What does it mean when a friends with benefits stops texting during the day?

Question

I met this guy and slept with him, wasn't really expecting anything more than a friends with benefits situation after it. We ended up sleeping together a couple more times and would text each other about random conversation throughout the day, replying an hour or more each time. He's super affectionate before and after we hookup, thought things were going good then all of a sudden he just didn't reply one of my texts. Does this mean he's done with the situation?

Answer 1

SueShe | 363 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

What are you expecting from a person that (mis) uses you solely for the intimate relations?

He had his share of fun with you and now he is probably moving onto another prey. You seem to have been "decommissioned" as he apparently lost interest in you. He knows you inside out and wants to move to another victim. That is basically the scenario with hook ups with someone solely for intimate relations.

I believe it is time to move on and realize that you were yet just another body count or prey on his list.

Asker

13 d
I'm just expecting some respect, I'm over here using him too since he doesn't reach my dating standards.
SueShe

13 d
Some people do not know how to communicate and don't have the decency to hint or say what they think.

Perhaps that something came across and that he did not have the time or opportunity to text. Wait a few days and if nothing happens, you should either initiate another attempt or then realize it is over.

Answer 2

Asker

I'm just expecting some respect, I'm over here using him too since he doesn't reach my dating standards.

Answer 3

SueShe

Some people do not know how to communicate and don't have the decency to hint or say what they think.

Perhaps that something came across and that he did not have the time or opportunity to text. Wait a few days and if nothing happens, you should either initiate another attempt or then realize it is over.

Answer 4

virgin20 | 80 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Possibly. Like depends how long he's avoided you? Or maybe he found someone that is more serious

Answer 5

Iron_Man | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Who knows your just F buddies anyway you hold no Commitments Everything is just sex and lust 🙄

Asker

13 d
true guess I'm not used to this sort of arrangement so I see this as a bit disrespectful
Iron_Man

13 d
Yes.:.,

Answer 6

Asker

true guess I'm not used to this sort of arrangement so I see this as a bit disrespectful

Answer 7

Iron_Man

Yes.:.,

Answer 8

scott04sa22 | 168 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

He could be busy 🤷🏻‍♂️

Answer 9

Avicenna | 3.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Maybe not. Could be lots of other explanations.

Asker

13 d
like what lol
Avicenna

13 d
You’re not his girlfriend. Maybe he’s doing other things or met someone else. What do you really want from him?
Asker

13 d
lol just something casual to be honest
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Avicenna

13 d
I wouldn’t sweat it then. He will be back in touch when he wants sex
Asker

12 d
do you think it's ok to send him another text in a couple weeks to meet up to exchange things and for a possible hookup? I don't want to come off as desperate and double text technically since now it feels more like a game
Avicenna

12 d
That’s perfectly fine

Answer 10

Asker

like what lol

Answer 11

Avicenna

You’re not his girlfriend. Maybe he’s doing other things or met someone else. What do you really want from him?

Answer 12

Asker

lol just something casual to be honest

Answer 13

Avicenna

I wouldn’t sweat it then. He will be back in touch when he wants sex

Answer 14

Asker

do you think it's ok to send him another text in a couple weeks to meet up to exchange things and for a possible hookup? I don't want to come off as desperate and double text technically since now it feels more like a game

Answer 15

Avicenna

That’s perfectly fine

Answer 16

TheAfrikan | 122 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

He basically need his time as a man. Some space.

Answer 17

Vulvalicker

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