I get some cute men. Im just an average woman who's not skinny. I feel bad and wonder why they like me. This is me no makeup. I cannot tell if they truly think I'm pretty or just desperate.
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Edit: it could be me ok my time of the month and I'm just feeling insecure and depressed.
Jjpayne | 1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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I'd say that it's yes and no. I think we have become more realistic. We realize that not every girl is a model. But there is something about self care here. I think it's important to spend time taking care of yourself. Pick out fun clothes that look good on you, get a fun hairstyle and just simply enjoy life as best you can. I think guys are more attracted to a girl that has self confidence to an extent.
I'd say for you, find a way to boost your self confidence in looks and inner feelings and the guys will naturally follow
hi_it_is_me123 | 142 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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No, we women just follow our nature that want the best (healthy/good lookin) genes for our off springs. That is why females can't like ugly short old men. So dont hate on us, hate on the biology or our hypergamous nature🙃. (Sarcasm). I personally can't just date fugly/short guys even though i tried, i end up leaving them 'cause i feel like so disgusted or "sexually harassed" whenever i was near to them. Before you get mad me for leaving these guys for such a reason, they were not the greatest people anyway. They tried to assault me/ threat me with suicide which were also one the reasons i left them. I swear i dont know why i am like this. I can't control what i like. I just wish i was less shallow but i realize that specially ugly guys tend to be promiscuos since they feel ugly and need to prove themself and this why I also dont date them. I stay both from ugly and super hot guys.
I've had men interested in me and they are really attractive. I know they became interested in me because of how we connect through conversations, laughter, and getting a glimpse of our personalities meshing together. Those first greetings can leave a man interested. And I never purposely try to get them. I'm just myself.
serious | 3.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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Morals, values, standards are all personal things. It is subjective to each person, to each man. Having high or low standards has nothing to do with the looks of that person having these standards.
There are men who are average looking but they have high standards for either physical beauty or personality for the kind the woman they are looking for or both physical and personality also and on the other hand there are really good looking men who are very open minded and don't have high standards or expectations but give importance to personality factor only.
Hence it all depends on the person, the man and not the looks of the man.
Massageman | 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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I don't think that men have lowered their standards. I think that our more leisurely-oriented society has just provided an excuse- for both males and females- to spend less attention - AT TIMES - to their overall image.
When going to a wedding, I'm sure that there will still be some women who will try to out-dress the bride (which is in very bad taste - this is HER day, after all ) but I digress.
You look fine. Don't worry about it- you are being your own worst enemy. You without make-up, are prettier than Lady Gaga without make-up! Do you have a before and after of your everyday make-up for comparison?Lady Gaga, naked-faced! 'Nuf said!
I don't know, you look cute to me. Guys aren't like women, we don't all have the same standards. Men vary wildly in what they perceive as attractive.
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hahahmm | 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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NO! What has happened is that online dating gave women of lower value easy access to higher value men. Those higher value men are open to sex but that was true 500 years ago. Just talking about casual sex. Serious is another matter. A high value dude is not going to treat you like a high value catch in 99.99% of cases. Unless you have a history with him so there's a way deeper connection than the fact you both put pizza on your online profile.
And something I forgot to mention... If you look at Miss America contestants from 120 years ago they all had meh faces or even fugly by modern standards. But 100% of them had the most amazing bodies. In the old days it was all about the body. What they thought of as a great face would be considered cute/slightly above average today. Mass media (print advertising, movies, tv, & today social media) warped people's thinking and convinced us that there's a huge range of value to faces. It's like if you went to a pizza shop that sold 100 different kinds of pizza. You might get the idea that only 2-3 pizzas look the best. But if you went to a shop that only has 5 pizzas you're not going to think that way. Too much choice. If you grew up 120+ years ago you'd probably be considered 'top shelf' lookswise. As long as you have a good body. Speaking of which, 99% of women had a great body back in the day because their lifestyle and available foods forced it to be that way.
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You could find men that are average 'cute', not have too high expectations and have great personality to cover all lack of 'Super duper model' look...
I think I'm average guy, I would date you, if you would have great personality on top of that looks...
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Are we talking about just sex or relationships. If it's just sex guys aren't as picky as they would otherwise be. Like obviously a hot guy would prefer to hookup with a hot girl, but if that's not available or seems like it will require more work a lot of them would rather have sex with one or several average looking girls who are enthusiastically willing and not going to make him work for it.
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Honestly forget it. I'm tired of telling myself I'm ugly.
@SkullsandBeauty, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder (the person looking). Let me ask you something... Was the sex good? Why look a gift horse in the mouth? In other words why question what is good? Do not put so much worry into such things. You must have something they like otherwise they wouldn't be giving you attention.
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@Bang5luts lol I'm not average or ugly. I'm naturally pretty no makeup. Im over this question and you can go back to banging plastic bitches who's face will melt as she ages.
@SkullsandBeauty You got me all wrong.. Im not saying you are average or ugly. I was simply saying enjoy the experience if it was pleasant! Know your worth and stay away from the people who don't.
It isn't 100% about looks. I am a 5, dead average, and I have dated some gorgeous girls. Why? I ask. Seriously. A lot of these women usually get hit on by guys who are only interested in trying to bed them. They actually enjoy being treated like normal people, not a POA.
You’re probably an awesome person? If a guy is smart, he won’t only focus on the physical appearance of a woman.
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Beauty is different to everyone. But looks isn't everything. Personality is more important than looks for the most part. Even the most beautiful girls get cheated on
Depends on how attractive they are and how desperate they are. Maybe they're also about average looking but you find them more attractive. They maybe wanna bang as many women as they can so they go for less attractive girls. Or maybe they aren't confident enough to go for attractive girls.
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Avicenna | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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Don’t forget That attractiveness Is multidimensional. You aren’t unattractive anyway.
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Twalli | 860 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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I find my girlfriend attractive, but can't see why she finds me attractive. Be glad they like you. There's a reason, even if you can't see it.
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bamesjond0069 | 1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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Well im good looking and ill fuck lots of girls but if they aren't more attractive than average i won't date them.
You look great nice skin pretty eyebrows nice long hair. I could go on but i won't only cause i dont know you to be saying these things.
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I guess they probably did. Maybe you have a lovely personality and that's why they are so attracted to you. You also said that you have nice tits and ass too so that's also something that boosts your worth. By the way I'm sure if you would lose some weight and take care your hair you would look much better. I guess you don't even need to do these cause man love you even without those things.
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