I wonder if he's not stopping himself from doing/saying what he wants because of me. He still wants to date me even when he disagrees with me.
Is it possible that he's desperate? Or it might be something else?
I understand him because I treat my partner like a queen. . . but I want a woman who will treat me like a king!
Aww she's lucky to have you. 😊❤
I want to treat him that way but sometimes I'm not able to.
It's not necessarily a matter of having money. I am at her house for dinner and she asks what would I like to drink, did I have enough to eat, would I like a dessert, am I comfortable, etc. She cares about how I feel, my comfort, my satisfaction. Those little things get noticed!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now! Maybe she will, but I will not pretend to be her friend because it is not friendship, it is friendzone. Thank you 🙂
Haha probably I am not that guy, but you can not be sure haha 🤣 you are in same age range as she is so...
And can I ask you why you don't want relaationship?
If he is nice to you and you have good time with him, you can give him a chance. Just go out with him, tell him that you are not into him, but you will go out with him and see how it goes. I would be happy with answer like this.
Have fun and maybe this is good for you. Maybe you will fall for him. Why do you think it is not possible?
I'm not ready for a relationship, especially with the conditions we have. I would love to go out with him but that's not possible because we live in different countries. However, I'm willing to meet him in person when we can.
I also think it's not possible for me to like him because he's almost 20 years older than me. I guess that difference could bring us some issues.
Oh yes, 20 years is to much. You are not in the same country and this makes thing difficult. You are right, 20 years gap can couse some issues in future. You are young and it is better for you to find someone your age. It wouldn't be hard for you 😉
Personaly, I would never be in LDR with someona 20 years older. It is big no for me. So, I totally understand you.
Just told him if he ask that it is better for him to go on and find someone who is better for him.
Yes, I know that you are not in LDR, but if you would be, it would be to hard for you because age gap of 5 or 10 years is ok, but 20 is to much.
Just do not wasting your time and energy for someone and something that probably won't sucess. Do not give hime to much hope and just be on the 'market' and you will see. It is just my advice.
Anyways, wish you a best luck 🙂
How does it mean you are not enough, it means he feels he is not enough, it's the fact you worry about his desperation which leads him further to have your approval. Reassure him then if you love him back.
Do you even know what your want? You have a man who by all indications treats you well and he still is kind and caring towards you even when you are rude to him. And for that, you think he is "desperate"? It doesn't occur to you that he might just be a good person who is patients and caring?
You women are so fucked up.
He said what you needed to hear. He might genuinely care about you deeply in a noncrazy way. I will say that until he makes you regret anytime spent, you should always trust the person is sincere.
head over heels wanting to spend the rest of my life with D***
she has my heart and my soul
the heartwarming smile that crosses my face when something reminds me of her
that good morning message or good night message i leave her
the how is your day going just so she knows i'm thinking about her without actually saying i'm thinking of you
telling her to dress warm or to keep warm when it gets cold and chilly outside
asking her if she ate lunch or dinner
asking her how her pets are
the type of love you want to last forever like sitting in a rocking chair out on a porch her with a blanket over her lap and glasses on talking and watching the sunset
and sharing pictures of the sunset with her
listen people disagree on stuff if everybody agreed on everything then debates and topics to discuss and issues to discuss wouldn't have been created. let me give you an example. the woman i love has been pro biden. now for me i never cared for either biden or trump (in fact i couldn't stand both), but when i looked carefully at what biden and trump had to offer (trump being into fossil fuels and biden being into greener cleaner energy and biden wanting to raise minimum wage and trump not and biden with universal health care of some kind while trump doesn't it made me lean more towards biden even though i still don't like the guy but his policies are better than trumps and the woman i love helped me see that and take open my eyes more and take different perspectives on things)
Awww that's so sweet!! 😊❤
She's lucky for having you. :) I can tell that you really love her based on how you talk about her and she even made you change your political views. That's powerful! Hope you guys are happy! :)
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