Do I Have a Chance With Him?

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Childhood friends and talked/dated when we were 18. We had a really messy breakup, I *briefly* dated his friend after. I apologised a year later. I didn’t know he wanted a second chance when I apologised so told him I was seeing someone, he blocked me.

so now it’s 3 years later and I added him on social media again cause I missed him. He messaged me something from our childhood and held the convo for a few days. He messaged me again on my birthday, pretending he forgot and just saying he wasn’t ignoring me, he had exams. He didn’t ignore me lol I don’t know what he was referring to, but I put effort to carry on the conversation. Again only lasted for a couple of days.

He’s acting slightly formal and I know i hurt him in the past. But is he interested and do I have a chance?

Answer 1

Lov2PlezUgurl

Xper 6

If he wasn't interested he wouldn't be talking to you yes of course you got a chance but you got to play your cards... Lovingly I think showing how much you care starting now

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1 y
I think so too! How can I show him I care?

Answer 2

Asker

I think so too! How can I show him I care?

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bklynbadboy1 | 1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Well that depends you said the break up was messy why did you break up with him

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Because my cousin told me that he was a bad guy who was going to mess with me. I know he was trying to protect me but I’ve also known the guy since I was like 7, he’s a really good guy. I just trusted my cousin in the moment and it led to a big fight. I was insecure back then.

Answer 4

Asker

Because my cousin told me that he was a bad guy who was going to mess with me. I know he was trying to protect me but I’ve also known the guy since I was like 7, he’s a really good guy. I just trusted my cousin in the moment and it led to a big fight. I was insecure back then.

Answer 5

belle_kai

Yoda

I would leave it well alone, it was a messy breakup and you were friends. I personally would not get involved with a childhood friend to begin with. I think if he was hurt, the ball is in his court. Build that trust but maybe just be friends for the time being.

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Hangry22

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Seems like an on and off relation. You may have a chance. He is probably missing you too. But you should think about how to give him hints and be cautious about not messing it up with words or actions

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1 y
Definitely - I feel like i have to be so careful. This time we’ve both grown so much and maybe we might have a chance... that’s what I keep telling myself. Just hope he’s interested too.
Hangry22

1 y
Hold out some hope. It will happen if it's meant to be.
Asker

1 y
That’s so true! Thank you :)

Answer 7

Asker

Definitely - I feel like i have to be so careful. This time we’ve both grown so much and maybe we might have a chance... that’s what I keep telling myself. Just hope he’s interested too.

Answer 8

Hangry22

Hold out some hope. It will happen if it's meant to be.

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Asker

That’s so true! Thank you :)

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AlexanderAnttila

Yoda

You don't want to be getting back together with an ex just because you miss them. Any motive besides love doesn't build a good foundation, they're still an ex for a reason.

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KingDio | 498 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Not too sure as mentioned previously, probably scared history will repeat itself when been hurt before... it kinda doesn't heal

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Answer 12

mrgspoter

Yoda

It's the same question as before yeah or is it a diffrent one you cheated on this time?

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1 y
Wait what I’ve never cheated on anyone. I’ve been cheated on but never cheated on anyone...
mrgspoter

1 y
Oh whats the problem then
mrgspoter

1 y
Ye it's basically same thing I'd not be serious with a lady who did that I'd not want her to have been with anyone I know I'm not that desperate at all to have to be, I'd rather be single

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Asker

Wait what I’ve never cheated on anyone. I’ve been cheated on but never cheated on anyone...

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mrgspoter

Oh whats the problem then

Answer 15

mrgspoter

Ye it's basically same thing I'd not be serious with a lady who did that I'd not want her to have been with anyone I know I'm not that desperate at all to have to be, I'd rather be single

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dsrice1966

Xper 5

Yes, you for sure have a chance with him.

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Answer 17

gandolph3

Yoda

Ask him if he would like to meet and talk

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