Friends with benefits?

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I have a friend with benefits. We have been doing this for almost 2 years. Last December he had become distant. When I asked him what was wrong he would get mad and tell me there is nothing wrong. It seems he is only interested in me when I meet up with someone else. Then he constantly calls and texts me. What is going on? Please help!

Answer 1

JuliaStyles

Xper 6

They are only your friend for sex. Otherwise you have no claim on them or what they do. Your friend should feel the same. Unfortunately sometimes one catches some feelings which is probably happening. I don't think you are dense and can probably see this if the put 2 and 2 together.

Barbarajo

10 d
It is just weird because we were hot and heavy. Then since December he acts distant. I don’t see him as much as we used to. Then when I say let’s meet up today... he’s like I can’t. Then I ask when... he responds we will soon. I am getting mixed messages.
JuliaStyles

10 d
Of course. What would you do if you fell in love with someone and they didn't feel the same? You would probably distance yourself too.
Barbarajo

10 d
So do you think he was falling for me?
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JuliaStyles

10 d
Ok, well maybe you do need to put 2 and 2 together.
Barbarajo

10 d
I just have never had a friends with benefits this is all new to me. I just wish he was more open.
JuliaStyles

10 d
You are 45 and have no idea what a no strings attached friend with benefits is? It's really not that different from a fuck buddy.
Barbarajo

10 d
I do know... but what I don’t understand we were so hot and heavy with each other for over a year then all of a sudden he became distant
JuliaStyles

9 d
Because it was just frantic sex and no feeling or anything but sex at that time.

Answer 2

Barbarajo

It is just weird because we were hot and heavy. Then since December he acts distant. I don’t see him as much as we used to. Then when I say let’s meet up today... he’s like I can’t. Then I ask when... he responds we will soon. I am getting mixed messages.

Answer 3

JuliaStyles

Of course. What would you do if you fell in love with someone and they didn't feel the same? You would probably distance yourself too.

Answer 4

Barbarajo

So do you think he was falling for me?

Answer 5

JuliaStyles

Ok, well maybe you do need to put 2 and 2 together.

Answer 6

Barbarajo

I just have never had a friends with benefits this is all new to me. I just wish he was more open.

Answer 7

JuliaStyles

You are 45 and have no idea what a no strings attached friend with benefits is? It's really not that different from a fuck buddy.

Answer 8

Barbarajo

I do know... but what I don’t understand we were so hot and heavy with each other for over a year then all of a sudden he became distant

Answer 9

JuliaStyles

Because it was just frantic sex and no feeling or anything but sex at that time.

Answer 10

scuff1986 | 346 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Seems like this may be more of a he's fallen for you even if he doesn't actually want you and gets jealous when you go off with others... Guess he wanted maybe more exclusive friends with benefits so you would be his only

Answer 11

sheikalana | 559 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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That's what friends with benefits do.

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