If you text something flirty to a guy and he responds to it quickly and continues the convo, is that a good sign?

Question

BUT what he responded wasn't flirty. however he replied within seconds and continued the convo.

Would you do that with someone you didn't have feelings for and just saw as a friend?

Answer 1

Shruxee

Xper 4

It could be either way to be honest. It could be a case of him being shy and/or didn’t recognise what you said as flirting. On the other hand, some people just reply quickly and enjoy chatting, so I also wouldn’t take a speedy response and a continuation of conversation as a guarantee he’s into you either.

Asker

13 d
this is in combination with him being flirty in person!
Shruxee

13 d
Oh yeah, in that case, I recon it’s probably a good thing. Sometimes texting isn’t always the easiest way to express a certain mood or emotion. That and guys don’t seem to be as thoughtful about their words sometimes!
Asker

13 d
i see! I'm just confused because I have heard that there are some guys out there who like to flirt for fun and don't want anything out of it, and then there are those who flirt because they like the girl. so I always thought if a guy was flirting for fun, he wouldn't necessarily respond to texts fast or try to continue a convo.

Answer 2

Asker

this is in combination with him being flirty in person!

Answer 3

Shruxee

Oh yeah, in that case, I recon it’s probably a good thing. Sometimes texting isn’t always the easiest way to express a certain mood or emotion. That and guys don’t seem to be as thoughtful about their words sometimes!

Answer 4

Asker

i see! I'm just confused because I have heard that there are some guys out there who like to flirt for fun and don't want anything out of it, and then there are those who flirt because they like the girl. so I always thought if a guy was flirting for fun, he wouldn't necessarily respond to texts fast or try to continue a convo.

Answer 5

MrHopper | 446 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Means he doesn't want to push it too far or is not comfortable with being that way with you, could also be shy

Asker

13 d
he's also flirty in person. but his texting habit confuses me bc you would think he'd be flirty over texts too
MrHopper

13 d
It could indicate he doesn't want a "record" of his actions, is he with some one? its like in person there is no proof... its like where i work anything we dont want written down we phone some one :D

Answer 6

Asker

he's also flirty in person. but his texting habit confuses me bc you would think he'd be flirty over texts too

Answer 7

MrHopper

It could indicate he doesn't want a "record" of his actions, is he with some one? its like in person there is no proof... its like where i work anything we dont want written down we phone some one :D

Answer 8

Smilingqueen2

Xper 5

Yes.

If you text something flirty to a guy and he responds to it quickly and continues the convo, is that a good sign?

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