Guys can you help me to understand?

Question

Last one to two years that guy have matched me on tinder five times and I find him handsome, but I followed him on Instagram in June (His account is private so he accepted me) but he hasn’t follow me back but he like my tinder profile for fifth time at the end of September.
so I liked his new Instagram picture two days ago and he watched my story few minutes after, I did a little spy lol and I saw he literally follow every girl except me!
so I’m asking why? I can tell I’m prettier than many of them but that’s not the problem, the problem is why doesn’t he follow me back?

Updates:

23 d

Girls are you all feeling these incomprehensible guys vibe with me?

Answer 1

jennifer_bloom | 1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

He is trying to play mind games with you cause he wants you to be easier to get

Asker

24 d
You think that, but isn’t it weird if I’m the only girl of many who he doesn’t follow but likes me on Tinder?
jennifer_bloom

23 d
Yes he is playing hard to get or trying hard to hide his interest in you
Asker

23 d
Yeah I actually think that more than the other advices, bc he look like he likes me but is playing hard to get, or hiding his feelings🤷🏼‍♀️

Answer 2

Asker

You think that, but isn’t it weird if I’m the only girl of many who he doesn’t follow but likes me on Tinder?

Answer 3

jennifer_bloom

Yes he is playing hard to get or trying hard to hide his interest in you

Answer 4

Asker

Yeah I actually think that more than the other advices, bc he look like he likes me but is playing hard to get, or hiding his feelings🤷🏼‍♀️

Answer 5

REDHOTLINE | 149 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Why dondt you ask him why did he follwed you or why did you asked him he likes you or not

Asker

24 d
Tbh that’s weird in my country so I would never do that I would be so weird haha
REDHOTLINE

24 d
Where is your country?
Asker

24 d
Iceland, small country and people at my age judge each other very often if someone ask questions like that, he would probably think that I’m a weirdo lol
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REDHOTLINE

24 d
Ok viking girl but you are unhappy now. is it really important your happiness poeples make you judge or not.
Asker

24 d
Yeah real Viking here, but I’m actually not unhappy I’m just curious about this, like why am I the only girl who he doesn’t follow lol, I’m even much prettier than many of them to be honest
REDHOTLINE

24 d
I dont know but it shouldn't makes you insecure.
Asker

24 d
Yeah it does
Asker

24 d
And it’s annoying for a deep thinker haha
REDHOTLINE

24 d
☺ deep thinker but other giys it is the time
Asker

23 d
What do you mean by the time?

Answer 6

Asker

Tbh that’s weird in my country so I would never do that I would be so weird haha

Answer 7

REDHOTLINE

Where is your country?

Answer 8

Asker

Iceland, small country and people at my age judge each other very often if someone ask questions like that, he would probably think that I’m a weirdo lol

Answer 9

REDHOTLINE

Ok viking girl but you are unhappy now. is it really important your happiness poeples make you judge or not.

Answer 10

Asker

Yeah real Viking here, but I’m actually not unhappy I’m just curious about this, like why am I the only girl who he doesn’t follow lol, I’m even much prettier than many of them to be honest

Answer 11

REDHOTLINE

I dont know but it shouldn't makes you insecure.

Answer 12

Asker

Yeah it does

Answer 13

Asker

And it’s annoying for a deep thinker haha

Answer 14

REDHOTLINE

☺ deep thinker but other giys it is the time

Answer 15

Asker

What do you mean by the time?

Answer 16

winterfox10 | 3.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You're probably just an ego boost for him.

Asker

24 d
Why do you think that?
winterfox10

24 d
Because he isn't following you back on social media.
Asker

24 d
Yeah maybe
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winterfox10

23 d
After 5 times? Not maybe; definitely.
Asker

23 d
Okay tanks for your advice
winterfox10

23 d
Sure thing! I hope tinder yields better results in the future

Answer 17

Asker

Why do you think that?

Answer 18

winterfox10

Because he isn't following you back on social media.

Answer 19

Asker

Yeah maybe

Answer 20

winterfox10

After 5 times? Not maybe; definitely.

Answer 21

Asker

Okay tanks for your advice

Answer 22

winterfox10

Sure thing! I hope tinder yields better results in the future

Answer 23

Crazyguy222rt

Xper 2

Unfollow him on insta n stop thinking about him

Asker

24 d
I don’t know, it’s something about him but so weird that he likes my tinder but don’t follow me back 🤔
Crazyguy222rt

24 d
He want you to think about him.. he's playing mind game
Asker

24 d
So he doesn’t like me or anything just want me to like him? But he likes every other girl pretty or “ugly”? Or does he like me but he’s playing a game witch I don’t get
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Crazyguy222rt

24 d
For how long this all this all thing is going?
Asker

24 d
Last 1-2 years he has matched me on Tinder like 5 times and once we talked a little in March and then in June I decided to follow him on Instagram and he didn’t follow me only accept my account, and then at the end of September he liked me on Tinder and I matched him back
Crazyguy222rt

24 d
He's playing mind game. He don't want anything serious with you. he 2antvyiubti like him. He want to hookup
Asker

24 d
Haha yeah well he can’t have me or hook up with me If he doesn’t likes me on Instagram just on tinder haha
Crazyguy222rt

24 d
Who knows. See how much you think about him.
Asker

24 d
Yeah I started to think about this after I liked his new picture and he watched my story, and sometimes I think about him bc he is handsome (and graduated as police officer few months ago Hehe but thats not the point)😄
Crazyguy222rt

24 d
Ok.. suppose you text him next day n he aaj you to comeover. Will you go?
Asker

23 d
I don’t know, I’m not that kind of a girl, I’m more for knowing the person first before anything else

Answer 24

Asker

I don’t know, it’s something about him but so weird that he likes my tinder but don’t follow me back 🤔

Answer 25

Crazyguy222rt

He want you to think about him.. he's playing mind game

Answer 26

Asker

So he doesn’t like me or anything just want me to like him? But he likes every other girl pretty or “ugly”? Or does he like me but he’s playing a game witch I don’t get

Answer 27

Crazyguy222rt

For how long this all this all thing is going?

Answer 28

Asker

Last 1-2 years he has matched me on Tinder like 5 times and once we talked a little in March and then in June I decided to follow him on Instagram and he didn’t follow me only accept my account, and then at the end of September he liked me on Tinder and I matched him back

Answer 29

Crazyguy222rt

He's playing mind game. He don't want anything serious with you. he 2antvyiubti like him. He want to hookup

Answer 30

Asker

Haha yeah well he can’t have me or hook up with me If he doesn’t likes me on Instagram just on tinder haha

Answer 31

Crazyguy222rt

Who knows. See how much you think about him.

Answer 32

Asker

Yeah I started to think about this after I liked his new picture and he watched my story, and sometimes I think about him bc he is handsome (and graduated as police officer few months ago Hehe but thats not the point)😄

Answer 33

Crazyguy222rt

Ok.. suppose you text him next day n he aaj you to comeover. Will you go?

Answer 34

Asker

I don’t know, I’m not that kind of a girl, I’m more for knowing the person first before anything else

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