Do you have a girl in your group you consider one of the guys?
Can a girl be “ one of the boys"?

Do you have a girl in your group you consider one of the guys?
- I don't agree with that quote about Fridays/Saturdays, but... "Can a girl be one of the boys?" It's possible, but very unlikely. Most women can't take a f*cking joke whatsoever, get easily offended, and are more prone to get annoyed/bothered, so many men don't want to deal with that when out with each other. Sometimes, men HAVE to deal with it, because one of them will bring along their girlfriend/wife/co-worker or something, but all the men will secretly resent both the guy and his plus-one for making them have to censor themselves and not say what's really on their mind because a lady is present. Men, when by themselves, say things that most women nowadays get easily offended by.
Remember Donald Trump's "grab them by the pussy" line? If women get offended by something as innocent/nothing as THAT, then no, we aren't going to want you to hang out with us. This isn't even getting into society pushing social justice horsesh*t onto us by enforcing the HR double-standard that "women have to be included and 'feel welcomed'" in everything, but the same rule doesn't apply to men. It's not women's fault, but anytime you are told you HAVE to not only include someone, but HAVE to change things to suit that someone, it's going to build up massive resentment for that person. That's why the analogy I used before about a dude bringing his girlfriend/wife to a guy's night annoys us so much. Every man should be allowed to have his men's time just like women are allowed to have their ladies night.
"Do you have a girl in your group you consider one of the guys?" No, no I don't. I used to host small Meetup. com events back in the States. We've had PLENTY of times when we made plans and someone brought an unexpected female guest with us, and later on, we cut them out of the group for disrespecting the protocol and essentially ruining the night by bringing along a Karen that took a giant piss all over everything. And we've had some nights when women were brought along in advance as well, but we all knew it wasn't going to be a social night out, and instead, more like a professional dinner, as if we're with co-workers or something. But regardless, you NEVER bring unexpected guests to a group night out, no matter their gender.
So, as I said, it's possible for one to exist. I'm sure some other men have had a tomboy/feminine woman in their group of men when out. But most women are just too sensitive/easily offended for us to want to put up with that sh*t, even the dykes, who just end up being a try-hard too much.Is this still revelant?@MCheetah
Guys who bring their flavor of the week, escort, wife, girlfriend, or the like should be beaten senseless. There was one friend of a friend who did that constantly. He got talked to about it several times and he just didn't get it. "Aw man this chick is so cool, blah, blah... right... is that why she thought the Giants and Jets were in the same division?It sounds like your issue is being around the wrong chicks or people bringing their girls with them with or without permission. I'm not taking about a tag along. Dikes are a hit or miss but most tomboys I met are alright. I don't like overly sensitive people regardless of gender 🤷
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- I have a housemate that's a girl and had one before this one as well. I think we get along pretty well but there does seem to be some kind of barrier still between us. It's not that I personally reject her but there always does seem to come a point where she seems to want something more from us and seems to think we're not fully accepting her or something. It's not often and it's never explicitly spoken about but I have noticed this moment a few times. I don't know exactly what else it is she wants.
It also doesn't help that her and the guy who's renting us the rooms are sleeping together. That has led to some awkward moments as well.
I think in general if a girl has the right attitude it can go pretty well but there are some things, some dynamics between guys and why we act a certain way that a girl can't really understand and she has to be able to accept that she can't be part of everything.Is this still revelant?Haha :D Well the previous girl that lived here was also sleeping with a guy that we knew but didn't live here. For me it doesn't make a difference who she's sleeping with in the way I treat her.
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- Can be friends but not one of the boys if that makes any sense sorryIs this still revelant?
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08- Oh my god girl you can be one of the boys don't mind these muscle heads telling you anything else. At least, you can be one of my boys! Alright peace and love hope you don't encounter more blockhead boys like the ones telling you you can not be "one of the boys". :)React
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- Nope. If one somehow gets through perimeter security, and make it to watch NFL Sunday it's a miracle.
These women ALWAYS talk the talk... and then end being impostersReactLike
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Tomboys? Dikes? Worked with plenty of both, but never had either in my social circle.
It all boils down to the same thing that happens when a dude somehow gets stuck with a group of women.
When in same gender social groups, guys cannot be themselves 100% with even one woman around.I don't believe that. I'm the tomboy, I've had guys be themselves around me. We got paintballing, and play Snappa and break shit all the time. The only time they really care that I'm a girl is they want advice on women.
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How would you truly know? You really think they would admit they hold back in certain ways when you are around? Of course not. There are certain things that dudes discuss that are NEVER brought up around females.
Yea even the gay, disgusting or violent shit that happens when I'm not there. They'll tell me about sooner or later
- Yeah I knew one when I was a kid, and later in high school she got hot!React
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- Opposite sex friends are narcissistic supply and pathetic orbiters.React
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Through sexual tension and validation absent release or resolution. Your concept of variety is superficial at best.
Not at all. I have friends of the opposite sex since childhood and I believe our friendships are on a family level
The (mostly) women who have opposite sex "friends" all put up the same facade so they don't feel like bad people for either being a sycophant or a closeted user... it's all about the narcissistic supply and potential mate acquisition.
I don't think most people think that hard into. Some people just meet other people, and become friends
Right, and I suppose that you just have "friends" and aren't in it for the narcissistic supply or anything, huh?
Yea, exactly? You make that sound impossible to be around people and just enjoy each other's company 😂🤷
You're not going to say: "I like keeping a harem of beta male wimps in the friendzone, because I'm a hollow narcissistic pretender!"
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- I don't, but I wish I did.React
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"Do you have a girl in your group you consider one of the guys?" - I don't, but I wish I did :p
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I mean I'm not gonna lie and say I don't desire female... something, right, because I feel like I'm missing that side of things. That said, I'd be fine with her just being a friend. I have a female friend already, but she doesn't play games, and me and my friends do. A lot.
- Thats called a whore.React
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