We broke up earlier this year, unfortunately we have a child together. I love my child but not my ex. I don't bother him, didn't put him on child support and don't care that he has a new girlfriend and got her pregnant and our child isn't even a year old yet. He talks badly about me on social media (probably to his family, friends and girlfriend too) and shares mean and angry videos about "baby mamas" on his Facebook. I left him technically and don't care that he's moved on, I feel bad for her as he's abusive and a cheater. If I was bitter I would try to fuck up his life and bother him, I do neither! We haven't seen each other in months and I haven't contacted him in months. I even left my shit by house (and I loved some of those clothes) and don't bother him for shit. So my question is if I'm NOT bothering him and he has a new girlfriend and baby on the way why is he bringing me up even if it's negative? We live 2 hours away from each other I do not bother this man.