Why do the guys I dated long term (2+ years) end up marrying the next girl they met in 4 months?

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I feel like good luck chuck
*movie reference*

Answer 1

Avicenna | 6.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

That might say more about them than you. Did you communicate well with them about expectations and were your expectations aligned?

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Yeah. I wanted more dates and for us to do more healthy things together like gym or hikes. Usually I would put the first gesture out. . never really reciprocated. But yeah anyway after it ended they marry anxiety I don't know
Asker

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Marry, I dont know ****
Avicenna

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Guys usually get turned off if a woman isn't as enthusiastic as they are or doesn't seem enthusiastic at all. That's part of communication. Marriage goes to expectations.
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Asker

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Hmmm so I wonder why they'd get married so fast...

Anyway thanks
Avicenna

1 y
No problem. It's probably not anything you're doing.

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Asker

Yeah. I wanted more dates and for us to do more healthy things together like gym or hikes. Usually I would put the first gesture out. . never really reciprocated. But yeah anyway after it ended they marry anxiety I don't know

Answer 3

Asker

Marry, I dont know ****

Answer 4

Avicenna

Guys usually get turned off if a woman isn't as enthusiastic as they are or doesn't seem enthusiastic at all. That's part of communication. Marriage goes to expectations.

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Asker

Hmmm so I wonder why they'd get married so fast...

Anyway thanks

Answer 6

Avicenna

No problem. It's probably not anything you're doing.

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happyguy28

Xper 3

Damn... if that's true be in relationship with me 😂

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I think I'm going to start charging
happyguy28

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😂😂 that will be a good business

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Asker

I think I'm going to start charging

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happyguy28

😂😂 that will be a good business

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Hangry22

Guru

You saw them dating for 4 months. But they were dating behind your back for long

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2 of them definitely the other two nawww
Hangry22

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Maybe it's you then
Asker

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Hmmm no, I dont blame myself for other peoples behavior.

But I do believe one of the guys married the girl so quicky because he is sort of a lonely dude.

The other one naw I think he honestly likes her which is good. Just so fast.

And like I said the other two were man sluts 😅
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Hangry22

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That's not what i meant. Maybe you atttact such type of men
Asker

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Oh for sure... I just notice I have two patterns intertwined. Definitely just chilling by myself and being way more cautious.

Thanks

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Asker

2 of them definitely the other two nawww

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Hangry22

Maybe it's you then

Answer 13

Asker

Hmmm no, I dont blame myself for other peoples behavior.

But I do believe one of the guys married the girl so quicky because he is sort of a lonely dude.

The other one naw I think he honestly likes her which is good. Just so fast.

And like I said the other two were man sluts 😅

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Hangry22

That's not what i meant. Maybe you atttact such type of men

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Asker

Oh for sure... I just notice I have two patterns intertwined. Definitely just chilling by myself and being way more cautious.

Thanks

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Iron_Man | 10.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Tell me what it is you’re doing wrong

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Hmm I have anxiety so that will manifest via work stress or look like social stress
Iron_Man

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Ok How do you act with it though
Asker

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I need to left alone. Some guys respect it other did not
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Iron_Man

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Ok 🤔

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Asker

Hmm I have anxiety so that will manifest via work stress or look like social stress

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Iron_Man

Ok How do you act with it though

Answer 19

Asker

I need to left alone. Some guys respect it other did not

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Iron_Man

Ok 🤔

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chriscdi

Master

just a weird coincidence i guess

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