What does it mean when a guy asks you to a movie?

Question

The guy that I'm with always tells me " We can't go to public places it would be better if you come to my appartment we're gonna have fun, watch movies and have snacks and we can swim) but I don't feel good about this what should I do?

Answer 1

VIVANT | 429 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Why don’t you discuss this with him?

Thank here is no way to know his intentions from what he said. If either myself or my boyfriend said these things we would mean it literally and there would be no reason for the other person to be confused.

I say communicate. if he is a decent guy he will be upfront. If he’s not decent the fact you are wanting him to be transparent will chase him Away~ which is good. 😊😊

Saraaa7

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Yeah you're absolutely right👏🏼👍

Answer 2

Saraaa7

Yeah you're absolutely right👏🏼👍

Answer 3

Anonymous

It means he wants to "date" you, but mostly have sex with you without other people knowing. Which likely means he's seeing someone else. Were I you, I would just simply decline and move on.

Saraaa7

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I'm trying to but the problem is I'm already attached to him, how can I move on?
Opinion Owner

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The knowledge that he's seeing and probably sleeping with other people isn't enough? That he doesn't want to be seen with you in public? Respects you so little that he's doing all that AND still has the audacity to continue trying to sleep with you?
Saraaa7

4 d
Yeah, I should block him

Answer 4

Saraaa7

I'm trying to but the problem is I'm already attached to him, how can I move on?

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

The knowledge that he's seeing and probably sleeping with other people isn't enough? That he doesn't want to be seen with you in public? Respects you so little that he's doing all that AND still has the audacity to continue trying to sleep with you?

Answer 6

Saraaa7

Yeah, I should block him

Answer 7

slatyb | 1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You should decline and suggest a location where you do feel safe. If he can't understand that then dump him, he's not a nice person.

Saraaa7

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You're right 👍👍

Answer 8

Saraaa7

You're right 👍👍

Answer 9

justicebeiber

Xper 1

If he's your boyfriend you should find out his intentions asap. You can always decline if things don't go as planned. If he is horny but really loves you a lot, he'll prefer not losing you over some unwanted one sided sex.

Saraaa7

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He's not my boyfriend. But he act like he is. He always calls me baby- babe and nice stuff like that but he already mentioed that we're just friends. That's why I'm really confused.
justicebeiber

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Oh boy. Then its a red flag.
Saraaa7

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Can you be more specific?
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justicebeiber

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He probably wants to get laid. Some guys are really good at playing casual and cool and will manipulate you into thinking that they are just friends. My suggestion is be cautious, and avoid meeting privately. If he's really after sex he'll get frustated and stop talking to you (which is best for you)
Saraaa7

3 d
Actually you're totally right. I have to dump him

Answer 10

Saraaa7

He's not my boyfriend. But he act like he is. He always calls me baby- babe and nice stuff like that but he already mentioed that we're just friends. That's why I'm really confused.

Answer 11

justicebeiber

Oh boy. Then its a red flag.

Answer 12

Saraaa7

Can you be more specific?

Answer 13

justicebeiber

He probably wants to get laid. Some guys are really good at playing casual and cool and will manipulate you into thinking that they are just friends. My suggestion is be cautious, and avoid meeting privately. If he's really after sex he'll get frustated and stop talking to you (which is best for you)

Answer 14

Saraaa7

Actually you're totally right. I have to dump him

Answer 15

neidabakedd

Xper 4

He tryna smash. He should want to show you off

Saraaa7

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Agree👍

Answer 16

Saraaa7

Agree👍

Answer 17

Anonymous

He wants to get to know you and hold your hand

Opinion Owner

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Watch out though, he might try to sneak a kiss too
Saraaa7

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I wil

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

Watch out though, he might try to sneak a kiss too

Answer 19

Saraaa7

I wil

Answer 20

Anonymous

That he is alone and lonely and horny

Saraaa7

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But I really don't want to have sex with him ( It doesn't mean that I don't like him) I like him but I'm not ready for this stuff
Opinion Owner

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You would need to make that clear before going there but being alone in his apartment makes you vulnerable

Answer 21

Saraaa7

But I really don't want to have sex with him ( It doesn't mean that I don't like him) I like him but I'm not ready for this stuff

Answer 22

Opinion Owner

You would need to make that clear before going there but being alone in his apartment makes you vulnerable

Answer 23

Anonymous

He wants sum fuk

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