I understand what you’re saying. What I see is I get used by females but not for materialistic things. It’s more like for attention and emotionally. I never speak up but when I do I’m looked at as a bad person because I accept things that I should never accept
Yes, I too have been used as an emotional sponge for a woman as well as for attention.You will be used by them for whatever you are good for.It's up to you to decide what exactly you want to be used for by women, what you want in a relationship and what you're willing to give.Personally I do not want to be used for money.I don't want to be used to help her move and do her repairs.I don't want to be her babysitter.I don't want to be her taxi driver.I prefer to be her source of love, attention, sex and companionship.
I agree with you. It’s all about boundaries. I never establish them until it’s too late
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I think most woman don’t like nice guys. They look at you as if you have ulterior motives
From my experience, many women don't like nice guys. But that's not really going to change for you by adopting a different persona, unless you succeed, which would be very unfortunate. Many women really like nice guys. For some reason, a lot of nice guys ignore those women. As for ulterior motives, being unusually helpful can cause alarm to many in this distrustful age. You need to be judicious about who you try to help and how you go about it.
I don’t think I let them simp train me
People don’t like nice guys
Hmmmmmm yeah they do
you're taking it too literally
Even nice people have a boiling point
You won't be nice anymore when you reach that
I’m definitely at that point but I never express it out of fear
You better express it and let it out, or that emotion consumes you
I feel if I’m say how I feel people might look at me as if I’m a bad person
It's better to go through life being yourself, wouldn't you say?
You’re right. I just have to break that barrier or continue being walked over.
You said it "being walked over" you can still be nice, and stand up for yourself at the same time, you can't please everyone on this planet