If a guy stalks me online daily, is it safe to say that he likes me and thus I should approach him?

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btbc92 | 2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Are you kidding me? That should not be normal and isn't. You don't know who this man is, and you shouldn't be so quick to talk and befriend strangers online. Period. And it's up to you as an adult, but its dangerous and not wise.

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he's a senior in school, but we are barely close...
btbc92

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You don't KNOW the GUY!! I don't care if he is a senior in school. You don't know him enough to make that assessment. You befriend a person. He cannot just like you because he doesn't know you. He likes what he sees and likes what he may get from you. But that's it. If your looking for love, I highly suggest rethinking that. For men, they approach for sex. Period. If that is not what your offering or desiring he will give his attention to others who will. If he is not a friend that you are close to, he wants sex. That's it. And will use "dating" to get it. He shouldn't be stalking you. You decide if you want to talk to him, but I personally say you shouldn't if your not prepared to be disappointed. They aren't looking for idealized love. Either you are going to be sexual with this guy or not, and if not they go elsewhere. If he wanted something more and develop, he would start communicating and not expect you to approach him. None of that indicates like except sexual desires.
btbc92

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It all depends on what your beliefs are about sex, love and romance, and men. But I will not lie to you. And it's best you not be naive about it. You decide what you want.
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btbc92

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Again, get to know the person and develop a relationship with him, or expect a sexual relationship from the guy. Not love. You have to understand this is all sex based and hypersexualized. For men sex is love, and sex is about what they want sexually and what you want so they can benefit in the end. As is for women now. However, women who are inclined to love will be heartbroken, and men who are seeking love are called gay or not interested. So it depends on what you again, believe and want. But that is the reality of men today. It is no longer the victorian era where men have had to fight for your interest unless you always had the interest. This is purely either sexual interest or he is just curious about your life. You still need to talk to him. And you need to get to know who he really is before you make costly mistakes that could have been prevented. At the end of the day, what do YOU want and what is your intent with this senior?
btbc92

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You're going to do what you want anyway if that is again what you want. But since I personally don't know you, I cannot tell you what to do anyway. But either way, I know a guy acts like that, and I don't know him that well, I would not assume he likes me. He doesn't know me enough to do so, it is purely infatuation or lust. Something I do not like with guys who do so. I am a person and if that man is interested in getting to know me, he will understand what I want and what my boundaries and desires are. If he cannot respect them or it's not what he wants, he is wasting his time and he is not hurting my feelings by playing "love" games. Love is not a game, and it should be true, real, and authentic. Not these games people play. Again I don't know your beliefs, but I wouldn't want you hurt and be used because of naiveness. And you do not want to create meanings to things that aren't there or what you want. Because any guy will give you attention when they want something as does women to guys mostly. But if you want a friendship and develop something real, they tell you that. They don't send mixed signals and they don't try to get you to chase them. That is all it is. And you shouldn't take the bait. If he is so interested, call him out on it and let him be a man about it instead of games. He shouldn't be "stalking" you if he doesn't even have a genuine interest in what you're doing in your life and how you two elevate each other. You can tell if you have a beneficial relationship by how they treat you. Look at what he is doing and actually evaluate this person before you make any permanent decision. This is a perfect time for you to scope out WHO he is. Because they won't be too honest in person. If he is doing all of that, but you know basically nothing from his profile, red flags.

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he's a senior in school, but we are barely close...

Answer 3

btbc92

You don't KNOW the GUY!! I don't care if he is a senior in school. You don't know him enough to make that assessment. You befriend a person. He cannot just like you because he doesn't know you. He likes what he sees and likes what he may get from you. But that's it. If your looking for love, I highly suggest rethinking that. For men, they approach for sex. Period. If that is not what your offering or desiring he will give his attention to others who will. If he is not a friend that you are close to, he wants sex. That's it. And will use "dating" to get it. He shouldn't be stalking you. You decide if you want to talk to him, but I personally say you shouldn't if your not prepared to be disappointed. They aren't looking for idealized love. Either you are going to be sexual with this guy or not, and if not they go elsewhere. If he wanted something more and develop, he would start communicating and not expect you to approach him. None of that indicates like except sexual desires.

Answer 4

btbc92

It all depends on what your beliefs are about sex, love and romance, and men. But I will not lie to you. And it's best you not be naive about it. You decide what you want.

Answer 5

btbc92

Again, get to know the person and develop a relationship with him, or expect a sexual relationship from the guy. Not love. You have to understand this is all sex based and hypersexualized. For men sex is love, and sex is about what they want sexually and what you want so they can benefit in the end. As is for women now. However, women who are inclined to love will be heartbroken, and men who are seeking love are called gay or not interested. So it depends on what you again, believe and want. But that is the reality of men today. It is no longer the victorian era where men have had to fight for your interest unless you always had the interest. This is purely either sexual interest or he is just curious about your life. You still need to talk to him. And you need to get to know who he really is before you make costly mistakes that could have been prevented. At the end of the day, what do YOU want and what is your intent with this senior?

Answer 6

btbc92

You're going to do what you want anyway if that is again what you want. But since I personally don't know you, I cannot tell you what to do anyway. But either way, I know a guy acts like that, and I don't know him that well, I would not assume he likes me. He doesn't know me enough to do so, it is purely infatuation or lust. Something I do not like with guys who do so. I am a person and if that man is interested in getting to know me, he will understand what I want and what my boundaries and desires are. If he cannot respect them or it's not what he wants, he is wasting his time and he is not hurting my feelings by playing "love" games. Love is not a game, and it should be true, real, and authentic. Not these games people play. Again I don't know your beliefs, but I wouldn't want you hurt and be used because of naiveness. And you do not want to create meanings to things that aren't there or what you want. Because any guy will give you attention when they want something as does women to guys mostly. But if you want a friendship and develop something real, they tell you that. They don't send mixed signals and they don't try to get you to chase them. That is all it is. And you shouldn't take the bait. If he is so interested, call him out on it and let him be a man about it instead of games. He shouldn't be "stalking" you if he doesn't even have a genuine interest in what you're doing in your life and how you two elevate each other. You can tell if you have a beneficial relationship by how they treat you. Look at what he is doing and actually evaluate this person before you make any permanent decision. This is a perfect time for you to scope out WHO he is. Because they won't be too honest in person. If he is doing all of that, but you know basically nothing from his profile, red flags.

Answer 7

ChrisMaster69 | 69 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Possibly yes or he is just simply weird.

tread carefully

Answer 8

spartan55 | 15K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

No, that's not safe to assume at all.

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Stevefiveo | 57 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 4

Yes. But how do you know that?

Answer 10

chriscdi | 2.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

id say so yea

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