Have good looking men lowered their standards?

[Jjpayne]

I'd say that it's yes and no. I think we have become more realistic. We realize that not every girl is a model. But there is something about self care here. I think it's important to spend time taking care of yourself. Pick out fun clothes that look good on you, get a fun hairstyle and just simply enjoy life as best you can. I think guys are more attracted to a girl that has self confidence to an extent.

I'd say for you, find a way to boost your self confidence in looks and inner feelings and the guys will naturally follow

[hi_it_is_me123]

No, we women just follow our nature that want the best (healthy/good lookin) genes for our off springs. That is why females can't like ugly short old men. So dont hate on us, hate on the biology or our hypergamous nature🙃. (Sarcasm).
I personally can't just date fugly/short guys even though i tried, i end up leaving them 'cause i feel like so disgusted or "sexually harassed" whenever i was near to them. Before you get mad me for leaving these guys for such a reason, they were not the greatest people anyway. They tried to assault me/ threat me with suicide which were also one the reasons i left them. I swear i dont know why i am like this. I can't control what i like. I just wish i was less shallow but i realize that specially ugly guys tend to be promiscuos since they feel ugly and need to prove themself and this why I also dont date them. I stay both from ugly and super hot guys.

[Cmoreins]

I've had men interested in me and they are really attractive. I know they became interested in me because of how we connect through conversations, laughter, and getting a glimpse of our personalities meshing together. Those first greetings can leave a man interested. And I never purposely try to get them. I'm just myself.

[serious]

Morals, values, standards are all personal things. It is subjective to each person, to each man. Having high or low standards has nothing to do with the looks of that person having these standards.

There are men who are average looking but they have high standards for either physical beauty or personality for the kind the woman they are looking for or both physical and personality also and on the other hand there are really good looking men who are very open minded and don't have high standards or expectations but give importance to personality factor only.

Hence it all depends on the person, the man and not the looks of the man.

[Massageman]

I don't think that men have lowered their standards. I think that our more leisurely-oriented society has just provided an excuse- for both males and females- to spend less attention - AT TIMES - to their overall image.

When going to a wedding, I'm sure that there will still be some women who will try to out-dress the bride (which is in very bad taste - this is HER day, after all ) but I digress.

You look fine. Don't worry about it- you are being your own worst enemy.
You without make-up, are prettier than Lady Gaga without make-up!
Do you have a before and after of your everyday make-up for comparison?

Lady Gaga, naked-faced! 'Nuf said!

[Bananaman177]

I don't know, you look cute to me. Guys aren't like women, we don't all have the same standards. Men vary wildly in what they perceive as attractive.

[hahahmm]

NO! What has happened is that online dating gave women of lower value easy access to higher value men. Those higher value men are open to sex but that was true 500 years ago. Just talking about casual sex. Serious is another matter. A high value dude is not going to treat you like a high value catch in 99.99% of cases. Unless you have a history with him so there's a way deeper connection than the fact you both put pizza on your online profile.

[Anonymous]

You could find men that are average 'cute', not have too high expectations and have great personality to cover all lack of 'Super duper model' look...

I think I'm average guy, I would date you, if you would have great personality on top of that looks...

[Bandit74]

Are we talking about just sex or relationships. If it's just sex guys aren't as picky as they would otherwise be. Like obviously a hot guy would prefer to hookup with a hot girl, but if that's not available or seems like it will require more work a lot of them would rather have sex with one or several average looking girls who are enthusiastically willing and not going to make him work for it.

[Liam_Hayden]

It isn't 100% about looks. I am a 5, dead average, and I have dated some gorgeous girls. Why? I ask. Seriously. A lot of these women usually get hit on by guys who are only interested in trying to bed them. They actually enjoy being treated like normal people, not a POA.

[navyrobin]

You’re probably an awesome person? If a guy is smart, he won’t only focus on the physical appearance of a woman.

[Anonymous]

Beauty is different to everyone. But looks isn't everything. Personality is more important than looks for the most part. Even the most beautiful girls get cheated on

[john23232323]

Depends on how attractive they are and how desperate they are. Maybe they're also about average looking but you find them more attractive. They maybe wanna bang as many women as they can so they go for less attractive girls. Or maybe they aren't confident enough to go for attractive girls.

[Avicenna]

Don’t forget That attractiveness Is multidimensional. You aren’t unattractive anyway.

[Twalli]

I find my girlfriend attractive, but can't see why she finds me attractive. Be glad they like you. There's a reason, even if you can't see it.

[bamesjond0069]

Well im good looking and ill fuck lots of girls but if they aren't more attractive than average i won't date them.

[Deku2009]

Each man has there own personal standards from what I seen of you I would definitely try to date you but I am not a good looking man 😭

[Dave31989]

The pattern seems to be, guys, after a breakup, tend to upgrade.. while girls, tend to downgrade after a breakup

[woodelf307]

You look great nice skin pretty eyebrows nice long hair. I could go on but i won't only cause i dont know you to be saying these things.

[Anonymous]

I guess they probably did. Maybe you have a lovely personality and that's why they are so attracted to you. You also said that you have nice tits and ass too so that's also something that boosts your worth. By the way I'm sure if you would lose some weight and take care your hair you would look much better. I guess you don't even need to do these cause man love you even without those things.

[mrgspoter]

Well most men lie and cheat regardless, it's not looks that malter most to me

[TallAnon]

You have a pretty face, don't forget that you are your harshest critic.

[VlLEEE]

I wouldn't consider yourself average. You're pretty ugly. AND BLOCKED

[jjj101010]

U look nice. How does this compare to u with makeup

[RonJon20]

You're not bad looking. Maybe if you had more confidence you would feel better.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Honestly you're not unattractive. I like your eyebrows actually or just your features. You have a cute baby face and some guys like it. It's just that beauty in the eyes of the beholder.

[DWornock]

You are good enough to f**k. Men date down for sex but they don't marry down.

[legion6969]

Your very attractive, stop putting yourself down and fuck what men think. Live and be happy for your my self, no one else.

[Anonymous]

Nope they just have Yellow Fever
They will hate on any girl that looks young and/or Asian

[CreamySeed]

You look youthful and healthy which is why men want to fornicate your loins.

[specialdusty]

I just want to be emotionally attracted to any woman. dont matter how cute or sexy her face is. guts are unattractive if they look preagnant

[HopeIsGiven]

You look really pretty.

[Anonymous]

Men are nowhere near as shallow as women... your situation is a pretty common women enjoy while rejecting men by the dozens

[Anonymous]

Men usually date down, women date up. Just be happy that you are a woman haha.

[AFellowWeeb]

u look like my step cousin

[Anonymous]

men and women are different we are not as shallow or evil as you

there is a reason more women go to hell

[jimmy2]

Men today want chunky girls

[gandolph3]

You look nice and they may like your personality

[DiversityHire]

I think you're pretty, you have nice features.

[Anonymous]

Do you have a nice body?

[chriscdi]

maybe both

[magiusX26]

you look fine to me

[Anonymous]

You are chubby how I like women :))

[Twenty2]

Quarantine has made people desperate.

[roastbeef]

you are beautiful love to see full view of you

[dsrice1966]

You are very pretty

[asdfghjkjhgfdsa]

no noby likes you

[Anonymous]

Everyone lowers their standard for sex

[SleepingMK]

who’s this cute girl