Why women are so oblivious to the fact a guy have a crush on them?

[SashaAMB]

We are taught not to be conceited. We are shown pictures from birth of “perfect” and unattainable beauty standards, starting with Disney Princesses and moving up to high fashion magazines. And we are not taught that men can be shy and nervous if they like us - we are taught that they say mean things and “pull out pigtails” if they like us, normalizing inferior treatment.

So when quality men are being quality to us, we don’t think it means anything because we aren’t Disney Princesses so why would nice guys like us.