Can a girl be “ one of the boys"?

[MCheetah]

I don't agree with that quote about Fridays/Saturdays, but... "Can a girl be one of the boys?" It's possible, but very unlikely. Most women can't take a f*cking joke whatsoever, get easily offended, and are more prone to get annoyed/bothered, so many men don't want to deal with that when out with each other. Sometimes, men HAVE to deal with it, because one of them will bring along their girlfriend/wife/co-worker or something, but all the men will secretly resent both the guy and his plus-one for making them have to censor themselves and not say what's really on their mind because a lady is present. Men, when by themselves, say things that most women nowadays get easily offended by.

Remember Donald Trump's "grab them by the pussy" line? If women get offended by something as innocent/nothing as THAT, then no, we aren't going to want you to hang out with us. This isn't even getting into society pushing social justice horsesh*t onto us by enforcing the HR double-standard that "women have to be included and 'feel welcomed'" in everything, but the same rule doesn't apply to men. It's not women's fault, but anytime you are told you HAVE to not only include someone, but HAVE to change things to suit that someone, it's going to build up massive resentment for that person. That's why the analogy I used before about a dude bringing his girlfriend/wife to a guy's night annoys us so much. Every man should be allowed to have his men's time just like women are allowed to have their ladies night.

"Do you have a girl in your group you consider one of the guys?" No, no I don't. I used to host small Meetup. com events back in the States. We've had PLENTY of times when we made plans and someone brought an unexpected female guest with us, and later on, we cut them out of the group for disrespecting the protocol and essentially ruining the night by bringing along a Karen that took a giant piss all over everything. And we've had some nights when women were brought along in advance as well, but we all knew it wasn't going to be a social night out, and instead, more like a professional dinner, as if we're with co-workers or something. But regardless, you NEVER bring unexpected guests to a group night out, no matter their gender.

So, as I said, it's possible for one to exist. I'm sure some other men have had a tomboy/feminine woman in their group of men when out. But most women are just too sensitive/easily offended for us to want to put up with that sh*t, even the dykes, who just end up being a try-hard too much.

[Lynx122]

I have a housemate that's a girl and had one before this one as well. I think we get along pretty well but there does seem to be some kind of barrier still between us. It's not that I personally reject her but there always does seem to come a point where she seems to want something more from us and seems to think we're not fully accepting her or something. It's not often and it's never explicitly spoken about but I have noticed this moment a few times. I don't know exactly what else it is she wants.

It also doesn't help that her and the guy who's renting us the rooms are sleeping together. That has led to some awkward moments as well.

I think in general if a girl has the right attitude it can go pretty well but there are some things, some dynamics between guys and why we act a certain way that a girl can't really understand and she has to be able to accept that she can't be part of everything.

[LastQueenOfScotland]

Can be friends but not one of the boys if that makes any sense sorry

[butt1234]

Oh my god girl you can be one of the boys don't mind these muscle heads telling you anything else. At least, you can be one of my boys! Alright peace and love hope you don't encounter more blockhead boys like the ones telling you you can not be "one of the boys". :)

[spartan55]

Nope. If one somehow gets through perimeter security, and make it to watch NFL Sunday it's a miracle.
These women ALWAYS talk the talk... and then end being imposters

[Valnac]

Yeah I knew one when I was a kid, and later in high school she got hot!

[havingfun101]

Opposite sex friends are narcissistic supply and pathetic orbiters.

[In_Trance]

Yeah, but..

[ColHathi]

I don't, but I wish I did.

[TheFlak38]

Thats called a whore.

[Nayyr]

No..