Guys, How should tell my coworker that I like him? Guys can you help me?

[Anonymous]

Some people think he has a crush but sometimes I’m not sure. Yes I do like him.

Here are some signs that makes me and few others think that he likes me:

-Always teases me a lot/eggs me on to do better at work

-Always says my name first or uses me as an example in our work group meeting

-Always volunteers me for a new project whether jokingly or seriously

-Always gives me advice even when I don’t ask for it

-Always tries to help me but sometimes forgets his promises to help me too (kind of contradicting I know)

-Brings up our past somehow sometimes (We met in college actually cuz we had one class together but then changed to different majors later on. Always saw each other on campus and talked to each other tho. Ironically he gave me advice when I was going through issues with my boyfriend during those college years and he kinda knew my ex too from mutual classmates/friends.)

-He comforted me at work one time when I was crying. He refused to leave unless I told him what was bothering me that day.

-Always wants to show off his new project at work to me

Updates:

1 y

Just a little update

Just yesterday I kinda smacked his shoulder when he was teasing me but he didn’t seem to shudder at that. He just laughed. Also I kinda suck at flirting so any tips on how to flirt would be great lol.

[PrudentGuy]

From what you wrote, yes he does show interest in you. It appears that he has quite a crush for you as well.

And if you like him too, then congratulations! You should be able to enter a romantic relationship easily.

How to flirt?

OMG! You're a girl! I thought girls are instinctively good at flirting?

Ok, I shall write how would like the girl I have crush on to flirt with me.

1) initiate meals and conversations.

As simple as "you want a drink" or "can you help me with my PC, it seems to have failed" (did no switch on the PC).

Ya, I know you're pretending to be stupid. But I like it.

2) offer food. Ya, bring something and share.

3) remember to touch, non-sensually.

Offer to shake hand; hold his arm when you talk to him; playful pact on his shoulder when you crack a joke.

4) invite him to go shopping or to a movie. Lockdown? Tell him your car wiper fails. Ask if he could TEACH you how to fix it. Then of course, be a bad student.

Got the idea?

Principle: initiate, but let him lead. Be creative with excuses.

Its OK he knows. This is what flirting is all about.

[OneManOnly01]

You don’t, just flirt a little bit but let him make the move. He needs to be able to lead you as a man