trust me. Before we got intimate, you said " You don't wanna be in a serious relationship " Clearly you are not ready still. Asking your love one what happened is crucial, you telling me what's wrong would have been a little comforting. You are a busy man I know, I understand. You need your space, I give you plenty of space. But leaving me wonder just like that when I'm clearly just genuinely concerned is so cruel. I'm sorry I can't do this. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't trust me. It's okay, let's be honest. I may be younger than you and you may take me for granted for I'm stupid and too attentive at you because I'm like that, I'm naive and sometimes stupid. It's better I back off from you completely. Take care. I will never disturb you.
He will reply smth that will make u go back. Your ultimatum won't last and you know that too lol This is fake and he knows it. You both know you aren't over him yet. I had thr same problem, difference is i made it too long, i tried to be pacient and understanding but i felt like he was just playing and giving him time like that was bs. He wouldn't let me care about him. You will be better off him eventually. You will feel that bad with him but worse without him, but after all you'll end it by yourself.
I'm 25 and he's 35, he was online 25 minutes ago, both in Facebook and whatsApp. He never text me first, I'm the one who always text him
Ya pretty much like mine was. See? You are doing everything wrong. Step 1: avoid big paragraphs. You still have time to avoid the mistakes I've made. Step 2:dont ask for too much if the relationship is fresh new. Give it more time. Try to enjoy what hr gives you for now. Enjoy his company and dont think about what he doesn't tells you or offers you yet.
You don't sound like a person who goes with the flow lol You are like me. You like stabilility and know how things will happen, be always ready. You are a keeper like me. So ya if you take it easy do so, I couldnt.
Is that or you gonna lose him. He is weak and not ready, you got yourself into a dangerous game and the only one who will end deeply hurt its you bc you are the one whos investing the most on this relationship. You are giving without being asked so be careful.
After two days, he's sorry he's not able to spent any time with me and asked me if I'm feeling betrayed by his action. I said I understand that you need to do your job, it's important. And I said I just miss him and miss his voice so much. He's saying he's travelling back home and the area is bit dangerous because a landslide just happened. I told him to be carefull. He said he'll call me after he come back.
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No idea, as a general policy I don't waste time trying to interpret other people's drama. When he's ready to talk, he'll talk. And if he doesn't, then that's on him.
It seems like he doesn't trust you or he doesn't want to tell you
Yeah, I texted him this.
I texted him this.
I know you don't trust me enough to tell me about your problems but at least it's the least I expected from you. I'm sorry I was too close at you when you clearly wanted to be left alone. You updated that status, that meant you needed to be asked, I tried to know what is it but you don't trust me. Before we got intimate, you said " You don't wanna be in a serious relationship " Clearly you are not ready still. Asking your love one what happened is crucial, you telling me what's wrong would have been a little comforting. You are a busy man I know, I understand. You need your space, I give you plenty of space. But leaving me wonder just like that when I'm clearly just genuinely concerned is so cruel. I'm sorry I can't do this. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't trust me. It's okay, let's be honest. I may be younger than you and you may take me for granted for I'm stupid and too attentive at you because I'm like that, I'm naive and sometimes stupid. It's better I back off from you completely. Take care. I will never disturb you.
He has seen me naked and it makes him orgasm when I get naked but we haven't had any actual sex
Sometimes we just want a distraction not to open up
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